If you woke up in the morning and realized you did something sexually embarrassing during the night?

[CurtGiles46]

How would you feel if you woke up in the morning and realized you did something sexually embarrassing during the night?

My 80 year old uncle recently told me and my brother that when he was in college in the late 1960’s, one morning he woke up nude in bed with a male friend.

My uncle said his ass felt sore like he had been fucked in the ass during the night. My uncle wasn’t gay and had never done that before so this was shocking. He wasn’t sure but he thought it was possible that the male friend had drugged him during the night to fuck him. He was afraid to confront the friend about it so he just fled his apartment as soon as possible.

My uncle seemed okay talking about this and he never suggested that what happened made him feel “gay” or “feminine”.

However, I can imagine some men might feel insecure after an event like that and worry that other people might think they were gay.

How would you feel if you woke up and realized you’ve done something sexually embarrassing?

Consider the weirdest possibilities, like a niece waking up nude in bed with her uncle or a brother and sister waking up nude in each other’s arms.

Or waking up nude in bed spooning with your wife’s brother or dad.

Would you just accept it and try to forget about it?

 

[anniebaby10]

unless you were totally drunk or drugged, how could you not know what happened? If that happened to me, I would be going to the police.

 

[Katch123]

How would you feel if you woke up in the morning and realized you did something sexually embarrassing during the night?

My 80 year old uncle recently told me and my brother that when he was in college in the late 1960’s, one morning he woke up nude in bed with a male friend.

My uncle said his ass felt sore like he had been fucked in the ass during the night. My uncle wasn’t gay and had never done that before so this was shocking. He wasn’t sure but he thought it was possible that the male friend had drugged him during the night to fuck him. He was afraid to confront the friend about it so he just fled his apartment as soon as possible.

My uncle seemed okay talking about this and he never suggested that what happened made him feel “gay” or “feminine”.

However, I can imagine some men might feel insecure after an event like that and worry that other people might think they were gay.

How would you feel if you woke up and realized you’ve done something sexually embarrassing?

Consider the weirdest possibilities, like a niece waking up nude in bed with her uncle or a brother and sister waking up nude in each other’s arms.

Or waking up nude in bed spooning with your wife’s brother or dad.

Would you just accept it and try to forget about it?

I'd act on it.Why not?

 

[Goldenfinger]

How would you feel if you woke up in the morning and realized you did something sexually embarrassing during the night?

My 80 year old uncle recently told me and my brother that when he was in college in the late 1960’s, one morning he woke up nude in bed with a male friend.

My uncle said his ass felt sore like he had been fucked in the ass during the night. My uncle wasn’t gay and had never done that before so this was shocking. He wasn’t sure but he thought it was possible that the male friend had drugged him during the night to fuck him. He was afraid to confront the friend about it so he just fled his apartment as soon as possible.

My uncle seemed okay talking about this and he never suggested that what happened made him feel “gay” or “feminine”.

However, I can imagine some men might feel insecure after an event like that and worry that other people might think they were gay.

How would you feel if you woke up and realized you’ve done something sexually embarrassing?

Consider the weirdest possibilities, like a niece waking up nude in bed with her uncle or a brother and sister waking up nude in each other’s arms.

Or waking up nude in bed spooning with your wife’s brother or dad.

Would you just accept it and try to forget about it?

That’s not things going to far. He was Cosbyed. we call that rape.

 

[Katch123]

When I was youngr, brother once told me I masturbated in my sleep. Is that a thing? How is that even possible?

 

[Goldenfinger]

I got pretty wasted. I went to go pass out and this girl came with me. I guess we started to have sex and thats when I passed out. Not really embarrassing cause I would not of known. and probably not the worst experience while wasted.

 

[SearchandEnjoy]

The only time I have had a situation where I woke up not knowing what MAY have happened was when I was a freshman in college (I was 18) and I went on Spring Break with 3 other girls from my dorm. We rented a motel room for the week in Daytona and had been out bar hopping and checking out guys. We ended up bringing 4 guys back to our motel room to continue partying. It was crowded with 8 of us in the one room but it did at least have two queensize beds, and a sofa so there was space to sit and lounge around for everyone.
I remember making out with “my guy” and I was not accustomed to drinking very much so I assume I passed out. The next morning I woke up and there were two guys still in the room and two had apparently left at some point.
When I went into the bathroom to pee I discovered my PANTIES were on me BACKWARDS! The guy I had been kissing the night before was one of the two who had left and I don’t know if we (or he) did anything with me after I passed out…. But I have to suspect he at least had my shorts and panties off of me at some point and tried to re-dress me so I wouldn’t know. I was on birth control so not worried about an unwanted pregnancy, but I was disappointed that I may have had sex and yet “missed it” instead of enjoying it.
I asked the other 3 girls if they saw me doing anything but they said at about 2AM the guys decided to turn out ALL the lights in the motel room for privacy. The other 3 girls admittedly had consensual sex with their guys but couldn’t see others in the dark.

 

[Elizasboss]

How about waking up with your sister while spooning her and finding out you had full on sex

 

[vibes]

“missed it” instead of enjoying it.

More than missed sex it's called rape

 

[SearchandEnjoy]

More than missed sex it's called rape

It was over 20 years ago and I have no proof, just suspicion.

 

[vibes]

It was over 20 years ago and I have no proof, just suspicion.

I didn't mean you should report it, I just said that if your assumptions were grounded then it would be rape

 

[Elizasboss]

y

When I was youngr, brother once told me I masturbated in my sleep. Is that a thing? How is that when possible?

up that is possible i have seen my sister touch herself in her sleep a few times

 

[Elizasboss]

The only time I have had a situation where I woke up not knowing what MAY have happened was when I was a freshman in college (I was 18) and I went on Spring Break with 3 other girls from my dorm. We rented a motel room for the week in Daytona and had been out bar hopping and checking out guys. We ended up bringing 4 guys back to our motel room to continue partying. It was crowded with 8 of us in the one room but it did at least have two queensize beds, and a sofa so there was space to sit and lounge around for everyone.
I remember making out with “my guy” and I was not accustomed to drinking very much so I assume I passed out. The next morning I woke up and there were two guys still in the room and two had apparently left at some point.
When I went into the bathroom to pee I discovered my PANTIES were on me BACKWARDS! The guy I had been kissing the night before was one of the two who had left and I don’t know if we (or he) did anything with me after I passed out…. But I have to suspect he at least had my shorts and panties off of me at some point and tried to re-dress me so I wouldn’t know. I was on birth control so not worried about an unwanted pregnancy, but I was disappointed that I may have had sex and yet “missed it” instead of enjoying it.
I asked the other 3 girls if they saw me doing anything but they said at about 2AM the guys decided to turn out ALL the lights in the motel room for privacy. The other 3 girls admittedly had consensual sex with their guys but couldn’t see others in the dark.

well could you ever find out later?
i assume he did have sex with you or maybe not just him you know

 

[AppleCucumber]

I was half asleep on the couch when a familiar cock appeared and I was told to suck it. Two other guys were in the room watching porn and I think I sucked them too.
I remember waking up with cum on my face. It wasn't a facial I think I didn't swallow and just let it dribble out.

 

[agedmac]

How would you feel if you woke up in the morning and realized you did something sexually embarrassing during the night?

My 80 year old uncle recently told me and my brother that when he was in college in the late 1960’s, one morning he woke up nude in bed with a male friend.

My uncle said his ass felt sore like he had been fucked in the ass during the night. My uncle wasn’t gay and had never done that before so this was shocking. He wasn’t sure but he thought it was possible that the male friend had drugged him during the night to fuck him. He was afraid to confront the friend about it so he just fled his apartment as soon as possible.

My uncle seemed okay talking about this and he never suggested that what happened made him feel “gay” or “feminine”.

However, I can imagine some men might feel insecure after an event like that and worry that other people might think they were gay.

How would you feel if you woke up and realized you’ve done something sexually embarrassing?

Consider the weirdest possibilities, like a niece waking up nude in bed with her uncle or a brother and sister waking up nude in each other’s arms.

Or waking up nude in bed spooning with your wife’s brother or dad.

Would you just accept it and try to forget about it?

Was visiting a friend's home after we ended our Spring term at college. His mother was constantly flirting with me. Her son was beat and went to bed and I said I'd be up in his room soon. By the time I got to his room, I was pretty sure his mom was flashing that she had no panties under her shorty nighty. I went to the head and decided at the last moment to wander back downstairs where his mom was still watching TV. Oh, did I mention that I was naked and as hard as I could be. She giggled (which was quite a thrill, to be honest) and patted the lounge chair next to her on the couch. She then slid off the couch and knelt in front of me. She extended her tongue and moved my pre-cum all over my hard cock. BUT then we heard her son moving around upstairs and I raced back upstairs and put on my underwear. So nothing happened except when I awoke the next morning......my underwear was gone and she had wrapped my cock in her panties....... Needless to say, I filled them up. Went downstairs to have a cup of coffee. I put my hand on her bare thigh and opened her legs.......then I pushed her panties, now soaked with my cum, up into her pussy. I would have to wait almost five years for another chance.......at her son's wedding.....in her backyard late at night

 

[crissynh50pt]

Was visiting a friend's home after we ended our Spring term at college. His mother was constantly flirting with me. Her son was beat and went to bed and I said I'd be up in his room soon. By the time I got to his room, I was pretty sure his mom was flashing that she had no panties under her shorty nighty. I went to the head and decided at the last moment to wander back downstairs where his mom was still watching TV. Oh, did I mention that I was naked and as hard as I could be. She giggled (which was quite a thrill, to be honest) and patted the lounge chair next to her on the couch. She then slid off the couch and knelt in front of me. She extended her tongue and moved my pre-cum all over my hard cock. BUT then we heard her son moving around upstairs and I raced back upstairs and put on my underwear. So nothing happened except when I awoke the next morning......my underwear was gone and she had wrapped my cock in her panties....... Needless to say, I filled them up. Went downstairs to have a cup of coffee. I put my hand on her bare thigh and opened her legs.......then I pushed her panties, now soaked with my cum, up into her pussy. I would have to wait almost five years for another chance.......at her son's wedding.....in her backyard late at night

ooh you were on of my sons friends??

 

[easyoff]

How about waking up with your sister while spooning her and finding out you had full on sex

That would call for a repeat session in the morning.

 

[Conquen69]

My wife and I were pretty buzzed one night. I was going down on her and she fell asleep. I kept eating her pussy but soon fell asleep myself. I woke up with my face in her pussy.

 

[Elizasboss]

That would call for a repeat session in the morning.

Ha ha good one

 

[RipRespon]

I have a few incidents from getting too drunk and letting things go too far, my cousin's bachelor party being the most embarrassing and humiliating, but only for me and not my wife who laughed it all off as good fun.

She wouldn't let me go (pictured strippers and prostitutes) so knowing her fears were overrated my cousin invited her to join us. She came dressed as a dom, (full leather) whip and all, but covered it with a pull over sweater until we got in the school bus to go strip club bouncing. Before I knew it she was topless, getting fondled, spanking the guys on their bare asses, letting the guys spank her thong covered ass, and giving full contact lap dances. I was in shock because the group consisted of 3 cousins, my brother, 2 good friends of mine, and 3 employees (I was in business with my cousin getting married). As I got drunker so did my wife (who gets horny and out of control when drunk) and after the 2nd strip club she had stripped completely naked in the bus letting guys finger her completely soaking wet pussy to orgasm. And if that wasn't enough, I decided in my drunken state that she needed to become the ultimate slut and so I ordered her to suck someone off. Of course she chose the bachelor (my cousin). After that she blew a few more cocks and fucked at least 2 guys (neither of us could remember much of the last two hours.

The next day I'm mortified that my wife had become the slut prostitute that she was afraid we'd have at the bachelor party. It was tough facing my family members and employees after, but since it had been such a crazy night, everyone had sworn to secrecy and other than a few questions like, "do you let your wife do that often?" it was never mentioned again.

At least not until my cousin's daughter got married last year and a few of us who attended that bachelor party so many years earlier brought it up and we discussed how that had been a once in a lifetime experience.

 

[Ashfordbloke]

I once got wasted at a friend's place and stayed over. I gt up for a pee early on the morning and, still pretty drunk, staggered into the wrong bedroom. One thing lead to another and I ended up having sex with my friend's wife... and yes, she was hammered too and thought I was her husband. She kept calling me Brian, his name, and was definitely aware enough to consent... and pulled me on top of her and guided me into her pussy after I got her to come with my fingers!
When I staggered downstairs the following morning, she was already there, showered and dressed... and went scarlet when she saw me.
She told me that the sex was great, it could NEVER happen again, swore me to absolute secrecy and I was never to stay over again...
I am not entirely sure if I am embarrassed by the experience but she sure as hell was!!

 

[Katch123]

Im not sure about your premise, getting turned on is a biological responce to stimulation. It can be audio, visual, mental(self) or physical. I suppose it depends how easily a person gets embarrassed in general.

 

[lokiboy]

The only time I have had a situation where I woke up not knowing what MAY have happened was when I was a freshman in college (I was 18) and I went on Spring Break with 3 other girls from my dorm. We rented a motel room for the week in Daytona and had been out bar hopping and checking out guys. We ended up bringing 4 guys back to our motel room to continue partying. It was crowded with 8 of us in the one room but it did at least have two queensize beds, and a sofa so there was space to sit and lounge around for everyone.
I remember making out with “my guy” and I was not accustomed to drinking very much so I assume I passed out. The next morning I woke up and there were two guys still in the room and two had apparently left at some point.
When I went into the bathroom to pee I discovered my PANTIES were on me BACKWARDS! The guy I had been kissing the night before was one of the two who had left and I don’t know if we (or he) did anything with me after I passed out…. But I have to suspect he at least had my shorts and panties off of me at some point and tried to re-dress me so I wouldn’t know. I was on birth control so not worried about an unwanted pregnancy, but I was disappointed that I may have had sex and yet “missed it” instead of enjoying it.
I asked the other 3 girls if they saw me doing anything but they said at about 2AM the guys decided to turn out ALL the lights in the motel room for privacy. The other 3 girls admittedly had consensual sex with their guys but couldn’t see others in the dark.

I know it's different for every girl, but wouldn't you have had some idea that you had sex within the last few hours? Like maybe a little sore or something? Every girl I talked to when around the same age, always said they would feel the 'aftereffects' of sex for a while afterwards.

 

[SexyVita]

So, I'm having trouble figuring out what I might have done in the night and then been embarrassed in the morning. I mean maybe if I woke up next to someone wildly inappropriate, like someone that was married and not in an open relationship, or my boss, or something? Even then, I'd probably pass it off as a one time "Oops!" and not do it again.

 

[SilentSometimes]

I feel the need to clarify your examples that you are calling “sexually embarrassing”:

My 80 year old uncle recently told me and my brother that when he was in college in the late 1960’s, one morning he woke up nude in bed with a male friend.

My uncle said his ass felt sore like he had been fucked in the ass during the night. My uncle wasn’t gay and had never done that before so this was shocking. He wasn’t sure but he thought it was possible that the male friend had drugged him during the night to fuck him. He was afraid to confront the friend about it so he just fled his apartment as soon as possible.

So that’s an example of rape and the fact that your uncle never tried to report it because he thought “people might think he’s gay” is a good example of how toxic masculinity can make someone not feel safe enough to report an assault.


And if none of the examples below were consensual because something took place while they were unconscious: that’s not “sexually embarrassing” it’s also assault and possibly rape, depending on what happened.

Consider the weirdest possibilities, like a niece waking up nude in bed with her uncle or a brother and sister waking up nude in each other’s arms.

Or waking up nude in bed spooning with your wife’s brother or dad.

Like, who is going to bed with clothes on and waking up naked, next to their uncle and their reaction is embarrassment and not immediate fear or concern for their well being?