I just hate it when...

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I just hate it when I see my kid hurting and theres nuthing I can do about it!!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I just hate it when my 1,6 CPU works as fast as the fuckin Pentium 350 I had 5 years ago! Maybe even worse!!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I just hate it when I cannot find me a good fulltime job, so I could start solving my probs!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I just hate it when I cannot affort the phone call to know whats wrong.. ~sigh~

 

[chauderlos]

Me too, especially when I'm doing them at the last minute before going out somewhere and then I have to go change.

This is when a dishwasher comes handy.

Dishwashers are my best friends

 

[CurlyKat]

I hate it when the person right in front of me drives JUST under the speed limit, like about 5mph under, and I can't pass!

 

[Shankara20]

I just hate it when I start a thread then run out of ideas to post...

 

[Adakgirl]

I just hate it when using someone else's bathroom and their toilet paper dissolves on contact.
I hate cheap toilet paper!

 

[harrlequin]

I hate it when there is a lack of passion in my life.

 

[YourCaptor]

I just hate it when I set down to go potty and my balls dip into the cold water.




What do you "I hate it when...."?

Yes I hate that, except for me its not the balls that dip its the dick. That is the worst kind of feeling, chills, nasty, dirty. Ugh

 

[Homburg]

Yes I hate that, except for me its not the balls that dip its the dick. That is the worst kind of feeling, chills, nasty, dirty. Ugh

This is one of those times when I am glad to be a grower, not a shower. As bad as it is to have my balls dip, I would be truly widged out to have my dick in the water.

 

[PurpleTiara]

I hate it when someone forgets to close the baskety thing in the dishwasher and the lid to my travel coffee mug gets melted to the heating element in the bottom. They should sell the mug with extra lids.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I just hate it when I hear my pregnant sister says "so he hit me again.. I get one from him and another of the door". And I know theres nuthing I can do except hope her bf will die or something, cuz she will still stay with him and let him treat her shit, call her cunt and whore for no reason. sigh

I just hate that!!!

 

[Adakgirl]

You must not be very close, geographically speaking, to your sister BiaTch. I would be all over that mans shit.

The one and only time my little sister (who was not pregnant) called me and told me her husband had hit her, I dropped everything and was over there within two hours. He was a big Navajo man, a drunk and when I got there I confronted him, he told me...as her husband it was his right to beat his wife whenever he wanted too.

I said as his wife's older sister I had a right to protect her and backed my up my words with a baseball bat. He had to be taken to the hospital in an ambulance when I got done with him. Yes, she took him back, but he never again laid a hand in anger. He didn't dare press charges against me either. Drank himself to death a few years later.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I just hate it when I hear my pregnant sister says "so he hit me again.. I get one from him and another of the door". And I know theres nuthing I can do except hope her bf will die or something, cuz she will still stay with him and let him treat her shit, call her cunt and whore for no reason. sigh

I just hate that!!!

You must not be very close, geographically speaking, to your sister BiaTch. I would be all over that mans shit.

The one and only time my little sister (who was not pregnant) called me and told me her husband had hit her, I dropped everything and was over there within two hours. He was a big Navajo man, a drunk and when I got there I confronted him, he told me...as her husband it was his right to beat his wife whenever he wanted too.

I said as his wife's older sister I had a right to protect her and backed my up my words with a baseball bat. He had to be taken to the hospital in an ambulance when I got done with him. Yes, she took him back, but he never again laid a hand in anger. He didn't dare press charges against me either. Drank himself to death a few years later.

The action you took in your sister's case, while admirable, is not always an option for other people, for many reasons, and we can't know the reasons BF feels she can't take action against this man. While I appreciate the justice and emotion of your response to your sister's situation, to imply as you did that BF is failing her sister is both unfair and specious.

In my opinion, you owe her an apology for this post. What you do is, of course, up to you.

 

[the_pet]

i hate it when....

my alarm clock goes off and i turn it off in my sleep instead of hitting the snooze button

YIKES!

 

[graceanne]

The action you took in your sister's case, while admirable, is not always an option for other people, for many reasons, and we can't know the reasons BF feels she can't take action against this man. While I appreciate the justice and emotion of your response to your sister's situation, to imply as you did that BF is failing her sister is both unfair and specious.

In my opinion, you owe her an apology for this post. What you do is, of course, up to you.

Amen. And said a lot more concisely than I would have.

 

[CurlyKat]

i hate it when....

my alarm clock goes off and i turn it off in my sleep instead of hitting the snooze button

YIKES!

Yes! Or just the fact that it goes off in the middle of a dream nearly every time!

 

[Sexualinnocent]

i hate it when i do my damndest to say the right thing, and it always seems to be the wrong thing. Like tonight.

i can't seem to get it right with this person.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

You must not be very close, geographically speaking, to your sister BiaTch. I would be all over that mans shit.

The one and only time my little sister (who was not pregnant) called me and told me her husband had hit her, I dropped everything and was over there within two hours. He was a big Navajo man, a drunk and when I got there I confronted him, he told me...as her husband it was his right to beat his wife whenever he wanted too.

I said as his wife's older sister I had a right to protect her and backed my up my words with a baseball bat. He had to be taken to the hospital in an ambulance when I got done with him. Yes, she took him back, but he never again laid a hand in anger. He didn't dare press charges against me either. Drank himself to death a few years later.

I do protect my sister as well of course! Cannot imagine anyone who would "just watch" when their family memebr getting beaten. I am up there in 2 seconds when I hear theres too much noise at my sister's place (she lives above me). I am ready fight the bastard anytime and he knows it very well. Sometimes the fight is just not the best option, but you can be sure if he ever hits her infront of me, I am gonna beat the living shit outta him!! Think it's matter of time till it happens.

You would have to live here with me to understand why I said what I said.



Thank you for support SW and Gracie!!

PS: Oh and no apology needed. I realise what I said might sound a bit odd. It's just the situation with my sister is very hard to explain. He beat her, I call police, they kick him outta her flat and she brings him back 2 hours later. And she keep doing it over and over again. Thats what I hate about it and why it makes me feel helpless. The knowing she will forgive him and take him back again.

It's hard to help someone who don't wanna be helped. Once she will REALLY want get ride of him, I will be there. I always have been. For now it's just me who wants him outta her life, sadly. Guess she must get to the point where SHE will say STOP to this treating and will deal with it finaly.

 

[Adakgirl]

Well SirWinston, I realize my post may have come across that way but I certainly did not intend to imply any such thing. The way I read it is that she felt helpless to do anything to help her sister and I did not understand why she was unable to do that. I was simply telling her how I helped mine in a similar situation.

I do apologize to you Biatchinfire, you and SirWinston and graceene are right I don't know your situation and I shouldn't have shot my mouth off like that. Domestic abuse is just a very sensitive hot button with me.

The men who abuse their women are some of the lowest forms of life on earth. BC's sister is a classic case of how women allow it to continue because -They deep inside think they deserve it and or they have such low self esteem from the emotional abuse that goes along with it they can't see whats right in front of their faces.

"No one else will want you" "You are useless and would never survive out in the world without me" "You are a stupid, fat, ugly, worthless piece of shit" "You are no good to anyone" "You are a lousy wife" "You don't know anything" "No body can love you like I do" after hearing those things along with getting terrorized and smacked around a lot, you tent to believe them. Hence you take them back and forgive them. A useless destructive cycle that plays out over and over again in the lives of so many women. It sickens me and angers me.

To stick with the thread topic, I just hate it when men emotional and physically abuse the women they supposedly love.

 

[oldsub]

To stick with the thread topic, I just hate it when men emotional and physically abuse the women they supposedly love.

I hate holding one of those women's hands in the back of my ambulance and making empty promises that everything is going to be all right.

 

[DVS]

i hate it when....

my alarm clock goes off and i turn it off in my sleep instead of hitting the snooze button

YIKES!

God...sure been there and done that.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Well SirWinston, I realize my post may have come across that way but I certainly did not intend to imply any such thing. The way I read it is that she felt helpless to do anything to help her sister and I did not understand why she was unable to do that. I was simply telling her how I helped mine in a similar situation.

I do apologize to you Biatchinfire, you and SirWinston and graceene are right I don't know your situation and I shouldn't have shot my mouth off like that. Domestic abuse is just a very sensitive hot button with me.

The men who abuse their women are some of the lowest forms of life on earth. BC's sister is a classic case of how women allow it to continue because -They deep inside think they deserve it and or they have such low self esteem from the emotional abuse that goes along with it they can't see whats right in front of their faces.

"No one else will want you" "You are useless and would never survive out in the world without me" "You are a stupid, fat, ugly, worthless piece of shit" "You are no good to anyone" "You are a lousy wife" "You don't know anything" "No body can love you like I do" after hearing those things along with getting terrorized and smacked around a lot, you tent to believe them. Hence you take them back and forgive them. A useless destructive cycle that plays out over and over again in the lives of so many women. It sickens me and angers me.

To stick with the thread topic, I just hate it when men emotional and physically abuse the women they supposedly love.

No need to apologize really, I understand where you coming from.

I been in this kind of relationship with my exhusband as well, so I really do understand how hard it is to leave that person. I can't stand the domestic abuse either and it still took me almost 16 years till I changed my mind and told myself that I deserve better than that and left my ex for good. I kept taking him back over and over again as well and I still got nightmares about me being back together with him. So I really understand what my sister is goin thro. I dunno help her though. She must want to leave her bf her self, I can't do it for her, though I wish I could!

 

[LifelongCyn]

I hate it when I allow a relatively minor incident to become something I obsess over to the point of inducing nausea and/or an anxiety attack. Just let it go, for chrissakes!