I like choking my g/f...

[SlitYourThroat]

this is my first thread, and i must say i HATE the board style setup, but no big deal i love the board topics


anyway i CURRENTLY dont have a g/f (long story) but when i do and im having sex with her, i like doing her missionary and then grabbing her neck and chokign her, like the last girl i was with really liked it, she wanted me to squeeze very hard and her face would turn red but she would get off by it basically, it was so hot and i love it so much, i get super turned on by it aswell...i dunno i guess give it a try if you havnt already, theres just somthing about my having my hand around a girls neck that makes it look like im in total controll and she is just taking it...its so hot

BTW am i aloud to swear? because i cant say like "i was ****ing my g/f" i had to say "i was having sex with my g/f"

just wondering if swearing was aloud, gues ill try looking it up

 

[canadiancutie]

fuck.

 

[graceanne]

shit.

On the other hand, their are a lot of people who like breath play, but you gotta be very very very careful. YOu can cause brain damage or death. If you must do it, research it sot hat you don't make any dumb mistakes.

 

[Alice_In_Chains]

Thats cool. I've heard of that... Be careful with that though.

 

[dolf]

mmmm...it can feel really good (and really scary) unless of course it goes too far and i pass out, lol, then i don't feel anything
xx

 

[SlitYourThroat]

yea i actually started to worry about it after liek everyones liek "be carefull" but then again it doesnt matter right now cuz im not with her atm but hopefully i will someday be

but she liked to be choked really hard and she liked to have the feeling of her being "used" for sex

 

[rosco rathbone]

Very hot. But what might take the edge off of your boner is the idea of flipping through the dog-earred yellow pages at the county lockup looking for "rough sex defense" ...."Glaser Goldmand and Sachs"...hm..."Goldberg Finkelstein and Finkelstein".....

 

[SlitYourThroat]

wait...what??? ^

 

[graceanne]

he means that if you kill her you're gonna be having to look for someone to defend you in a court of law. Not to mention, think how bad you'd feel if you killed her. Wanna talk about a bad memory? Screwing, you choked her, she lost consiousness, then died, and you didn't know till after the sex was over.

 

[SlitYourThroat]

yea taht would certianly suck, and at the same time it would be like commiting necrophelism (spelling)

not to mention...having to tell her family that?

oh my fucking god would that suck

 

[graceanne]

Exactly, that's why you want to be VERY VERY careful.

 

[bytor2112]

try choking her with your cock instead of your hands....shove your dick down her throat until she pukes.....

 

[SlitYourThroat]

taht would be gagging, different feeling....

when i choke her im still fucking her so the pleasure is still there, if im shoving my dick down her throat theres no pleasure to follow it

 

[rosco rathbone]

try choking her with your cock instead of your hands....shove your dick down her throat until she pukes.....

I'm with you to some extent on this. I usually like my oral sertivude rather "hands-off". They know what I like, ideally, and I just want to lie back while they go to town. At conclusion, though, my body almost always jerks spasmodically forwards and I cannot resist the urge to grab a sucking head and hold it down; which often times leads to spectacular gagging. Yeah., I am with you...the feeling of blowing an intense load deep in someone's throat, holding them there and hearing them gasp and gag, is fuckin' trippple-tee hottt.

 

[ownedsubgal]

taht would be gagging, different feeling....

when i choke her im still fucking her so the pleasure is still there, if im shoving my dick down her throat theres no pleasure to follow it

no pleasure to follow? i think there are quite a few men who would disagree with you there....i know my Master adores shoving his cock deep down my throat, and hearing his "sweet little one choke", as he says.

choking on a cock is also similar to being choked by hands around the neck in that they both can potentially lead to serious injury, even death. but thinking about it, choking to death on a cock wouldn't be the worst way to go.

 

[Etoile]

SlitYourThroat, this is a very, very, VERY common topic. I'm sure if you use the forum search and check the BDSM Library threads you will find plenty of information about strangling, choking, breath play, etc. I know those threads are there because I also enjoy being choked (hard) and I've commented in them.

 

[SlitYourThroat]

N-N-n-n-n-no i meant no pleasure for her os getting her to do that would be difficult...

ofcourse pleasure for me

 

[Lusty Lil Vixen]

*giggles* When joining Lit I wouldn't have figured on the broad topics here..and this was certainly one I was surprised to come across but then on the flip side I was happy to come across it. Least I know I'm not the only one who enjoys it when choking/breath play is involved. I've always figured it was something..well rather taboo to talk about so I've never talked with any of my friends about it. Granted all my friends out here are completely vanilla..*giggles* So I'd hate to think of their reaction if I were to even hint at something like this.

I don't remember exactly the first time it happened or why we (husband and I) tried it but I couldn't believe how wet I got. He didn't put his hands on my throat but instead had his hands on the bed..but his wrists were pressed tightly against the side of my throat..so breathing was....limited. Not sure why I enjoyed it so much but it seemed to intensify the sex so much more for me. *trembles a bit at the thought* If only it happened more often.

~Vixxy

 

[SlitYourThroat]

you can tell him thats what you want ?

 

[graceanne]

I personally think that the reason that I enjoy breath play, and probably other people, is the vulnerablity you feel and the control your dom/me has. That's why I think people like it.

 

[Lusty Lil Vixen]

you can tell him thats what you want ?

*giggles* Eh...honestly I think he and I are different as far as what we want sexually. He's not the rough kinda guy. And the few times we did do the whole breath play I don't believe he enjoyed it. I guess I'm more of a pleaser than wanting to be pleased myself..so I go with what he wants and put my own desires or needs on hold.

 

[AdrianBlack]

I Think a hand around the neck is hot but nothing too hard as to actually choking.

 

[Glistening Girl]

I love it! What we do to stay safe is that I keep a hand on his body and if I feel he is choking to hard I just tap him the way he knows and he lightens up.

On the other topic. We just got into him shoving his cock down my throat. He loves when I gag and I admit the feelings it cause are intense. I normally can't gag more then 3 or 4 times though or I will feel sick.

 

[SlitYourThroat]

yea choking is so fucking hot IMO

the feel that im dominating the girl is hot, the feel that she is there for MY pleasure is hot..hard to explain i guess


my exx liked it when i would choke so hard her face turned red and she couldnt breath, she fucking LOVED it, and she always had....

hell if were in the middle of a public area and i put my hands around her neck shes instantly turned on i loved it

 

[Bandit58]

This is a hard limit for me (near drowning when I was a child). Not being able to breathe, or feeling my airway being blocked, makes me panic. During oral He does grab my hair and face fuck me. I do gag and choke sometimes but I'm learning to relax my throat more and take a breath on the out stroke. I am also not held very tightly so am able to pull back and get a big breath if it's needed!