I need some to teach me...

[the1eroticgoddess]

Ok I am not good with domination but, I need to learn how to dominate a man, If you read my profile it will tell you why I need to know, but if your the type that doesn't like to read profiles I will just go ahead and tell you... I am a phone sex oporator and I really need to know how to dominate, I don't care if your female or male,Just someone teach me how to dominate...

 

[buxxxom]

You'll be able to get more replies if you turn on your PMs, hun.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Have a look through the stories on here, they'll give you plenty of ideas. Dominance is all about control so a good starting point is to think up some plausible scenarios and talk the guy through them without giving him the chance to take things in his own direction. It takes a bit of tenacity but in essence is no more sophisticated (on phone sex lines at least) than growling,

"Start masturbating that pathetic little cock of yours hard and don't dare cum until I tell you to!"

Instantly you're already halfway there.

 

[ADickInTime]

sure

It's phone sex for crying out loud. Just talk to them, tell them you want them to jerk off, keep them on the phone by listening to them and make them tell you what they are doing, then tell them you want them to come. They'll call back.

When they call back use what they told you the last time to make then think you paid attention. They'll come back for more. Humiliate them the next time and they'll keep coming back.

Dick

p.s. What's your number?

 

[twysted73]

You want to keep them on for a while? Orgasm control is always a plus. Make them build up close to coming but make them understand that they are to tell you when they're close. Then stop them. Build them up a few times, then after about 3 (most men's limits of tolerance) let them cum and make them clean it off their hand with their tongue or something. A little dash of humiliation makes it fun. Also: when you talk to them, find out what interests them. Based on the severity of the kink, ypu'll know how nasty you can be with them. You're creating that fantasy of domination over them. Talk like you already have their c/b's in a zip lock on your desk.
I have so often been told with a voice and a mind like mine I should work as a phone sex op. I wonder...taking applications?

 

[Thane1234]

Be confident, firm and control the situation. Confidence, real confidence, in yourself and who you are speak volumes without uttering a word so to speak. To paraphrase a phrase (I know CM, I know, don't attack me for this) from Bull Durham, "Fear and Arrogance."

 

[HottieMama]

As a former phone sex operator myself the most important thing i learned was tone of voice. Make sure you sound completely 1000% in control at all times. He is NOT arousing you. He is NOT making you excited...In fact...he is amusing you in a "you feel sorry for him" type of way... Command him to stroke his cock ten times slowly and stop...make him count each stroke out loud... make him tell you how he would "worship" you if you were right in front of him and tell him if he is a "good boy" you'll let him touch himself.

My domination calls went one of two ways...they became my repeat callers and i got to "know" them quite well....or they came so fast,slammed the phone down and i never heard from them again...

Good luck... They were the type of call i struggled with the most...

 

[EroticInsider]

"Start masturbating that pathetic little cock of yours hard and don't dare cum until I tell you to!"

Instantly you're already halfway there.

wow.... that almost made me cum :/

 

[Dominoc]

Domme Bell

Nice responses you've got there. I would think that orgasm control and having to ask permission to cum -- then denying them, would not only make for a profitable experience for you (but many in the scene find financial domination abhorrent, but they did call you, so...), but a pleasure for the right type of sub. You might consider feminization as well -- make them go to their wives panty drawer and put on her panties. You can ask questions and never be satisfied with the answer, or demand that certain protocols be followed in their responses to you. If they say, 'Yes Ma'am' you could demand something else like Yes Mistress Naughty Boots. Have fun!

 

[Netzach]

You can probably snooze your way though it, but honestly if nothing about it is remotely hot or interesting to you, it's gonna never really click. Have fun with your job and insist on the kinds of calls you know you like!