Ideal Cock Size

[Rockymtnman]

I've written about this countless times here on Lit. But since you asked....

My dick is huge, it's 8 1/8" long (properly measured! - ie., insertable length) and it's 6 1/4" around (girth). And being so long and girthy has NEVER been ANY kind of an advantage with ANY partner. Despite being a very considerate lover, I end up hitting every partners cervix in every practical sex position. This means my pubic bone and her vulval never come in contact - which is frustrating for both of us. .. And because of my very thick girth blowjobs hurt my partner's jaw and almost always result in teeth scraping, and anal sex is understandably a non-starter (maybe not every woman's "thing" - but some do enjoy it ). Heck, for some of my partners, just basic PIV was a challenge because of my girth.

Most guys can insert their penis and pump away without worrying about causing pain, but not me. I've got to carefully calibrate EVERY in-stroke or I see my partner wince because I've bumped her cervix - which is a clear indication of discomfort (contrary to the gaslighting we get from Porn). And ALL of these problems only get worse as your partner ages. These days, my gorgeous 60 yr old wife can endure just a few minutes of my being inside of her despite using damn near 1/4 tube of lube and my going surgically slow and shallow. Our solution? She has me use a much slimmer and shorter dildo (6" of insertable length, 5" girth) on her. While my wife truly loves and is attracted to me, she prefers a having a rubber dick inside of her to me!! While I totally understand why, it still bums me out. Tell me, Is that really something a guy should want?

All of my frustrations from having such a big penis are shared by my wife as well. She would love to be able to occasionally just climb on top of me or pull me on top of her and have me pump away with abandon. ..Nope, that has never happened and never will.

My wife openly admits that when she fantasizes about other men (which is healthy and normal - her go to is the Duke from Bridgerton) she imagines he has a shorter and MUCH slimmer dick - one that's easy to suck and painless to fuck.

edit: I will say that a big dick is nice for have for Hand jobs and Titty Fucking (I hate that term, but know of no other for it). Other than that, be happy with average, it's wayyy better.

Got a buddy who’s got a horse cock, he has lost more women than he can count because of it. Says it is legit 10 and some change. He became very cautious about dating because of it. I’m a tad larger than average at a little over 6, never measured girth, and have never been worried about being bigger. No complaints from my wife or any other woman I’ve been with.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Got a buddy who’s got a horse cock, he has lost more women than he can count because of it. Says it is legit 10 and some change. He became very cautious about dating because of it. I’m a tad larger than average at a little over 6, never measured girth, and have never been worried about being bigger. No complaints from my wife or any other woman I’ve been with.

I would also bet that you'd get no complaints from any man you'd be with.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Mine is seven and a half and about five and a half girth wise. I get extremely strong erections and have never had complaints. My wife loves it. It is more of a grower and not a shower! Lol. It provides me with extreme pleasure.

 

[HotWifeOC]

Mine is seven and a half and about five and a half girth wise. I get extremely strong erections and have never had complaints. My wife loves it. It is more of a grower and not a shower! Lol. It provides me with extreme pleasure.

Yummy

 

[tylersteve234]

I'll say6 1/2" to 7" with an average girth of 5".
Perfect for all 3 holes.

L

Love this

 

[lil_jenni]

My Hubby's. I don't know the measurements because we've never measured it. But in my experience, a tad longer than many and thicker than most I've seen in RL. It stretches and fills without being too much of either. Just perfect, for me.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Yummy

Cheers!

 

[Slickflboy07]

Umm…yours?

 

[Underrick]

Actually I prefer average to small ones. 6 " or less. I'm not into anal at all. I like cocks that fit comfortably in my mouth and I can really work with my lips and tongue. Big dicks maybe interesting to look at, but I'm not doing anything else with it.

 

[LMWM321]

I think Pornography's glorification of huge cocks is inherently misogynist. Even though the evidence is clear that most women prefer a near-average size dick, porn relentlessly celebrates ones that would be painful for the average woman.

Ugh.

 

[Jw75766]

I'm just under 7", girth is a little over 5". My wife enjoys anal occasionally which I'm so grateful for but she's said if I was much bigger, anal would be too uncomfortable. I'm already too big for her to suck on so, for me, bigger isn't always better though I'm jealous of guys with monster cocks. I'd love to impress ladies whipping out a monster (well, on here, not in person now).

 

[Bearded_one]

I'm 7 inches with 6 inch girth and a upward curve. Wife says it's perfect

 

[lil_jenni]

My Hubby's. I don't know the measurements because we've never measured it. But in my experience, a tad longer than many and thicker than most I've seen in RL. It stretches and fills without being too much of either. Just perfect, for me.

I was thinking about this last night as I was worshiping Hubby's cock, and I was in a playful mood because I had such a pleasant day yesterday. So, I decided to measure him. It was a first for us both, as I had never measured him or any other guy, and he had never measured himself.
Using the methodology given at https://calcsd.info, he measured:

NBP length: 6"
BP length: 6 1/4" (90th percentile)
Girth (circumference): 5 7/8" (99th percentile)

So, like I always thought based on my experience, a bit longer than average and a lot thicker.

Also, according to the above website, he's 99th percentile for penile volume. That's not a measure I'd thought of before. I have never thought of myself as a size queen because I didn't like long cocks, but I guess the numbers make me a volume queen...

Seriously, I've been with quite a few guys who were longer than Hubby, but that's never really done it for me because lots of reasons. But I've only been with a handful thicker, and that's out of lots of examples. So, I'm thinking the website's pretty much on point there, at least for girth.

 

[Melody_Lightdraft2]

Got a buddy who’s got a horse cock, he has lost more women than he can count because of it. Says it is legit 10 and some change. He became very cautious about dating because of it. I’m a tad larger than average at a little over 6, never measured girth, and have never been worried about being bigger. No complaints from my wife or any other woman I’ve been with.

Although technically other than a Centaur, no human male is hung like a horse, (a stallion is around 26 inches in length, 6 in girth.)
Don't ask, it's amazing what writers have to research.

 

[grinchy99]

My wife has really enjoyed toys in the 7-7.5 range and a girth around 5.5.

 

[LMWM321]

he has lost more women than he can count because of it. Says it is legit 10 and some change

I'm curious as to how he's approaching sex that women would bail on him because of his length? I mean, doesn't he assure them that he won't be forcing his entire length inside of her - whether it fits or not??

Girth, of course, is a different matter. There's no way to insert just part of your girth - It's either all, or nothing. When woman have declined sex w/ me over my outlier size (8 1/8" long, 6 1/4" girth), it was the girth that was deal-breaker.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

That’s mine!

My wife has really enjoyed toys in the 7-7.5 range and a girth around 5.5.

!

 

[Glassnslate]

I was thinking about this last night as I was worshiping Hubby's cock, and I was in a playful mood because I had such a pleasant day yesterday. So, I decided to measure him. It was a first for us both, as I had never measured him or any other guy, and he had never measured himself.
Using the methodology given at https://calcsd.info, he measured:

NBP length: 6"
BP length: 6 1/4" (90th percentile)
Girth (circumference): 5 7/8" (99th percentile)

So, like I always thought based on my experience, a bit longer than average and a lot thicker.

Also, according to the above website, he's 99th percentile for penile volume. That's not a measure I'd thought of before. I have never thought of myself as a size queen because I didn't like long cocks, but I guess the numbers make me a volume queen...

Seriously, I've been with quite a few guys who were longer than Hubby, but that's never really done it for me because lots of reasons. But I've only been with a handful thicker, and that's out of lots of examples. So, I'm thinking the website's pretty much on point there, at least for girth.

I wonder how many 99%ers there are around here.

 

[problemagain]

I stumbled across a article about a British guy who had 10", think 25 cm, and had surgery to add girth with fat injections. On the page the article appeared on there was a poll about penis size and something like 70% said size alone was unimportant, there was no information on the sex of the voters.

Just saying.

i had a friend who flew to tokyo and had the silicone implants to make his dick bigger. he told me his wife loved it but he didnt feel much of anything anymore. might be a cautionary tale

 

[Rockymtnman]

I'm curious as to how he's approaching sex that women would bail on him because of his length? I mean, doesn't he assure them that he won't be forcing his entire length inside of her - whether it fits or not??

Girth, of course, is a different matter. There's no way to insert just part of your girth - It's either all, or nothing. When woman have declined sex w/ me over my outlier size (8 1/8" long, 6 1/4" girth), it was the girth that was deal-breaker.

From what he has told me he usually is honest with them when it gets close to that part of a new relationship. He’s literally had them look at it and go nope. It’s pretty thick too from what he’s told me. He and I have had a few conversations over the years about it, usually after a break up and he has been drinking. He has had women that were fine with it but the relationship never really went anywhere. He thought about porn for a bit but he’s been balding since college, scrawny and not what one would call handsome.

 

[Rockymtnman]

i had a friend who flew to tokyo and had the silicone implants to make his dick bigger. he told me his wife loved it but he didnt feel much of anything anymore. might be a cautionary tale

I thought this was BS. You learn something new everyday! It actually is a thing.

 

[LMWM321]

From what he has told me he usually is honest with them when it gets close to that part of a new relationship. He’s literally had them look at it and go nope. It’s pretty thick too from what he’s told me. He and I have had a few conversations over the years about it, usually after a break up and he has been drinking. He has had women that were fine with it but the relationship never really went anywhere. He thought about porn for a bit but he’s been balding since college, scrawny and not what one would call handsome.

That's a shame... And I can understand it from the woman's perspective, too. After all, despite what the lunacy of Porn would have us believe, sex is NOT supposed to be painful. That said, part of the issue might be his technique - ie., refusing to take cues about going slowly, or how deep he can go. Or, perhaps there were other concomitant issues like premature, or delayed ejaculation, etc.. So that could be a part of it, too. Or, .. maybe not...maybe it WAS simply a size issue.

For me, being enormous posed more problems with one night stands - and it was mostly my girth. ..The girl just knew, no matter how horny she was, and no matter how slowly I entered her, it was going to hurt. We still fooled around, but penetration - even oral! - was off the table. Why no oral? Again, my dick is 6 1/4" around - to get an idea, bring the ends of a dollar bill together, then try to get your mouth around it. Yeah, not easy - even when I'm not fully hard. But once in a committed relationship, the girls felt dealing with the challenges were worth the effort because, well, I'm a good guy (I like to believe, anyway) and have always been a good boyfriend.

Anyway, my wife and I have found workarounds and continue to have awesome sex. But it's in spite of my huge dick, and not because of it. Given my druthers, I'd take average over enormous ANY day because guys with average girth dicks get to do things I mostly dream of.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

Here's a big brown one with a nice pinkish head.

 

[CuMex1]

According to my wife size matters but it is not the end all be all. As far as size goes she prefers girth over length though.

 

[SarahTaboo]

While I’m not too picky about size.. the bigger is always the better