I get too emotional

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[peachykeen]

So what, exactly, do you hope to gain by posting this, here, now?

 

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[littlekateyes]

If you were being sincere, then maybe Miscka's knows that.

 

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[littlekateyes]

Well I hope, then maybe your heart would be lighter.

 

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[littlekateyes]

I am not sure. I hope for her, or anyone that they did not have to go through pain.

 

[peachykeen]

Okay, yayati, here is the thing - not to take any single thing away from Miscka and what she went through and the person who she is (and I say that knowing only the most minimal amount about her), but you seem to think she has been through something very unique. Yes she has made a very personal journey, but it is hardly unique. I'm not inclined to go into the intimate details of my own life, or to disclose personal information about friends and other women I have known, but there are lots of us out here who have come through some serious shit and are getting on with our lives. And in many cases using our own experiences to help/educate/protect others. It's how life goes, mate. You can think of yourself as a victim, or you can get yourself together and greet the new day.

 

[littlekateyes]

Okay, yayati, here is the thing - not to take any single thing away from Miscka and what she went through and the person who she is (and I say that knowing only the most minimal amount about her), but you seem to think she has been through something very unique. Yes she has made a very personal journey, but it is hardly unique. I'm not inclined to go into the intimate details of my own life, or to disclose personal information about friends and other women I have known, but there are lots of us out here who have come through some serious shit and are getting on with our lives. And in many cases using our own experiences to help/educate/protect others. It's how life goes, mate. You can think of yourself as a victim, or you can get yourself together and greet the new day.

Thank you peachykeen. You could not have said it any better.

 

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[peachykeen]

Shut-up man, it's not even funny anymore.

I see these very strong woman who have had to deal with very harsh lives yet they still support this society which expolits them.

They must be mesmerised by the media to not realise that women of the east are better looked after than they are. Choice is one thing, freedom is another, but these men commit heinous acts on you and you are forced to make do with whatever bits of life you have remaining. They take your honour and they do not allow you to shed a tear for that lost honour.

They take your life and throw it down the toilet and you are forced to beam a smile and say "Thank you". My, aren't I priveleged, you think. You do not understand how other systems work and you have been duped by your menfolk. These very same men raped and tried to kill the world, with very little conscious.

Who are these "they" you speak of?

What 'lost honour'? It wasn't my honor that was compromised; it was the perpetrator's.

Who did not allow me to shed a tear? I shed plenty. But I'm done doing that now.

Who forced me to smile and say 'thank you'? Cuz I have no recollection of that.

My life was never 'thrown down the toilet'.

Duped? I think not. I don't lump all men together in one category. There are wonderful, lovely men. There are shitty, mean men.

Do not use my or another woman's experience as any excuse to justify your views on our role in society. You have no right.

 

[phrodeau]

Someday, hopefully very soon, yayati will come to realize what a disservice he is doing for his people. Many of the readers here have only his horrible example on which to base their opinion of Muslims and Indians. And he thinks he's the pearl in Literotica's clamshell.

 

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[peachykeen]

Please engage your brain.

See now here I was, thinking we were having a nice and respectful discussion on a serious topic without resorting to insults. Well, silly me, what was I thinking.

I'm just going to go off to bed now.

 

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[peachykeen]

i have no clue what this gurls "story" is

but its neat that this boy feels her pain and the pain of others, not every one is the same, some people are hurt and they move on, some people are hurt and they never fully recover, some people dont rock the boat of life but they watch others and feel their pain. thats called empathy and there is nothing wrong with it, or with expressing your feelings.

get off his back, if he wants to express his feelings, let him, if he wants to make a thread out of it, who cares? let him. if you dont agree, you have the right to either state that fact or close the thread without saying a word, either way you arent going to stop him from having his feelings and by downtalking them you are only going to add to the feelings he has and compell him to respond accordingly.

I'm guessing you didn't actually read this thread all the way through, or at least not very carefully.

 

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[peachykeen]

If you say so. I am in my pj's now and off to bed. But I do not feel I said anything here to insult you or to belittle your compassion for Miscka (in fact, just the opposite). I only took exception to your using a woman's individual story to justify your (IMHO, well meant but misguided) views on women in society. And, I thought we were having a rather nice, civil, adult exchange. Until you decided to call me brainless, which was just uncalled for.

 

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