I'm getting hooked on cheating

[liqueur]

What you’re describing isn’t just cheating, it’s a reclaiming. A reclaiming of your desire, your autonomy, the parts of yourself that routine and monogamy sometimes quietly bury. The sneaking around, the double life, the delicious tension of almost getting caught… it’s not just about sex. It’s about feeling alive.

This!↑ and this is exactly what draws me to women like this.

 

[Kolejdayz]

This!↑ and this is exactly what draws me to women like this.

Me too

 

[Crownvic]

Its the thrill and excitement of danger as well as new heat and lust is incredible to experience.

Hot and edgey...

 

[MuscularNudity]

Juggling lovers can be addictive. And it's a thrill when someone in a relationship just has to have your body

 

[Claudia6]

I feel that sex is sex and love is something much greater. I wish society was more accepting of sex as a healthy form of expression. I would not have a problem with my wife being sexually active with others as long as it was done respectfully and didn’t interfere with our relationship.

ich denke es gibt auch andere Ehemänner die so denken und dadurch ein Plus beim Sex haben!

 

[Kolejdayz]

ich denke es gibt auch andere Ehemänner die so denken und dadurch ein Plus beim Sex haben!

More husbands than you think accept that their wives are sexual beings and are happy indeed to be their wives enablers

 

[Claudia6]

More husbands than you think accept that their wives are sexual beings and are happy indeed to be their wives enablers

nicht nur akzeptieren, sie möchten es sogar gern und es macht sie mega geil!

 

[Sin__D]

Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.

 

[Scotchlander]

Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.

It does not make you a bad person if nobody is hurt. I think that’s the most important thing.

 

[Freckgirl]

Something similar is happening to me , I want to continue but he wants to just be with the other girl couple. And I am very jelous of her because she is younger and prettier. He wants to spend more time with her alone and we are not doing swinging as often. And when we do we go to separate rooms.

 

[Southernscot21]

Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.

I’d love to be a part of it

 

[der_Leser]

Exakt

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.

I’ve had a very similar experience.

 

[KentBloke63]

Something similar is happening to me , I want to continue but he wants to just be with the other girl couple. And I am very jelous of her because she is younger and prettier. He wants to spend more time with her alone and we are not doing swinging as often. And when we do we go to separate rooms.

That’s not sounding like mutual fun anymore.

 

[Highwayczar]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.

Yes I agree it can be absolutely addicting.

Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.

There is absolutely no judgement here. I have enjoyed the thrill of having an erotic relationship on the side. It is exciting and addictive! It is also absolutely HOT AF!

 

[KentBloke63]

Let’s face it, all of us here has either cheated or has fantasised about it. It’s what we do. It’s in our DNA. Once you’re over the moral dilemma, and in some cases denial, it’s something we all enjoy

 

[TonyF862]

Something similar is happening to me , I want to continue but he wants to just be with the other girl couple. And I am very jelous of her because she is younger and prettier. He wants to spend more time with her alone and we are not doing swinging as often. And when we do we go to separate rooms.

Are you free to enjoy whatever you’d like?

 

[matureman32]

Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.

Most of us here have our own secret indulgences. Keep on loving yours!