I want to wear my wife's panties

Cardinal

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How do I tell my wife that I want to wear panties? I love the feel of them and wear hers when she is out of town. She has agreed to give me a handjob with panties but how do I take the next step?
 
Just tell her or buy your own. You can do a search on here, there are a lot of guys who love wearing panties. There is nothing wrong with that. Have fun and induldge yourself!
 
I think that if you explain that it's psychologically like prolonged penetration, that it's the idea of them being next to her skin & carrying her scent, of feeling what she feels, of symbolically being with her all day, she might be flaterred.

If your fantasies tend toward homo or transexualism, she might be frightened.
 
Hi There, I have been where you are now. just start by chatting in bed about fantices, you may be surprised what your wife fantizes about. After this let her know yours. My wife regularly dresses me in her clothes and has bought toys too.....

:)
 
Panties

My wife shops for me at apres noir, on line. We both love it (sometimes),

Hope this helps.

Layne
 
Cardinal said:
How do I tell my wife that I want to wear panties? I love the feel of them and wear hers when she is out of town. She has agreed to give me a handjob with panties but how do I take the next step?

Hmmm...

When she is stroking you with them, tell her that you wonder how they would feel on you...to feel that silky material against you all day...

Or ask her to wear panties and let you fuck her while she has them on, then slip them off of her and onto you, kiss her and tell her that you love feeling her against you all day long.

Luck, babe. ;)

S.
 
Sometimes?

Lane,
What do you mean "sometimes"? Do you have regrets? How does your wife feel about it?
 
Sometimes?

I have no regrets at all. She loves it and so do I. But it is not something I wear everyday, just on sometimes. Sometimes she likes me totally masculine, others not so masculine.

Layne
 
panties

my wife loves it when i put on her panties. the first time i wore her panties i just surprised her one nite. we even shop together when she wants new panties and she will ask if i like and will wear them. love it when she gives me a hand job and bj wearing her panties. i guess it's the wettness that gets to us. you will have to expeirment or just come out and ask.
 
Trying tonight

I am going to bring it up tonight. She ususally wears something that I like while we are watching our Saturday night movie (thong and tanktop) I will try to make a move then.
Also, some have suggested that they wear their wife's panties a lot, I have one question do they fit? My wife wears a "small" Victoria's Secret panty and I am average height and weight 6 ft 185. I am actually hoping that she will approve and buy panties for me. But that seems pretty far away right now.
If you buy panties for your man or your wife buys them for you what do you look for? What panties fit men the best?
 
trying tonite!

well? how did it go last nite? good i hope. as far as what size or style of panties to get for you or her is all on personal preference. i like my s/o panties tight or snug to high lite her assets, and as for me it doesn't matter a whole lot , she just likes the way my cock looks in shear satin silky panties, especially when they get all wet from sucking on me through the panties, and the same with her panties when i'm licking her until she cumms. panty sex can be alot of fun. good luck.
 
Meet her at the door one evening wearing a pair of her silkies?
 
I hope it all went well for you Cardinal :)

Sheath's advice is brilliant :cool:

My partner sometimes wears panties, but his own, mine are too big for him! I absolutely adore seeing him in his panties, definately a huge turn on :)
 
I have been lurking around here for awhile now.Does she know at any time that you have worn or want to wear her panties?this is how it started for me:

One Sunday morning we were fooling around before we got out of bed.Once we were out of bed, I picked up her black thong held it in front of my groin and danced around-you know,we were just horsing around.She then said" well if you like them so much,I dare you to wear them all day!",so I did.I had a hard on all day long.A couple of weeks later,I thought I'd try them again,without her knowing,again hard on all day.
A couple of weeks later,we were drink some wine-ok alot of wine-.one thing lead to another and I said ( drunk remember) that wearing her panties really turned her on-she smiled!!!She doesn't get turned on by me wearing them,she loves the fact that I'm turned on all day.Good enough for me!

Keep in mind that we are very open to each other and we have allways been into the kinky,s&m part of sex.I think that if you two are really in tune with each other,just come out and say what's on your mind.
 
Thanks in,
No she doesn't know that I have worn them and I chickened out the other night. Last night she wore a special pair for me and while she was playing with my dick I was rubbing against her panties and I am pretty sure that she noticed that. I just want to tell her but only if she will inderstand and encourage me, know what I mean?
I just think that she will dismis it or even tell me that that is not the kind of man that she wants.
Any help from the ladies here would be nice. How would you feel if you husband wanted to wear panties? and if you don't like the idea how would you react, and why?
 
Tonight's the night

I think tonight might be the night. I have cleaned the house while my wife read a bokk in bed (like most women I found the thing that turns them on the most is their husbands cleaning!)
I have had a few drinks so if or when I am "rewarded" for my cleaning I am going to bring it up.
Wish me luck!
I would also love to continue to hear from men who enjoy wearing panties and their wives understand but I would love to hear from someone who's wife does not understand and does like it or allow it.
Thanks.
 
Cardinal said:
Any help from the ladies here would be nice. How would you feel if you husband wanted to wear panties? and if you don't like the idea how would you react, and why?

I would love it if my S/O told me he wanted to wear my underwear. It wouldn't turn me on (I think), but I'd be happy knowing that he was doing something he enjoyed, and if it made him horny, all the better for me! 8-P

~Cakegirl
 
Men in panties are soooooooooo sexy. :)

If she likes the panties, then try stockings for yourself next... so silky...
 
As long as your partner enjoys and accepts it, and it doesn't do any damage to your relationship...I say go for it...(from experience)
 
Cakegirl said:
I would love it if my S/O told me he wanted to wear my underwear. It wouldn't turn me on (I think), but I'd be happy knowing that he was doing something he enjoyed, and if it made him horny, all the better for me! 8-P

~Cakegirl

It's all about the body stockings!
 
It went pretty good the other night. We were in bed and I cuddled up to her from behind. She reached around to start to stroke me and as she was lightly playing with me I began to hump her ass covered panties.
I told her that I loved the feel of her panties on my dick and she continued to lightly play with me as I slid my dick all over her panties. She said that she knew that I liked that so she took them off and gave me a handjob with her panties!!
While my head was swimming in extacy I almost asked her if I could wear them while she gave me the handjob but I didn't. After I came in her panties she cleaned me up with her panties, kissed me and said "good night panty boy!"
This was a pretty big step for me, next will have to be wearing them in bed and then asking her if she would mind if I wore them during the day. I am still fearful that she will say something that would make me feel like a pervert or less of a man. I am very masculine and comfortable with myself, I have no homosexual fantasies, I just want to wear her or my own panties.
Thank you for the advice and encouragement, especially the encouragement; it has gotten me this far!
 
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