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Kolejdayz said:
Are you sure you haven't
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I'm pretty sure. or at least reasonably sure. Probably. Maybe? Then again, you can never be sure who you're fucking whenever you wear a blindfold or you otherwise can't see their face. I'll give it a 50/50 shot
 
SusanHoward said:
Umm…yours? 🥰
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I've written about this countless times here on Lit. But since you asked....

My dick is huge, it's 8 1/8" long (properly measured! - ie., insertable length) and it's 6 1/4" around (girth). And being so long and girthy has NEVER been any kind of an advantage with ANY partner. Despite being a very considerate sex partner, I always end up hitting every partners cervix in every practical sex position. This means my pubic bone and her vulva never come in contact - which is frustrating for both of us. .. And because of my very thick girth blowjobs hurt my partner's jaw and almost always result in teeth scraping, and anal sex is understandably a non-starter (maybe not every woman's "thing" - but some do enjoy it ). Heck, for some of my partners, just basic PIV was a challenge because of my girth.

Most guys can insert their penis and pump away without worrying about causing pain, but not me. I've got to carefully control EVERY in-stroke or I see my partner wince because I've bumped her cervix which, contrary to the gaslighting we get from Porn, is a clear indication of discomfort. And not that it matters, but bottoming out inside of her doesn't feel great for me, either. And ALL of these problems only get worse as your partner ages. These days, my gorgeous 60 yr old wife can endure just a few minutes of my being inside of her despite using damn near 1/4 tube of lube and my going surgically slow and shallow. Our solution? She has me use a much slimmer and shorter dildo (6" of insertable length, 5" girth) on her. While my wife truly loves and is attracted to me, she prefers a having a rubber dick inside of her to me!! While I totally understand why, it still bums me out. Tell me, guys, its that really something you want?

All of my frustrations from having such a big penis are shared by my wife as well. She would love to be able to occasionally just climb on top of me or pull me on top of her and have me pump away with abandon. ..Nope, that has never happened and never will.

My wife openly admits that when she fantasizes about other men (which is healthy and normal - her go to is the Duke from Bridgerton) she imagines he has a shorter and MUCH slimmer dick - one that's easy to suck and painless to fuck.

edit: I will say that a big dick is nice for have for two-handed Hand jobs and Titty Fucking (I hate that term, but know of no other for it). :) Other than that, be happy with average, it's wayyy better.
 
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LMWM321 said:
I've written about this countless times here on Lit. But since you asked....

My dick is huge, it's 8 1/8" long (properly measured! - ie., insertable length) and it's 6 1/4" around (girth). And having such a big dick has NEVER been ANY kind of an advantage with ANY partner. Despite being a VERY considerate lover, I end up hitting every partners cervix in EVERY practical sex position. This means my pubic bone and my her vulval never come in contact - which is frustrating for both of us. ..Blowjobs hurt my partner's jaw, almost always result in teeth scraping, and anal sex (maybe not everyones bag - but some women do enjoy it ) is understandably a non-starter.

Most guys can insert their penis and pump away without worrying about causing pain, but not me. I've got to carefully calibrate EVERY in-stroke or I see my partner wince because I'm hitting her cervix - which is a clear indication of discomfort (contrary to the nonsense you see in Porn). And ALL of these problems only get worse as your partner ages. These days, my gorgeous 60 yr old wife can endure just a few minutes of my being in her despite using damn near 1/4 tube of lube and my going surgically slow and shallow. Our solution? We have a much more slender and shorter dildo (6" of insertable length, 5" girth) that I animate for her...she loves me, but prefers this rubber dick for PIV sex.

All of my frustrations over having such a big cock are my wife's frustrations with it as well. I'm sure she'd love to be able to occasionally just climb on me or pull me on top of her and have me pump away with abandon. ..Nope that has NEVER happened and never will.

My wife openly admits that when she fantasizes about other men (which is healthy and normal - her go to is the Duke from Bridgerton) she imagines he has a shorter and MUCH more slender dick - one that's easy to suck and fuck.
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Your post gives me hope. There are actually honest people in the world. Thank you for that!
 
LMWM321 said:
I've written about this countless times here on Lit. But since you asked....

My dick is huge, it's 8 1/8" long (properly measured! - ie., insertable length) and it's 6 1/4" around (girth). And being so long and girthy has NEVER been ANY kind of an advantage with ANY partner. Despite being a very considerate lover, I end up hitting every partners cervix in every practical sex position. This means my pubic bone and her vulval never come in contact - which is frustrating for both of us. .. And because of my very thick girth blowjobs hurt my partner's jaw and almost always result in teeth scraping, and anal sex is understandably a non-starter (maybe not every woman's "thing" - but some do enjoy it ). Heck, for some of my partners, just basic PIV was a challenge because of my girth.

Most guys can insert their penis and pump away without worrying about causing pain, but not me. I've got to carefully calibrate EVERY in-stroke or I see my partner wince because I've bumped her cervix - which is a clear indication of discomfort (contrary to the gaslighting we get from Porn). And ALL of these problems only get worse as your partner ages. These days, my gorgeous 60 yr old wife can endure just a few minutes of my being inside of her despite using damn near 1/4 tube of lube and my going surgically slow and shallow. Our solution? She has me use a much slimmer and shorter dildo (6" of insertable length, 5" girth) dildo on her. While my wife truly loves and is attracted to me, she prefers a having a rubber dick inside of her to me!! While I totally understand why, it still bums me out. Is that really something people should want?

All of my frustrations from having such a big penis are shared by my wife's as well. She would love to be able to occasionally just climb on top of me or pull me on top of her and have me pump away with abandon. ..Nope, that has never happened and never will.

My wife openly admits that when she fantasizes about other men (which is healthy and normal - her go to is the Duke from Bridgerton) she imagines he has a shorter and MUCH slimmer dick - one that's easy to suck and painless to fuck.

edit: I will say that a big dick is nice for have for Hand jobs and Titty Fucking (I hate that term, but know of no other for it). :) Other than that, be happy with average, it's wayyy better.
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It does make me wonder when you see women using anatomically correct pony sized dildos?
 
Melody_Lightdraft2 said:
It does make me wonder when you see women using anatomically correct pony sized dildos?
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Well... Seeing it in porn is not particularly reflective of real world preferences. And it may not even be the preference of the woman you're seeing. She could be performing for a paying audience.

As I've said before, if most women really preferred "pony sized" dildos then why is "average size" the most commonly sold size?

Besides, if bigger was always better wouldn't most women eventually ask their partner to simply fist them? I mean, the closed hand and forearm of an average 5'8" man looks roughly to be about the size horse/pony cock, right? Yet fisting continues to be a rather extreme, fringe activity. ..And one that at least some of the time is done more to appease the man's interest than the woman’s.
 
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I'd like to thank porn for giving me a complex about how big my cock ought to be. I am seriously thankful that the women I have been with appear to have been ok with what I brought to the party or were very good actors.

Thinking back, only one of those women had a noticeably larger pussy than the others. And she positively craved me (and my cock) back when we were going out. And BTW, I enjoyed her larger pussy a lot. Larger meant I didn't get that first penetration pump that sometimes makes me want to come right away. And while her pussy may have been a bit larger, it was still tight enough to provide that heavenly, warm, wet friction.

The only time I wish for a bigger cock is in the shower or locker room.
 
LMWM321 said:
I've written about this countless times here on Lit. But since you asked....

My dick is huge, it's 8 1/8" long (properly measured! - ie., insertable length) and it's 6 1/4" around (girth). And being so long and girthy has NEVER been ANY kind of an advantage with ANY partner. Despite being a very considerate lover, I end up hitting every partners cervix in every practical sex position. This means my pubic bone and her vulval never come in contact - which is frustrating for both of us. .. And because of my very thick girth blowjobs hurt my partner's jaw and almost always result in teeth scraping, and anal sex is understandably a non-starter (maybe not every woman's "thing" - but some do enjoy it ). Heck, for some of my partners, just basic PIV was a challenge because of my girth.

Most guys can insert their penis and pump away without worrying about causing pain, but not me. I've got to carefully calibrate EVERY in-stroke or I see my partner wince because I've bumped her cervix - which is a clear indication of discomfort (contrary to the gaslighting we get from Porn). And ALL of these problems only get worse as your partner ages. These days, my gorgeous 60 yr old wife can endure just a few minutes of my being inside of her despite using damn near 1/4 tube of lube and my going surgically slow and shallow. Our solution? She has me use a much slimmer and shorter dildo (6" of insertable length, 5" girth) dildo on her. While my wife truly loves and is attracted to me, she prefers a having a rubber dick inside of her to me!! While I totally understand why, it still bums me out. Tell me, Is that really something people should want?

All of my frustrations from having such a big penis are shared by my wife as well. She would love to be able to occasionally just climb on top of me or pull me on top of her and have me pump away with abandon. ..Nope, that has never happened and never will.

My wife openly admits that when she fantasizes about other men (which is healthy and normal - her go to is the Duke from Bridgerton) she imagines he has a shorter and MUCH slimmer dick - one that's easy to suck and painless to fuck.

edit: I will say that a big dick is nice for have for Hand jobs and Titty Fucking (I hate that term, but know of no other for it). :) Other than that, be happy with average, it's wayyy better.
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Dam dm me XD
 
I've always been on the 'comfortably above average' side of things. Had issues with previous partners due to incompatibility, especially around depth. One in particular who had a tilted pelvis (that we discovered through a bruising moment) made full sex completely uncomfortablefor both of us, and my wife's own being a little more shallow than others. Only an issue in certain positions where depth matters.

People are all very different, it's not just about penis size, it's also the shape and size acceptance capabilities of the receiver. If you're not compatable with one partner, chances are there will be someone naturally more capable of taking you.
 
StrongMaster7 said:
I'd like to thank porn for giving me a complex about how big my cock ought to be. I am seriously thankful that the women I have been with appear to have been ok with what I brought to the party or were very good actors.

Thinking back, only one of those women had a noticeably larger pussy than the others. And she positively craved me (and my cock) back when we were going out. And BTW, I enjoyed her larger pussy a lot. Larger meant I didn't get that first penetration pump that sometimes makes me want to come right away. And while her pussy may have been a bit larger, it was still tight enough to provide that heavenly, warm, wet friction.

The only time I wish for a bigger cock is in the shower or locker room.
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