I need some Serious Advice. Desperate
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alexandraaah
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does she love you back?
that's a highly important factor.
that's a highly important factor.
LukkyKnight
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Thunder69 said:
Short and sweet: learn to behave more maturely.
Threats are not conducive to respect, let alone romance.
Look at it another way - if some other guy issued the threats to her that you did, would you want her hanging out with him?
alexandraaah
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yeah...lukky..
come to think of it, i posted prematurely.
what's new..
this whole thing sounds kind of unhealthy--even without details.
plus, your request of others not to tell you to walk away, leads me to think perhaps you're just trying to hear validation for what you already want to do.
correct me if i'm wrong. i often am. i can handle that.
come to think of it, i posted prematurely.
what's new..
this whole thing sounds kind of unhealthy--even without details.
plus, your request of others not to tell you to walk away, leads me to think perhaps you're just trying to hear validation for what you already want to do.
correct me if i'm wrong. i often am. i can handle that.
april-wine
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Thunder you CANNOT make someone love you, no matter how much you love them....I am with alexandraaah, on this one it does sound UNHEALTHY....Threatening, doing things you wouldn't normally do,(your words)....Personally I think you need to step back WAY back before something happens that you will regret....And talking to a councillor wouldn't hurt either.......
monster666
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Thunder69 said:
Threatening her with things you'd never do to get her to talk to you is *NOT* treating her like a queen. Not even close. You need to work some issues out for yourself (maybe with some professional help) before you are ever going to be able to be a part of any healthy relationship. The sooner you realize this, the faster you can deal with the issues and really get them behind you. For now, if you love this girl, leave her alone. You can't make her happy at this juncture.
