I insist . . .

[MsWorthy]

I insist that my partner cut my hair for me. I keep my hair in a short style; consequently, it must be cut on a regular basis, but I hate going to a stylist to have it cut. It's something about the mirrors everywhere and being in a vulnerable position in public (wet scraggly hair and looking awful in the those mirrors).

My partner doesn't like to cut my hair and feels nervous when I ask her to do cut it, but I insist that she do it.

Is there anything that you require (if dominant) that your submissive doesn't like doing, but does because you require it?

Is there something asked of you (if submissive) that you don't like doing, but do, because she/he requires it?

 

[lovetoread]

I cannot cut my hair.

That drives me insane,but I still have the long hair.

I cannot do alot of things on Lit. I cannot change my sig line,I have only a few that I can flirt with.

But that last thing I can understand. I met him here.

 

[P. B. Walker]

This is similar to a submissive being required to clean the house, or do the laundry, or cook a meal. Who really enjoys that stuff... well cooking I can see as possibly being enjoyable if you love to cook.. but who really loves to clean house or do laundry?

I guess it's one of those things a submissive is willing to do in order to please a Dom/me.

- PBW

 

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[MsWorthy]

Originally posted by foxinsox
Actually, I like doing all those things It relaxes me, and I enjoy doing it. And I can't bear an untidy place, so I don't mind cleaning, either. Guess I'm just weird

I don't thing you're weird at all, Foxinsox, but I do think that this may be a lifestyle question rather than a general one. What do you think?

 

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[Rick DeVille]

I think there's nothing I like more than seeing Him off to work in the morning, knowing He's wearing clothes I've washed and ironed for Him.

There's nothing I like more than shopping for and preparing food for Him that I hope He'll like.

There's nothing I like more than trying to ensure the space we share is clean, tidy and fresh.

I like it, expect it and appreciate it

 

[Ysandre]

Is there something asked of you (if submissive) that you don't like doing, but do, because she/he requires it?

Let me preface by saying I lived in a Gorean lifestyle....

There were tons of things I did because it pleased Him to see me do them.
I would sashay and bend over in front of His friends for lil trinkets and odd things because He liked a good looking trophy.
I would manacle my left ankle to the corner of the bed at night, even tho it itched horridly and sometimes gave me rash
I would end up being dinner in the middle of dinner, on the table with my hair in the food and have to wait to wash my hair on more than one night... (YUCK)
and I could probably go on....
But I ~LOVED~ pleasing Him, I Loved the feelings of security in His smile, it was the thrill I got from his caress when He noticed and maybe it was also a little of the people around us Admired us. I made Him proud as a kajira, and others wanted me for it.
I didn't do the things I didn't like just because He asked...
I did them because I love what it does when He asks....

 

[Daddyslilpet]

MsWorthy, I've been trying to think of something that Master insists on that I don't care for. I'm at a loss right now. We are still learning and communicating. I think maybe he's still leary of insisting on things with me, at least until we finish this learning stage.

Anyway, I also wanted to bump this up for those that might have missed it. I'll let ya know if I do think of something tho.


dixi