If You Can Choose An Orgasm Occuring?

[Live4themoments]

Since it is almost impossible to have an orgasm at the same time as your partner, here is a question.

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

As a 2nd part question:

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Her orgasm is the important one. It depends on how we are having sex but she usually cum first.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Since it is almost impossible to have an orgasm at the same time as your partner, here is a question.

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

As a 2nd part question:

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

Why do you say it is almost impossible.
If you have been with the same partner long enough
and you know each other's bodies and reactions and how it feels when your partner is almost there,
It really is something you can do.

 

[Cuckwannabe111]

Her orgasms are more important than mine. She ALWAYS cums first, a few times, from me eating her out

 

[5FingerShuffle]

My wife always cums first. I love when she cums on my cock and when she’s still shaking from orgasm I like to spray a hot load deep inside.

Whenever I shoot in her pussy her eyes always widen with lust…

 

[Britva415]

Why do you say it is almost impossible.
If you have been with the same partner long enough
and you know each other's bodies and reactions and how it feels when your partner is almost there,
It really is something you can do.

agreed, I’ve done this with 6 partners. Each of them was, if not a full-blown LTR, these 6 were at least a several-months regular and frequent fuckbuddy.

It hasn’t happened with someone I had sex with less than about 40 times or so.

 

[NOBGE]

Since it is almost impossible to have an orgasm at the same time as your partner, here is a question.

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

As a 2nd part question:

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

I prefer to bring her to an orgasm first.

 

[ChuckWolf]

I like extended foreplay and I want my female partner to orgasm first and then try to time my orgasm with her second one.

The idea of eating out a pussy that I've just cum in, really repulses me, so that's just not on the table.

 

[Lucien_Al]

She is almost always first. Most of the time with me either going down on her while stimulating her g spot. This is our favourite as it is normally the more intense orgasm and she will often carry on to a second. If she squirts she finds the intensity too much to carry on. The other is normally with her on top and we try our best to be as close to being together as we can.

If we are doing prostate play she will normally bring me off and while I recover she will bring herself off with a wand and dildo.

 

[Britva415]

Unlike seemingly most men I don’t crash after coming, so, it doesn’t matter a lot who comes first. If she does, great - I give her lots of attention and plenty of time for this to happen. If, along the way, I have mine, the party doesn’t stop and she still gets hers.

I find that me coming tends to get her there before long after - often, just moments.

 

[Foxed]

Since it is almost impossible to have an orgasm at the same time as your partner, here is a question.

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

As a 2nd part question:

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

We absolutely can cum together, and often do. Otherwise, normally her first

 

[easyoff]

I always want to make the person(s) I'm with cum first. male or female

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I always want to make the person(s) I'm with cum first. male or female

Same. It’s burned in my brain for better or worse

 

[wouldloveto]

Lover first is the idea, and the ideal.

I have not always lived up to that, but I try.

 

[BDA73]

Definatley want her to cum first..thst way there is no worry or guilt for cumming if she hasnt

 

[verysimplegal]

Since it is almost impossible to have an orgasm at the same time as your partner, here is a question.

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

As a 2nd part question:

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

I like having a couple before my lover does. Then when he finally cums in me id like to have one at the same time. But that usually doesnt happen.

 

[munch2much]

I like having a couple before my lover does. Then when he finally cums in me id like to have one at the same time. But that usually doesnt happen.

Now that is ambitious. If I’ve made a girl cum already, most often the next time will be fingers or tongue. That said my last 2 gf’s have been super orgasmic. Definitely a rarity. Unless I’m just getting better at it.


Super hot if you can cum 3 times just from him inside you

 

[bethany_s]

Since it’s not as easy for me to orgasm from sex he usually always takes care of me first during foreplay. Sometimes I can from sex and that triggers him to finish at the same time

 

[verysimplegal]

Now that is ambitious. If I’ve made a girl cum already, most often the next time will be fingers or tongue. That said my last 2 gf’s have been super orgasmic. Definitely a rarity. Unless I’m just getting better at it.


Super hot if you can cum 3 times just from him inside you

Sometimes i use a toy on my pearl as he’s inside me.

 

[Justhappytobealive]

My best orgasm is without her. And two very hung gentleman stretching my mouth at the same time as I stimulate myself.

I’ve never broke out in a sweat like that ever in my life…..

 

[Hmm72]

I like having a couple before my lover does. Then when he finally cums in me id like to have one at the same time. But that usually doesnt happen.

Ohh well just might have to surprise you with it actually happening

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Why stop at one orgasm ? I had a relationship with a woman who basically insisted that I cum first. And that was before we even started to get into bed. Her comment was "Let's get that pesky one out of the way". She had numerous reasons why, and I couldn't find a fault with any of them .
I had numerous BJ in my car before we got to our places. Fun stuff.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

agreed, I’ve done this with 6 partners. Each of them was, if not a full-blown LTR, these 6 were at least a several-months regular and frequent fuckbuddy.

It hasn’t happened with someone I had sex with less than about 40 times or so.

That is the key.
It takes practice, working together, and paying a lot of attention to one another. Being in tune.

 

[Sienna62]

Since it is almost impossible to have an orgasm at the same time as your partner, here is a question.

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

As a 2nd part question:

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

My female partner first and always … feeds right back to me , her joy , relaxation, enjoyment and climax are everything.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Often come at roughly the same time, but if I had to choose I want her to cum -- makes me feel masculine