If everything is ok in sex , why not incest too ?

[unnissa]

If everything is ok in sex , why not incest too ?

I am having such thoughts and struggling to come to terms with it as the person concerned is very close to me !
is it a sin ?

 

[julius_1975ct]

I sent you a pm...

 

[rudrakshpathak]

If everything is ok in sex , why not incest too ?

I am having such thoughts and struggling to come to terms with it as the person concerned is very close to me !
is it a sin ?

to be close to a person and do express ones sexuality is never wrong
I understand the guilt but you examine whether the guilt is due to social pressure or due to something else
we've been conditioned to believe that sex is wrong, soon we found out it is not so
similarity, you'll find that about incest too.
it's aa part of your sexuality.
if you're consenting adults practicing behind closed doors, nothing should stop you.
chances are, these feelings are not going to go away.
I suggest you at least enjoy the fantasizing
I have some insights into incest and certain amazing incidences to share.

 

[julius_1975ct]

Unnissa your inbox is full.

 

[Hans101]

What CONSENTING ADULTS do together in private that causes harm to no one is not a moral issue.

 

[magicalmoments]

What CONSENTING ADULTS do together in private that causes harm to no one is not a moral issue.

Most followers of mainstream religions would disagree with you.
Personally I agree with you, but just saying...

 

[unnissa]

Most followers of mainstream religions would disagree with you.
Personally I agree with you, but just saying...

Yes ya !
i too feel it in liberal mode but afraid to take the plunge and not ready to divulge the person !
but it is very erotic if i think it !

 

[Hans101]

Most followers of mainstream religions would disagree with you.
Personally I agree with you, but just saying...

When opinions trump empirical reality, I'll be sure to consult them.

 

[Emmcee20]

Beautiful avatar Unnissa and I love the movie you have in your profile. It is one of my favourite milk movies. I would love the opportunity again to drink directly from the cup of human kindness!

I am not sure that generally you will get the answer to your dilemma on Lit - most people here are more in the liberal mode when they log on. How close is the person you are interested in? Have you any indication that s/he is interested in you in any way other than the norm?

 

[unnissa]

Beautiful avatar Unnissa and I love the movie you have in your profile. It is one of my favourite milk movies. I would love the opportunity again to drink directly from the cup of human kindness!

I am not sure that generally you will get the answer to your dilemma on Lit - most people here are more in the liberal mode when they log on. How close is the person you are interested in? Have you any indication that s/he is interested in you in any way other than the norm?

very very close ! sort of enticing me or enjoying my moves !
it is just that we are sort of initiating the sexual process without accepting it or not having the guts to do so !

 

[TJReilly]

If everything is ok in sex , why not incest too ?

I am having such thoughts and struggling to come to terms with it as the person concerned is very close to me !
is it a sin ?

Is it a sin? That depends on your religion and how strong your faith is. If you have no faith, then nothing is a sin. Only God/Allah can answer your question.

 

[HussarVanburen]

Yes, incest is flagrantly immoral and disgusting beyond words in reality. Commiting such an act is rightfully illegal and ought to remain so.

"Consenting adults" is an excuse for degeneracy in this case. I'd put incest up there with pedophilia and beastiality.

 

[Dickstroker81]

Yes, incest is flagrantly immoral and disgusting beyond words in reality. Commiting such an act is rightfully illegal and ought to remain so.

"Consenting adults" is an excuse for degeneracy in this case. I'd put incest up there with pedophilia and beastiality.

I could not disagree with you more. Consenting adults is not an excuse for anything. If two, or more, consenting adults want to have sex together regardless of their relationship to each other, so what.

 

[sandie350]

hi unnissa.....if you asking is it wrong to have sex with family or close relations......then it probably is,and as a person who has had family sex,and still does.....it is risky.....from possibly having kids view.
but as a woman who is also an escort/whore......sex between consenting adults is not wrong and as long as both agree to fuck........i see no harm in it. in my case...family sex is more about lust,than reproduction.....im 40 now and have been a whore since my teens.........

 

[MilkFountain]

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[unnissa]

hi unnissa.....if you asking is it wrong to have sex with family or close relations......then it probably is,and as a person who has had family sex,and still does.....it is risky.....from possibly having kids view.
but as a woman who is also an escort/whore......sex between consenting adults is not wrong and as long as both agree to fuck........i see no harm in it. in my case...family sex is more about lust,than reproduction.....im 40 now and have been a whore since my teens.........

You are blunt n forthright sandy dr ! you have the guts to describe you in such words. nobody is not like dear especially the open minded like u:
as for my request ,
thanks to you and all friends who are suggesting so much .

i resigned to my islam :s ...

Masha ALlah ' !0

everything is by d blessings of allah ,
so does my incest too !

if allah destined me to get this pleasure vide incest , let it be so !

 

[xtinelauren1]

Yes, incest is flagrantly immoral and disgusting beyond words in reality. Commiting such an act is rightfully illegal and ought to remain so.

"Consenting adults" is an excuse for degeneracy in this case. I'd put incest up there with pedophilia and beastiality.

I agree 100%. I understand why people have the fetishes they do and am pretty open minded, but actually wanting to engage in something like this is really disturbing. There are probably some other deep seated issues you should look into if you're actually considering something like this.

 

[FantasySharer]

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[xtinelauren1]

That is so fucking creepy. Fantasizing about it is one thing, writing stories about it is one thing but actually acting upon it is disturbing and gross. Sorry.
I do agree with it not being the same as pedophilia(although I can't imagine a father/mother/uncle, etc or older sibling developing sexual feelings towards another family member just happened to start as soon as they got old enough to engage in sex, so). If you're okay with fucking a member of your immediate family there are probably other issues that need to be addressed there. I'm not religious at all, quite the opposite, actually, but this is just not okay. And not everything is "okay" in sex, either.

 

[xtinelauren1]

And the argument that incestuous relationships are okay as long as there is consent is flawed.

"Many incestuous relationships are not completely consensual. This argument states that many families have power dynamics which make some family members vulnerable to exploitation by others. Accordingly, the incestuous relationship may be the result of a senior family member using their power to coerce another family member into the relationship (either overtly, or through "sexual grooming"). Where I'm from this justification is reflected in the law as the definition of "incest" includes relationships where the parties are merely related by law rather than by blood (e.g. an adopted child)."

 

[FantasySharer]

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[xtinelauren1]

Incest and homosexuality are not one in the same. Saying homosexual sex involving a man putting his penis in "another's man waste cavity, a cesspool of human waste and bacteria, totally not meant for a sexual organ." while a brother and sister having sex at least involves a penis and vagina is just implying that the only right way to engage in sex is with male and female organs, so even if their brother and sister, it's totally okay.

Being gay is an orientation and comparing the two is completely incorrect and unfair.

 

[Dickstroker81]

Consider this scenario. A 60 year old widowed mother has a recently divorced forty year old son. Rather than maintain two homes for financial reasons they decide to share one home. One evening the mother happens to walk past the son's room and sees him looking at porn and stroking a huge boner. Feeling sorry for him she decides to "take matters into her own hands". That leads to taking him into her mouth, her pussy, etc. Eventually they decide why wash two sets of sheets and decide to share one bed and live like a married couple. What is the problem, nothing was forced on either of them. They both had sexual needs and desires that are now satisfied. No problem in my book. If the same scenario exists and it is father/daughter rather than mother/son, still no problem to me.

 

[FantasySharer]

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[unnissa]

Oh allah !
so many arguments and so righetous ones on both sides !
great to know your views friends and allah may bless u all !
but i m more confused on taking sides !