I made a mistake

[Stormystarr]

Thats right people, I made a mistake! I hurt someone, although not intentionally, but I am really sorry. He won't even acknowledge any of my E-mails. I honestly didn't mean to hurt him, I just didn't think he would understand something. But then I told him and he won't even speak to me now. Why am I so stupid?

I wasn't going to say anything to him, but I figured it's better to tell him than to lie to him, right? Obviously he didn't think so. So my whole weekend is ruined. I hope everyone else has a better time than I will.

So what do I do to fix this situation?

 

[ShyGoddess]

It's good that you told him. If you hadn't, it would have been there between you and it might have hurt your relationship anyway. Try letting him cool off for a few days. He may just need some time to think, and maybe then you can talk about it and get on with life.

Good luck

 

[Stormystarr]

Thanks ShyGoddess

It looks like I have no choice but to give him time. I don't like to push him, or anyone for that matter.

 

[Jester]

I agree...

Even if it sucks in the moment, the truth is always better in the long run. Even if it's an unpleasant truth. ShyGoddess is right, give it some time and try it again later. Hopefully, he'll have worked through it enough to be willing to talk again. The truth is a hard thing to wrestle with, sometimes. Hell, alot of times. Just be there when he wants to talk again. Waiting isn't easy, either. Good luck & best wishes.

 

[Skitten]

Yes you need to give him some time, you did do the right thing you can't lie to someone you care about. Let him have the time he needs to think about what you have said. He may not be ready to talk now so don't push just let him cool down some. And hopefully he will be able to talk later.

 

[ANiceGuy]

Hurting some on and being hurt is part of the learning curve. Life 101

Hurting and being hurt is part of relating. I would much rather have a relationship with a girl and get hurt then not to have the relationship at all. I would rather a girl be honest with me even if she has to tell me something I don't want to hear than have her not tell me and I find out from another source or experience. If a relationship is a good deep one it will survive the "test of truth". If it was shallow based more on ego than real friendship or love you are better off finding out now.

Love is blind, friendship tries not to notice!!

 

[*Eve*]

Just give him some time to cool down and when the hurt is less raw for him and he cares about you as you obviously do for him, try to talk things out, I am sure he will be willing to listen then.

 

[insideShiraz]

Goddamn Right...

Stormystarr...

You really hurt my feelings when you e'd saying that my "Cat in the Hat" hat looked silly at the Fair...Wait a second, that wasn't You...

 

[Stormystarr]

small update

I talked to him for a few minutes tonight, but I left because I was in no mood to try to clarify what I had already told him. I think he should've understood what I said. He thought I lied to him for some time...not true, this thing just happened about 1 week ago.

But if I had kept talking to him tonight I know I would've said something I would regret. And yes, I do regret leaving the conversation already, that may have made it even worse. So needless to say, I'm extremely sad and depressed now.

 

[Ezzy]

((((((((((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))))))


EZ http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm/sleep.gif

PS Even if you only say hi every day till he understands, dont cut him off.

 

[Stormystarr]

Thanks Ezzy

I needed that so much.

 

[Ezzy]

Your welcome

A hug a day keeps the doctor away, and onion a day keeps everyone away.

EZ http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm/sleep.gif

 

[Jester]

I'm sorry, stormstarr.

Keep holding on there. It will get better. Sometime. Good things are never easy.

((((((((ditto Hugz)))))))))

 

[ShyGoddess]

Have faith and keep holding on. My mama once told me that What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

 

[Roll-One]

I'm sorry Stormy, you sound so sad, give it time, and try to talk it through the next time. I hope everything works out for ya, and i'll be thinking about ya...

 

[Stormystarr]

Finally

we are talking once more, we're trying to work this little problem out and make things better. I'm still depressed, and so is he, but we're working on that one. And I just wanted to thank those of you who were here to offer suport to me in my down time.

 

[ShyGoddess]

Good luck sweetie!

 

[bbubbles]

its me.....the bubblemeister

well stormy, i've finally made it.......yes bubbles has arrived.....

recognising your dilema, i can only offer my shoulder if you need to cry, or my type if you wish to talk....

but hey, what the heck....it'll all work out for the best whichever way it goes...