I'm easy...

I'm even easier...

I like flowers.. but I prefer carnations... but I dont need them..

I dont own any diamonds, dont want any. I only have 5 pieces of jewelry I wear: my wedding ring, my engagement ring (a claddaugh), a silver pinky ring with two kitties on it, a charm bracelet (when I remember to wear it) and my necklace that serves as my day collar. I dont have use for any other jewelry

I like books... I like music.. but you dont need to buy me anything

In fact, wanna show me you love me? wanna make a "grand gesture" to tell me you love me..

hold my hand... kiss my forehead when I'm tired and whiny... watch a movie with me that you might not particularly want to watch but know I'll love.

how about.. just tell me you love me.
 
A question for those females who enjoy celebrating Valentines Day.

What do you like to give in return?
 
I'm even easier...

I like flowers.. but I prefer carnations... but I dont need them..

I dont own any diamonds, dont want any. I only have 5 pieces of jewelry I wear: my wedding ring, my engagement ring (a claddaugh), a silver pinky ring with two kitties on it, a charm bracelet (when I remember to wear it) and my necklace that serves as my day collar. I dont have use for any other jewelry

I like books... I like music.. but you dont need to buy me anything

In fact, wanna show me you love me? wanna make a "grand gesture" to tell me you love me..

hold my hand... kiss my forehead when I'm tired and whiny... watch a movie with me that you might not particularly want to watch but know I'll love.

how about.. just tell me you love me.

Whereas I just wish for contact of some description. Mmm, theres easy and theres easy...think I need to up my expectations a little lol :rolleyes:
 
usually I find something that Malin or Master wouldnt buy for themselves... and make a day of it. It's waking up to something special.. a card.. dinner.. I cant put in here what I'd get.. malin reads it..but for Master, it might be a model that he's wanted but wont buy himself because he sees it as frivolous.. or a video game, for the same reason..or ..I might go to the latest scary/slasher film with Malin. He likes going to the movies with me..but I HATE those movies...

but it usually comes down to asking for ideas.. and then trying to spoil them

I tell my guys a lot..every day..how much I love them... I try and spoil them all the time...
 
Valentines day? I am simple.. Give me a card and tell me you love me, Id rather you make something for me rather than buy me something,m flowers do die and they never last as long as Id like... I get told everyday I am loved.... and this year I have Sir in my life.. we shall see .. What happens with this... since he reads my posts I have no idea what he will do or say.. I know since we dont live near one another it wil be a text message day or email.. =0)
 
A question for those females who enjoy celebrating Valentines Day.

What do you like to give in return?

At this point I guess I should say hot sex lol

It depends who it is and what they like I guess, but generally I just like to pamper.

Last year, I made my M some vids I think and pics and wrote to him. I sent ecards lol, we text eachother and if I recall spoke on the phone too, becuase I was in the UK at that point.

With my ex husband. I would prepare the house...you know, set the scene a little with soft music and candles (though I would do that often to be honest). I'd run him a bath for when he got in from work, cook him a romantic dinner. We'd open some wine and just sit and chat


oh yeah....and hot sex too ;)
 
A question for those females who enjoy celebrating Valentines Day.

What do you like to give in return?

When I have someone to share Valentines with, I prefer to pamper. Cooking the favorite meal, pay attention to the things he has mentioned liking and surprising him with something he didn't realize I caught, giving a massage, just finding ways other than the expected to show him how much he enriches my life. I've learned over the years not to expect much when it comes to Valentines. I've never agreed with the forced commercialism of it anyway. I would much rather receive a letter saying how he feels, or even something from the heart that shows he knows me than flowers or jewelry that are supposed to be associated with the day. I'm sentimental at heart.
 
I'm easy too.

Gimme a card, tell me you love me (or at least want me to beat you), kneel or sit on the floor with your head on my knee... The presence of my girl is quite enough, thank you.

Wanna make it really special?

Damned if I know what you can do. There's nothing I really need, there isn't anything terribly special or exotic or exciting I desire. I am content with my life where it is and with what I have.

Actually, now that I think about there are a few things I would desire.

Signed first editions of certain authors who have passed away and I have no chance of getting the autographs myself. Asimov, Heinlein, Verne, Wells...

THOSE are things I would treasure. *sighs* Where's CM when I'm missing a kinky librarian?
 
I pay the bills in my house so I don't want anything--expensive or not. (I rather be able to afford to send thekids to college in a few years)

I do want time though. I want my husband to come home from work before 7. Eat dinner as a family then send the kids off to their rooms. Then no TV, no laptops, no working from home. Just he and I having a drink, maybe sharing a dessert and spending time as a couple. That's all I want. Hopefully it will be what he wants, too. But I will also make sure the house is clean and we have a meat based dinner.
 
I'd give ADR some blingy thingies but I can't afford anything outside of the quarter machines at the grocery store, and those keep getting recalled for lead paint. So not romantical! ;(

Seriously J, I don't really "do" Valentine's Day usually, though I did get something for my Domme this year. But flowers are expensive this time of year, and chocolate makes me sick anymore, I don't wear a lot of jewelry or lingerie. A new book or music that I'm wanting would be nice, but we just had Christmas and my birthday not too long ago and I tend to get that stuff in my Easter Basket. (Yes, my mom still sends us Easter Baskets every spring. But they've always been light on the candy and heavy on the small gifts.)

So anyway, Ms. T did get us all prezzies (I don't know what it is yet because I have to wait until tomorrow) and she's having a small party tomorrow night. The most precious gift I could ask her for is more time. We get one night a week that's all mine, but I've been so sick all winter that it's been heavy on the pampering and snuggling and TLC (which is great! I love and appreciate it) but light on the Naughties (which I miss). So tomorrow night, we're all having a catered dinner with her at her house.
 
Okay you guys have gotten way too serious in this thread.... By now, I bet some of you actually believe that I am this shallow,


Lighten up!!! LOL

I can't say what I like to give in return. Even on a porn board, I'd be too embarrassed. But no one's ever been unhappy with that particular gift. (I've always said it's like doing CPR: Even a bad job's better than none.)

I've also in the past bought opera tickets for that HIM. Those were a huge hit, as you can imagine.
 
Okay you guys have gotten way too serious in this thread.... By now, I bet some of you actually believe that I am this shallow,


Lighten up!!! LOL

I can't say what I like to give in return. Even on a porn board, I'd be too embarrassed. But no one's ever been unhappy with that particular gift. (I've always said it's like doing CPR: Even a bad job's better than none.)

I've also in the past bought opera tickets for that HIM. Those were a huge hit, as you can imagine.


I don't think you're that shallow! Have another marsupial, these ones are small: http://www.sugar-glider.fr/avatar_sugar-glider.jpg

Now, about those opera tickets? Which one was it? I thought I didn't like opera, but a local theater broadcasts opera every saturday afternoon (sometime Live! From New York! The Met that is...) and I saw Tosca last month and it totally blew me the fuck away. Now I'm having dreadful fantasies about whatisface, Scarpia? Scarpio?
 
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I don't think you're that shallow! Have another marsupial, these ones are small: http://www.sugar-glider.fr/avatar_sugar-glider.jpg


Now, about those opera tickets? Which one was it? I thought I didn't like opera, but a local theater broadcasts opera every saturday afternoon (sometime Live! From New York! The Met that is...) and I saw Tosca last month and it totally blew me the fuck away. Now I'm having dreadful fantasies about whatisface, Scarpia? Scarpio?


*sigh* Opera tickets...

Those beat diamonds in my book.
 
I guess I'm shallow, because I love getting expensive gifts for V-day.

BRING ON THE ICE! :D
 
Let's see, here is my way of being.

You brought me nothing? Good! We agreed to celebrate another day and place/ and/or I don't feel so bad since I brought noffin. Whew!

You brought me jewelry? My first thought, (after Pretty!) is going to be, I could have used that money for a trip or something.

You brought me flowers? Sweet!

You brought me donuts? My first thought is that I don't need to put on weight.

Honestly, I'd rather do something with you. Honestly that's the truth. Dinner out, a movie, a basketball game that WE play together, a hotel room, shooting range, botanical gardens, picnic, anything together, when we aren't too fucking tired. :D
 
I'm really easy. Anything beats the shit out of what I usually get. :rolleyes:
 
A question for those females who enjoy celebrating Valentines Day.

What do you like to give in return?


If we made a deal out of Valentine's Day (which we don't) I would prepare and pack a special meal along with a couple of his favorite imported brews and set up a picnic spot on the beach. It sounds trite and unoriginal but he adores the beach and we spend loads of time there just walking and talking. I have something I am working on that relates to the 130 year old house he has restored and lives in.. but the research is killing me. If I have it finished by his birthday in June it will be a miracle. Anyway, that is the kind of thing that appeals to us.

Now, enquiring minds want to know why you asked this question. It is too specific to be random. ;):)
 
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I'm a little bit selfish when it comes to V-day...only because I usually go all out for stuff like Father's Day (which since I call my beau "daddy", I use as an excuse to buy him stuff), his birthday, Christmas and Halloween, etc.

I think of V-day as 'my holiday' and although I will go out and get him a gift and make him (sometimes buy him) a card and write him a love note, most of the time I'm wanting something really special and romantic.

I have yet to get the dozen-roses, pearl earrings, lunch at expensive restaurant, shopping spree at Bath n Body works I really want, tho-...*le sigh*
 
I like to give cards, silky underwear, sex toys, flowers, books, coupons, candy, wine, nights out at hotels, special dinners cooked in our ordered out, picnics, theater tickets and massages.

BTW, each time I make him lunch for him to take to work I include a little love note.

I always get something for me as well, red hots! It's just not valentines without them.

I give the kids, cards, meals, sweets, rentals, movies and other things I'm sure. This year, I asked them what they wanted. One wanted to make muffins, the other wanted to watch a werewolf movie. I never expected them to be so easy. LOL.

Oh, I got a card and roses today. He is working tomorrow.

Funny I could have sworn we agreed that we would do nothing and have a date on Saturday.

Now, here is the big problem, keeping the roses out of the paws of the cats. LOL.

:heart::heart::heart:
 
A question for those females who enjoy celebrating Valentines Day.

What do you like to give in return?

I hand stitched a pretty little valentine heart that says "Love is a happy revelation"

and signed the back in blood.

:D
 
When I have someone to share Valentines with, I prefer to pamper. Cooking the favorite meal, pay attention to the things he has mentioned liking and surprising him with something he didn't realize I caught, giving a massage, just finding ways other than the expected to show him how much he enriches my life. I've learned over the years not to expect much when it comes to Valentines. I've never agreed with the forced commercialism of it anyway. I would much rather receive a letter saying how he feels, or even something from the heart that shows he knows me than flowers or jewelry that are supposed to be associated with the day. I'm sentimental at heart.

Wow.... this sounds absolutely perfect... I have craved things like this for so many years, but have never gotten them. Remembering the little things is so very special. For valentine's day this year, I can't think of anything I would want more than a partner who can do things like this.

Made... You are such a wonderful person, whoever does snap you up would be very lucky indeed.
:rose:
 
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