Ideal Cock Size

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

I've had many cocks, I actually get turned on by the variety or the 'many of them'.
I never bring up the subject of size with them, or comparing with them. that can have neg affect on them?
but - secretly I do desire a huge one. one that takes two hands to jackoff. I can picture myself trying to work it into my pussy cowgirl etc.
yes, I like variety in my life.

 

[davion2308]

I'm not going to lie, I enjoy the other direction from the big dicks. Give me a 3.5 or 4 incher that gets really, really hard and I'll suck it until I milk that guy's balls completely empty.

 

[Artfan2]

I've had many cocks, I actually get turned on by the variety or the 'many of them'.
I never bring up the subject of size with them, or comparing with them. that can have neg affect on them?
but - secretly I do desire a huge one. one that takes two hands to jackoff. I can picture myself trying to work it into my pussy cowgirl etc.
yes, I like variety in my life.

That sounds like a good approach. Variety is the spice of life.

 

[jennstar]

I appreciate the different cock sizes in general. I recently had an 6 inch cock which was not huge but felt like a ton go fully into my rectum. That felt like a giant thing to me. That was really an experience.

 

[Mtnmike]

I've had many cocks, I actually get turned on by the variety or the 'many of them'.
I never bring up the subject of size with them, or comparing with them. that can have neg affect on them?
but - secretly I do desire a huge one. one that takes two hands to jackoff. I can picture myself trying to work it into my pussy cowgirl etc.
yes, I like variety in my life.

Good to hear there's another polite lady who doesn't cock shame & enjoys what she has at the time.

 

[Mtnmike]

my ex bf had about 7 inches and after sometime i could take it fully with lube in my rectum.

Yeah anal & virginia are 2 totally different aspects. I can see needing something a little smaller for the backdoor.

 

[Mtnmike]

One should take what can be digested... Lol

I could tell you a story about my 1st marriage but not on an open forum, I get embarrassed by it, only told a couple close friends.

 

[Mtnmike]

Yeah anal & virginia are 2 totally different aspects. I can see needing something a little smaller for the backdoor.

Dang spell check, y'all know what I mean lol.

 

[Islander55]

I guess at my age if it is nice and hard, I am going to be just fine. To echo another sentiment, variety is rather nice. You do not want to eat the same thing all the time so a different cock does spice things up. It is not just the cock but the entire experience with a new man.

 

[Bigspurt]

I guess at my age if it is nice and hard, I am going to be just fine. To echo another sentiment, variety is rather nice. You do not want to eat the same thing all the time so a different cock does spice things up. It is not just the cock but the entire experience with a new man.

Well said! Same goes for women. Different boobs and be pussies add to the excitement.

 

[Islander55]

Well said! Same goes for women. Different boobs and be pussies add to the excitement.

Exactly. My husband admits to liking women a bit on the heavy side with the nice bubble butt and the big tits. Since I am on the slender side, it would be a natural change for him to enjoy.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Just had this discussion with my fiance, and we both agree... In our experience, the smaller guys make up with effort what they lack in size. The big ones are wonderful and exciting, but unless you want to be sore for 3 days, it's almost better to have a well endowed guy who isn't as eager. It's fun and hot to take a pounding from a rock-hard 8 inches, but there are consequences .

Takeaway: A disciplined soldier will hit his target with any weapon.

 

[Ritaraj]

U

I could tell you a story about my 1st marriage but not on an open forum, I get embarrassed by it, only told a couple close friends.

U can message me

 

[PenLightStories]

Just had this discussion with my fiance, and we both agree... In our experience, the smaller guys make up with effort what they lack in size. The big ones are wonderful and exciting, but unless you want to be sore for 3 days, it's almost better to have a well endowed guy who isn't as eager. It's fun and hot to take a pounding from a rock-hard 8 inches, but there are consequences .

Takeaway: A disciplined soldier will hit his target with any weapon.

I have flexible hips and groin muscles which makes up for not being "the biggest" and it makes me think that not being too big is better all the way around.

The fact that I'm not huge allows me to get that full thrust motion that makes fucking fun and I can't imagine having sex without being able to fully enter someone. I'm not interested in hurting someone *like that* but you could feel a warehouse with what I don't understand about sex from a woman's experience.... so I'm willing to follow instructions if she's enjoying it.

I swear I don't think my penis is that big but I've had multiple partners tell me I was their "biggest" or told me "I can feel you in my stomach" (whatever that means anatomically, I don't know).

My takeaway is that a mix of "style and need" are what we're trying to fulfill here? Feedback appreciated.

 

[Herkermer2]

I noticed that some of the ladies that like them big, will usually give a length preference. However, when it comes to girth most seem to just say thick.
Im assuming it is because length in a straight direction is easier to visualize than the length in regards to a circumference/girth.
Or are there some that just don’t want to admit that they need/want something bigger than the thick standard(5.5”-6”) it appears this thread has unofficially labeled as thick?

 

[Mtnmike]

I guess at my age if it is nice and hard, I am going to be just fine. To echo another sentiment, variety is rather nice. You do not want to eat the same thing all the time so a different cock does spice things up. It is not just the cock but the entire experience with a new man.

Thank You for saying that.

 

[hotcpu]

I guess at my age if it is nice and hard, I am going to be just fine. To echo another sentiment, variety is rather nice. You do not want to eat the same thing all the time so a different cock does spice things up. It is not just the cock but the entire experience with a new man.

Refreshing and well said

 

[Islander55]

Thank You for saying that.

I think we often let porn cloud our thinking of what a good time is all about. It is not all about wild and sweaty sex. If you go out and have a good time or just hang around the house and for a quiet evening, it is not really that hard to shift into some fun intimacy.

 

[BluegrassBelle]

I've been able top experience a few cocks in my time and I will say that the one " hung" gentleman was quite full of himself and in no way able to bring me to orgasm. Apparently at some point, someone had told him having a big cock was all the skill he needed as a lover and as such he was pretty much a 4 stroke battering ram and then done.
The gentleman I had the pleasure of bedding who was on the smaller side was a very sweet and very attentive lover but was sadly very caught up on the fact that he was not well endowed and as such actual penetrative sex with him wasn't all that great.
Mr. Bluegrass is average in length but is quite girthy which makes vaginal penetration quite enjoyable but wears out the jaw for oral something terrible. Our other lover is not quite so girthy but it does have a nice thick head and a delicious curve. Both have what I would call "pretty" cocks. Lovely to look at and smooth and silken to hold.
For me it's less about size and more about skill. I know that's cliche' but it's true.

 

[hotcpu]

Exactly. My husband admits to liking women a bit on the heavy side with the nice bubble butt and the big tits. Since I am on the slender side, it would be a natural change for him to enjoy.

Slender side ... Intriguing

 

[gcs2718]

I'm a bi-male who likes sucking off and fucking all sizes of cocks to give their owners' pleasure. But if we're talking ideals I like length but just average girth for sucking because I love taking it balls deep down my throat and the reaction it elicits from him. I have swallowed an average girth 8 incher until his balls were pressed against my chin. He said he'd never been throated his full length before and that made me proud, and made him moan with bliss! As far as my ass goes, with enough preparation and lube I haven't found any cocks I couldn't handle, whether it's length, girth or both. I love the feeling of being stuffed with hard cock and the feeling of taking his long, deep thrusts back there.

 

[Mtnmike]

I've been able top experience a few cocks in my time and I will say that the one " hung" gentleman was quite full of himself and in no way able to bring me to orgasm. Apparently at some point, someone had told him having a big cock was all the skill he needed as a lover and as such he was pretty much a 4 stroke battering ram and then done.
The gentleman I had the pleasure of bedding who was on the smaller side was a very sweet and very attentive lover but was sadly very caught up on the fact that he was not well endowed and as such actual penetrative sex with him wasn't all that great.
Mr. Bluegrass is average in length but is quite girthy which makes vaginal penetration quite enjoyable but wears out the jaw for oral something terrible. Our other lover is not quite so girthy but it does have a nice thick head and a delicious curve. Both have what I would call "pretty" cocks. Lovely to look at and smooth and silken to hold.
For me it's less about size and more about skill. I know that's cliche' but it's true.

Thank You also, good to hear some of you ladies are more into "motion of the ocean" instead of "the size of the ship".

 

[Islander55]

Slender side ... Intriguing

I was very skinny as a kid. I have put on some weight over the years and possibly I should not be using slender to describe myself these days.

 

[hotcpu]

I was very skinny as a kid. I have put on some weight over the years and possibly I should not be using slender to describe myself these days.

I think that relates to us all ... "put on weight over the years" ... Still intrigued

 

[Islander55]

I think that relates to us all ... "put on weight over the years" ... Still intrigued

When I was younger, I constantly lamented having very small boobs and being very thin. At 64, I find I am quite content with my body. A lot of the women that i envied when I was young, not so much anymore. I consider myself very average in looks. No outstanding features but no hideous features either. I am into fitness and an avid hiker which I think is a big help as we get older.