TxBelle
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2002
- Posts
- 450
So many offered advice that enabled me to tell my husband what I wanted. Again THANK YOU! Wetandslave made all of that come together much more for my husband. He's far more sure of the situation now but has a lot further to go as do I. They both provided a wealth of info and made it all so relaxed and so much fun that it opened the door for my husband to talk to me extensively. He asked questions and laid everything on the line (Triumph's "Lay It On The Line" comes to mind....god that song is gonna stick in my head now). He was so thoughtful and so caring. Now I know how curious/serious he is. In all honesty he blew my mind.
He's ready to roll and I'm so damn sore after Sat. night/Sun morning that everytime I move I blush. I haven't had bite marks since I was 16. Now I have hickies and little love marks everywhere. I found I have a new respect for those little mini claw hair clamps too. Anyway he said shit that I never expected to come from his mouth and told me things I thought I was the only person in the world deviant enough to think of.....things I never considered he actually go for but that he said he wanted. What's so erie is that everything he brought up was exactly what I'd been dreaming of for years. I never said a word beyond a couple of 'Hell yeahs" and a few "Oh god yes". He just kept talking and I kept cumming. Now I honestly feel like an idiot because I didn't say something much sooner in our relationship. I'll have him beat me with a wet noodle for it later.
Therein lies the statement/question. How many of you have entered into this type of um....erotic explosion far into your long term relationships (we've been together for 12 yrs)? Has it become almost a hobby for you and your lover? As far as hobby I mean shopping, clubing, reading, hanging out with other like minded people. From what I've read and after talking to a couple of friends it seems that many people see this as a "lifestyle hobby" and I can't say that I mind it at all. I assume a large number of people are very private about their sex lives in the BDSM world but there is a LARGE portion that is very social with their sex lives. Is that just part of the makeup of the BDSM personna?
Hugs
Belle
He's ready to roll and I'm so damn sore after Sat. night/Sun morning that everytime I move I blush. I haven't had bite marks since I was 16. Now I have hickies and little love marks everywhere. I found I have a new respect for those little mini claw hair clamps too. Anyway he said shit that I never expected to come from his mouth and told me things I thought I was the only person in the world deviant enough to think of.....things I never considered he actually go for but that he said he wanted. What's so erie is that everything he brought up was exactly what I'd been dreaming of for years. I never said a word beyond a couple of 'Hell yeahs" and a few "Oh god yes". He just kept talking and I kept cumming. Now I honestly feel like an idiot because I didn't say something much sooner in our relationship. I'll have him beat me with a wet noodle for it later.
Therein lies the statement/question. How many of you have entered into this type of um....erotic explosion far into your long term relationships (we've been together for 12 yrs)? Has it become almost a hobby for you and your lover? As far as hobby I mean shopping, clubing, reading, hanging out with other like minded people. From what I've read and after talking to a couple of friends it seems that many people see this as a "lifestyle hobby" and I can't say that I mind it at all. I assume a large number of people are very private about their sex lives in the BDSM world but there is a LARGE portion that is very social with their sex lives. Is that just part of the makeup of the BDSM personna?
Hugs
Belle
