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Purrde Flower

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Have you ever gotten that feeling from a relative with out them actualy saying anything to you? Like when they walk into a room you immediatly feel you aren't welcome?
 
My relatives tend to like me. It's me who does the hating. Fuck I wish they would leave me alone sometimes.:)
 
haven't gotten that yet....all of my (and Hubby's) relatives like me... I think :rolleyes:
 
Purrde Flower said:
Have you ever gotten that feeling from a relative with out them actualy saying anything to you? Like when they walk into a room you immediatly feel you aren't welcome?

Nope but I am the one doing that.
 
heck purrde... I have the opposit problem... I have this cousin who told my mom that he was always sorry that we were first cousins... cause he always wanted me...


Ewww... now I know why I always got the big ol'sloppy kisses from him...:(
 
sweet soft kiss said:
heck purrde... I have the opposit problem... I have this cousin who told my mom that he was always sorry that we were first cousins... cause he always wanted me...


Ewww... now I know why I always got the big ol'sloppy kisses from him...:(

a cousin with taste.
 
It's part of growing up,,in a family kind of way . Perhaps you might have a lot of baggage to carry along the way..
 
Ohhh yeah...My family don't seem to like the idea of me being totally different from them...I tend to live outside that lil box that they all live in...I like to experiment...When I go to family functions they all just tend to stare and steer...Oh well no biggie to me really...
 
scrymettet said:
a cousin with taste.

Taste maybe... good sense no... the fool told my mom that at my the funeral for my Uncle Andy....

and he is a psychologist... specializes in family therapy...:rolleyes:
 
I see my non-nucleur family so unoften that that kind of resentment doesnt exisist.
 
Mizz_Erotica said:
Ohhh yeah...My family don't seem to like the idea of me being totally different from them...I tend to live outside that lil box that they all live in...I like to experiment...When I go to family functions they all just tend to stare and steer...Oh well no biggie to me really...

Sounds like me and my family. We live in different galaxies, I think.
 
sweet soft kiss said:
Taste maybe... good sense no... the fool told my mom that at my the funeral for my Uncle Andy....

and he is a psychologist... specializes in family therapy...:rolleyes:

He knows the problem for sure.
 
bknight2602 said:
Sounds like me and my family. We live in different galaxies, I think.

Exactly...totally different worlds...if they don't like what your doing or if you don't totally agree with them then they want to talk about you behind your back...I think I start getting more outrageous just to piss them off lol:devil:
 
Purrde Flower said:
Have you ever gotten that feeling from a relative with out them actualy saying anything to you? Like when they walk into a room you immediatly feel you aren't welcome?


Not with relatives, but with people in general, yes. :(
 
Well, I've never had anyone come out and say they hate me, but my very Catholic Aunt is terrified of me because I'm Wiccan. I think if I yelled "Boo" she'd probably drop dead....hmmmm, :::note to self, invite her to my birthday party this weekend:::
 
Purrde Flower said:
Have you ever gotten that feeling from a relative with out them actualy saying anything to you? Like when they walk into a room you immediatly feel you aren't welcome?

From a Relative?!

Hell no.
 
My wife's aunt is a cunt. She came over on Christmas day a couple of years ago and I met her at the door with a hug.
She said, "Well, I guess I have to be here."
I don't bother myself with details like that. I haven't seen her since, but if I see her again it won't matter. I'll still be polite.
 
My Brother

I get something like that from my younger brother but with him it's because he feels he's due all our parents property and assets when they pass on.....He's even gone so far as to have our step-father adopt him as to hope it gives him more clout when the wills are finally read.....One instance I nearly kicked his ass over was our mother had been in hospital for two days with what was first thought of as a minor stroke and he 'forgot' to call me, mind we live in the same city twenty minutes apart.....I told him that was his free one and the next stunt like that he'd had better come major medical coverage as he was going to need it.....Fuck him, he's a jerk anyway and can't see beyond what he can't convert into cash.....
 
When I was in the 6th grade my then step mother made up a story about me and my brother. She told my father that I had went around my old school (we had moved) and was telling people that my brother had molested me. I never said this and to this day i will not understand where she came up with that crap.

Well my brother seriously believe I had said that despite the several assurances and promises from me saying I hadn't. I think my brother still believes I had really said that. We have never been close but I felt I could always count on him to talk to, until these past few months.

He looks down on me. I know he is dissapointed but the tone of voice he speaks to me in. It's like he can hardly stand me. The only times I can remeber him talking to me here lately he was always lecturing me. Telling me how I should do things. Honestly he sounds a lot like my mother.

Sometimes I feel like I can do no right where my brother and mom are concearned. Nothing is ever good enough.
 
yup. I've been condemned to hell by my grandmother (my mom's mom) since I was 15. My Opa (dad's dad) is pissed at me cus he called me fat and all my uncles and aunts who heard him got mad at him. My uncle is mad at me because I'm not a spineless pushover, who's blind to the ratfaced jerk that he is.

This is pretty common in my high-strung European family.
 
Sibling Slaughter

Perhaps a wee bit of sibling slaughter is in order, say shotguns on the south pavillion grounds allowing for a three stride headstart ?
 
My mother-in-law. She's always polite to me, and I am in return. The minute my husband leaves the room however, she's telling me all the things I do wrong in my marriage, how I need to be a better wife, that I don't raise my children the right way and on and on and on.

I'm a heathen. What can I say?

Thankfully, she's 3 hours away and I don't have to go visit, and I don't unless I absolutely have to.
 
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