I think some people completely take the fun out of threads at times....perhaps unknowingly....but they suck the life force out every time they post in some threads...a shame...makes me want to log off for an extended time whenever I see them posting....to avoid the irritation...
I think that getting a hair cut is a very relaxing, and uplifting experience. A young woman washes my hair, her small fingers massaging my scalp while warm water rinses away aromatic suds (and at my age, every one who works at a salon is a young woman). Her closeness while her fingers play in my wet hair...sets me tingling. To get under the collar, she needs to unsnap the apron - it feels like she is undressing me. It is a sensual experience. Not a sexual experience. Just a prelude. Till I pay my $17 and head out the door.