I have decided that when I have an affair...

[*bratcat*]

 

[lavender]

 

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[SXCRgirl]

Sounds great bratcat!

I agree with you though. No online stuff for me. I want the real thing.

 

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[Never]

I thought you had already had an affair.

 

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[curious2c]

Sounds like a good FANTASY to have, but really really think hard before going there Brat. (or any one else for that matter) You could or will rather, open up a huge can of worms and hurt all over the place.

I am not trying to be righteous or preach here, just practical experience from real life. It is never worth the resulting pain and suffering that is caused. Better to break with the present SO and then go out. It is the more 'humane' thing to do in any case.

Just my own humble opinion. You can take it or tell me to shove it, what ever works for you. It is afterall, your life.

 

[Never]

I see. I thought someone had mentioned they met you skin-to-skin. My bad.

 

[*bratcat*]

Oh, hold on...

 

[Jim_Henson]

Depends

Did the cheerleaders swallow?

 

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[The Squid King]

Good luck, but it sounds to me like you've found a player.

As long as you treat him like one, you'll be fine. If you don't, and get emotions involved, don't come crying to me.

 

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[The Squid King]

How would one know if he was a player or not? See...I know some personal background to this one that is so UNplayerlike it would make your head spin.

Perfect. As long as you keep believing that, he will be fine. Anybody, willing to enter any kind of relationship with someone who is already in a relationship, is a player. Don't get it twisted, because you are only fooling yourself.

 

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[The Squid King]

hmmm...seeing as how I am the only one of the two of us in a relationship...but I am willing to make some changes prior to getting involved...does that still qualify him or myself as a player?

If you cut the other guy off and go after him full mode, it is a gamble. If he is a player, you lose big time. If he's not a player, you won him fair and square.

 

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[The Squid King]

I just want to fuck him in my dreams...is that so bad?? Will I go to hell for that?? Ok...and maybe fuck him in any other place that comes to mind...but hey, I can wait until I have had enough in my dreams first.

WHOA! If you just want to fuck him, he can't be the player, then sister, you are the player.