I see some topics are not to be discussed...

[SINthysist]

Merci!

My experience is that if you argue and debate with respect, your viewpoints will be more welcome.

NO matter what they are.

But some just like to throw shit around and you have to be able to duck real fast!

 

[Olivianna]

Merci!

My experience is that if you argue and debate with respect, your viewpoints will be more welcome.

NO matter what they are.

But some just like to throw shit around and you have to be able to duck real fast!

Ditto. Don't be a shit-slinger!!

 

[Draco]

4laterer...you can run, but you cant hide......

I'm still waiting on the correct spelling of the word *FUCKTARD*

 

[FlyByNyte]

Fucktard...hrmm.. is that a new condiment? Like Mustard? I like that word, I plan to use it. Thanx!

PS- I don't even want to know the ingredience of Fucktard. hehe

 

[SINthysist]

4laterer...you can run, but you cant hide......

I'm still waiting on the correct spelling of the word *FUCKTARD*

 

[KillerMuffin]

We discuss these issues on a regular basis. We don't really have taboo topics.

What you have is a sincerely lack of the the ability to discuss. If you are disagreed with you instantly start caterwauling insults. The first imperative in intelligent discourse is that you, yourself, must be willing to meet the discussion. You have no desire to discuss, you simple want to toss out statements as if they are fact and then insult or attack whoever disagrees with you.

You don't want a debate for whatever reason. So, in a roundabout way, you are right. There are some topics that you believe are not to be discussed, as far as you're concerned there is no discussion, you're right and everyone that disagrees with you is fat and ugly

Yes, I know. I disagreed with you so I have to be a fat, ugly moron. You're so transparent it's actually pathetic. You, darling, don't have the capacity to actually think. If you did, you would never have started this extremely stupid thread because you would be discussing those topics instead of whining because people laugh at your trite attempts at moral superiority vis a vis innaccurate pronouncements and juvenile insults.

Of course, you do feel so good about yourself now, don't you? Pat yourself on the back, you're better at being in Kindergarten than most of us here.

 

[Draco]

PS- I don't even want to know the ingredience of Fucktard. hehe

Sure you do, its really easy to make.

1 fresh 4laterer
1 pinch of Hanns Schmidt
1 pinch of sea salt
1 grind of black pepper

Grind into a smooth paste with a mortar and pestle

Viola...freshly prepared FUCKTARD.

Can be spread on crackers, or smeared all over the GB, your choice..

Bon Appetite'

 

[SINthysist]

We discuss these issues on a regular basis. We don't really have taboo topics.

What you have is a sincerely lack of the the ability to discuss. If you are disagreed with you instantly start caterwauling insults. The first imperative in intelligent discourse is that you, yourself, must be willing to meet the discussion. You have no desire to discuss, you simple want to toss out statements as if they are fact and then insult or attack whoever disagrees with you.

You don't want a debate for whatever reason. So, in a roundabout way, you are right. There are some topics that you believe are not to be discussed, as far as you're concerned there is no discussion, you're right and everyone that disagrees with you is fat and ugly

Yes, I know. I disagreed with you so I have to be a fat, ugly moron. You're so transparent it's actually pathetic. You, darling, don't have the capacity to actually think. If you did, you would never have started this extremely stupid thread because you would be discussing those topics instead of whining because people laugh at your trite attempts at moral superiority vis a vis innaccurate pronouncements and juvenile insults.

Of course, you do feel so good about yourself now, don't you? Pat yourself on the back, you're better at being in Kindergarten than most of us here.

 

[The Heretic]

Welcome to Lit.

Now you know why I have changed my alias to "The Heretic"; because I have been burned at the stake (figuratively of course) a few times for discussing at least one of those topics.

You are of course free to discuss anything you wish (excepting the rules about personal info and threats, which don't seem to be enforced ) - but there will always be someone who doesn't like what you have to say no matter what you say or how you say it. That's life.

Of course, as others have said, it sometimes helps if you discuss issues with respect and intelligence - but as I have learned, not always.

 

[JazzManJim]

...and everyone that disagrees with you is fat and ugly

Sometimes you don't even get a chance to disagree.

I love you, KM.

 

[Reyna123]

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary

discuss:\dis-'kes\[discussen,fr. Ldiscutere,fr. apart+quatere to shake] 1:to argue or consider carefully by presenting the various sides. 2. to talk about....


insult \in-'selt\vb. [mf or L]1:to affront.2:to treat with insolence or contempt 3:gross indignity............


4lat....... you might need to learn the difference between disscussing and insulting .

 

[teddybear4play]

I get told off for bringing up fatness

death, and confirmation of death


Im not allowed to discuss incest, just because I disagree with it

now, tell me, who's the small minded one

you should be able to discuss anything, especiallyu as you consider yourselves so liberal minded

It would be better and more of a discussion, if you weren't sorely lacking in one area:

Tact.

Doesn't matter what you're talking about, if you sound like an asshole about it — even if you're not really an asshole — you're going to get told off.

TB4p

 

[Guest]

 

[The Heretic]

you're so droll

And you are an asshole and a whiner. So do you like people calling you that all the time?

As was pointed out, there is such a thing as tact, and if you don't want people to react to your statements negatively, then use some tact - otherwise quit whining.

Once again, as long as you can stay within the rules you can post whatever you like, just don't be surprised when people don't praise you for insulting them. What's so difficult for you to understand about that concept?

 

[teddybear4play]

teddy

are you suggesting I circumscribe fatness?

would it be cosier to call it plumpness, portliness, rubenesqueness,

why? its FAT

fat is FAT

making it sound nicer doesnt change its status

black is black

yellow is yellow

a glass is a glass

lay off with the pcness, and lets get dealing with facts

I'm perhaps the most un-PC person you'll ever meet.

But if you feel you can start a thread saying "Why do fat people blah blah blah?" and not get slammed for it, you're dead goddamn wrong.

Similarly, questioning somebody's death really isn't all that tactful.

What you see as being direct others see as you being a dick.

TB4p

 

[horny_giraffe]

teddy

are you suggesting I circumscribe fatness?

would it be cosier to call it plumpness, portliness, rubenesqueness, ...

I'm not teddy, but I'd suggest that you circumscribe fatness. As I've mentioned before to others--all you have to do is say the word "fat" and a battalion of female heads swivel around like gun turrets. For your own safety, I recommend avoid that particular word.

Despite this being a porn board, many people here are pretty thin-skinned. If you want to discuss things with them you have to respect their sensitivities and put up with their occasional condescension from them. You can figure out who the tough people are if you pay attention.

Even if they are completely full of shit, as they often are, it's better to just swallow your pride and let it go.

 

[Temptress_1960]

SINthysist? Do you ever actually type anything, or have you just posted 8,000 quotes?

 

[SINthysist]

I was parodying the board members who keep talking to Hanns under his various names and identities...

Saying nothing to no one.

Get it?

 

[SINthysist]

But, that was yesterday's schtick.

 

[dragonhearted]

4Laterer...

grow a thicker skin or move on. Just don't whine about it.

Islandboy has a point.....

the minute you show you have a sensitive side, the vultures like to swarm...better to swallow the Jagged Little Pill and ignore *wink*

*Hugs*
Suzi

 

[BgMma]

Though I don't agree with everything that 4laterer says, I just deal with it and move on.

I accept everyone for how they are and that's all I can do. If she wants to be scathingly sarcastic, so be it.
If tb4p wants to go on a tirade, so what?

You can either laugh or get mad.

I chose to laugh because getting angry isn't worth it. Besides, there isn't anything to get angry about. If someone spouts insults because someone disagrees with them, then I guess that is what we get.

But if we must discuss, can we please do it with a smidge of genious? ten thousand kindergarteners is a bit frightening.

 

[BlueDaisy]

Well, here we go again....

.....giving 4laterer the attention she so desperately seeks. But you know, 4L, dear, I did so enjoy the "fat" dialogue last night.

Of course, you may discuss just about anything you darn well please here on Lit. Just know that you will most likely be jumped on from all corners no matter what you bring up. We humans are like that...each of us has his or her own ideas on everything. Ain't that grand?

But of course...that is what you want...to make waves; to get attention.

Hmmm....maybe we ought to thank you instead of revile you. After all, you help us to learn more about our fellow Literoticans as we all post our replies to you and your inane spewings of meaningless drivel. (hmm...I think I'm being redundant)

Blue

 

[crysede]

Mmmmm, SIN - cum'on and quote me baby!

I get told off for bringing up fatness, death, and confirmation of death.
Im not allowed to discuss incest, just because I disagree with it
now, tell me, who's the small minded one

you should be able to discuss anything, especiallyu as you consider yourselves so liberal minded

Last time I checked your thread was still there - guess you are allowed to discuss it after all. So I gather that what you're complaining about is the fact that people said mean things to you after you said mean things to them, or that people disagreed with you. Well, hate to break it to ya babe, but people usually respond to insults with insults - and it doesn't matter what you say someone's going to disagree with you. As a solution to your problem, I recommend growing up

And yes, I know - you "never said you didn't like fat people blah blah blah" - look, people here aren't idiots: you frequently lash out at those you don't like or disagree with by calling them fat, you enjoy and support it when others degrade fat people. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that you use the word 'fat' as an insult - so guess what, people are insulted when you use it. Get off the semantic soap box already! If I let you know that by 'naive' I meant 'narrow-minded moronic loser too stupid to engage in any form of dialogue beyond slinging shit and whining, and pathologically incapable of thought beyond the grade primary level', you'd take it as an insult if I called you naive because it bloody well would be an insult.

I'm not teddy, but I'd suggest that you circumscribe fatness. As I've mentioned before to others--all you have to do is say the word "fat" and a battalion of female heads swivel around like gun turrets. For your own safety, I recommend avoid that particular word.

I use the term 'fat' quite regularly, and used it repeatedly in my attempt at discussion with 4laterer - which she ignored of course, since my point destroyed her silly attempt to give scientific validation to her personal prejudices - without being gunned down by a battalion of marauding females.

The trick is not to avoid the word fat, the trick is to avoid using the word 'fat' in a way that makes it clear that what you are really saying is 'stupid, lazy, worthless drain on society.' The problem is, she didn't really want to discuss fatness, she wanted validation for her belief that fat people deserve nothing but contempt. Surprise, surprise - she didn't get it.

 

[islandman]

Re: 4Laterer...

Islandboy has a point.....

 

[Freya]

Re: Re: 4Laterer...

Ditto the