I need help from a male pls

[Thefraserman]

Occasionally, my wanker will hurt so bad, it'll get red, the skin (uncut) will be so painful that I can't pull it back all the way without having extreme pain.

This will happen for a week, then it will heal completely. I bathe every 2 days and I clean it regularly.

Any thoughts? Has this happened to you? HELP!

Thanks guys.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Occasionally, my wanker will hurt so bad, it'll get red, the skin (uncut) will be so painful that I can't pull it back all the way without having extreme pain.

This will happen for a week, then it will heal completely.
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Umm, I'm not a guy F.M., but if I may suggest? If this has happened on a regular basis, you need to see a professional about it. I know that men don't like going to the doctor, but it may be time in your case. Cut or uncut, somethiing doesn't sound right. If not for your sake, how about your s/o? I'm sure that this must be affecting your relationship too.



-kym-

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Re: Re: I need help from a male pls

Umm, I'm not a guy F.M., but if I may suggest? If this has happened on a regular basis, you need to see a professional about it. I know that men don't like going to the doctor, but it may be time in your case. Cut or uncut, somethiing doesn't sound right. If not for your sake, how about your s/o? I'm sure that this must be affecting your relationship too.



-kym-

Yeah, what she said.

 

[robert j]

you need to get a doc to check it out at once

 

[Naughty n Nice]

you need to get a doc to check it out at once

Gee, why didn't anyone else think of that??? How original.....NOT

 

[Trainerman]

how regularly is regularly??....

Not wishing to be offensive here, but if the foreskin is not retracted and washed under daily then the smegma and bacteria can make you sore.

I discovered this like any lazy young bloke.....till I saw the light, as it were......and believe me, "he" never goes "into action" without a thorough clean either. So, of course consider seeing the Doc...but try gentle soap and water washing daily and see if that helps


Dave

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Re: how regularly is regularly??....

Not wishing to be offensive here, but if the foreskin is not retracted and washed under daily then the smegma and bacteria can make you sore.

I discovered this like any lazy young bloke.....till I saw the light, as it were......and believe me, "he" never goes "into action" without a thorough clean either. So, of course consider seeing the Doc...but try gentle soap and water washing daily and see if that helps


Dave

ew........shmegma.........brings yucky thoughts to mind..........making the ew face now

 

[Thefraserman]

Hmm....I do wash it daily, sometimes every 2 days. I can't touch ANYTHING on the bare head because it is SOOOOOOO Sensitive, and it brings pain

It's been fine the last 2 weeks, it just bothered me.

Thanks for all your responses...and it does affect my sex life when it happens. I'm thinking it happens also when I wear very dark colored fruities(FTL for those that dont know) but when I wear white ones its fine.

So when it happens, I just resort to pleasuring my lady orally or through fingers. That's satisfaction enough for me.

I'm thinking of a circumcision, but I dont want to have a sensitive head for the rest of my life. Sure it'll be clean, but it will hurt like hell the whole time.

Any guys got a circumcision as an adult? What was it like?

Thanks again ladies and genitalmen LOL

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Hmm....I do wash it daily, sometimes every 2 days. I can't touch ANYTHING on the bare head because it is SOOOOOOO Sensitive, and it brings pain

It's been fine the last 2 weeks, it just bothered me.

Thanks for all your responses...and it does affect my sex life when it happens. I'm thinking it happens also when I wear very dark colored fruities(FTL for those that dont know) but when I wear white ones its fine.

So when it happens, I just resort to pleasuring my lady orally or through fingers. That's satisfaction enough for me.

I'm thinking of a circumcision, but I dont want to have a sensitive head for the rest of my life. Sure it'll be clean, but it will hurt like hell the whole time.

Any guys got a circumcision as an adult? What was it like?

Thanks again ladies and genitalmen LOL

My brother-in-law had an adult circumcision and it wasn't as bad as one may think. That may help, but I think I've got the answer to your dilemna. If it happens when you're wearing dark colored ftl, it may be an allergy to the dyes. I would stick with whites for a while to see if it makes a difference. Another thought I had was that it may be a reaction to detergent or fabric softener. That's happened to me b4. Try products that are dye and fragrance free for a bit. I bet if you combine these to things you'll see a difference. Please, I'd really like to know if it helps, so please let me know.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

take the advice given to you and see a doctor. because next time it gets like that you may have to cut it off.

 

[OnyxEros]

Funny how this is my first post

I had a friend that was uncut and one day he was getting horrible pain and when he went to see his doctor hey says that if you take HOT showers there is a danger of one of the blood vessels being enlarged and eventually bursting.

And guess what, a few weeks later he was taking one of his showers and it burst and blood everywhere apparently.

The moral of this story is that it may not be infected it just may be something that happens when you are uncut.

Please see a doctor and tell him/her exactly what is going on so they can help. To often men are afraid to talk about things like this i commend you for sharing
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[lovechild27]

Maybe you should wash it more than once a day or every other...esp if your having sex. EWWWWWW. If your monogamous, it could be some funky bacteria or sumthin from your partener...either way go to the damn doctor. This just doesnt sound right.

 

[Thefraserman]

Well, back for an update, as a couple of you requested

Well, I did a 'test' on it.

The other day I put on black skivvies, and the next morning i was red and sore. Took them off, put the tightie whities on, boom, it heeled up within the day's end.

And yes, I do wash it every day. I don't want that white crap staying on there at all. it's just gross.


Thank you SO much for your feed back and suggestions.