I get off on abuse :(

[ChasingShadowsX]

Dunno why but I get off on abuse, being told what to do and being humiliated.

My ultimate fantasy is to be with a girl only for her to start calling my names like fagget and telling me my dick is too small to please her or any girl ever and for a bunch of her friends to walk through the door as she rolls off me and walks over to another guy and kisses him having em all laugh at me and say how pathetic i am.

Do I have issues?

Anyone enjoy abusing boys? I mean I don't want that to ever happen It just makes me hard to think about.

 

[Never]

No, I you don't have issues.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

oh good anyone else get off on this stuff or like chatting about it?

 

[s'lara]

Humiliation and being on the receiving end of domination is a heady and addictive cocktail. Dependent upon your tweak, these can be requisites and they were certainly important to the masosub in me.

You say you don't want it to ever happen. i am guessing you mean spontaneously and outside of a carefully controlled environment. You can, however, realize the scene without being lost completely. Still, you may just like the idea of it rather than allowing the act to happen. That's just fine ... some things are better left to our fantasies correct? If the verbal humiliation fuels your fantasies and ends up remaining just that, a fantasy, you are in luck. The mind can be limitless in its creation of scenarios.

Enjoy your fantasies. Express them in story or roleplay. Explore the possibilty of experiencing the act in reality with someone you trust and on a softer/introductory level. These are things you can do without fear of irreparable damage.

Good luck to you.

lara

 

[H piltdown]

Do I have issues?

Don't know. Do you?

As far as your fantasy is concerned, you're not alone. That's a fairly common fantasy. I'm sure you've had no problem finding the large number FemDom and cuckold stories riddled throughout this site. I'll go as far as saying that expressing your need to be humiliated in this post was a bit erotic in itself.

 

[vogueboy]

Mmm, just read this post, and I didn't realize that this is a common fantasy.

I too have had this type of fantasy of differing scenarios and it rocks my world.

O

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

and more importantly, anyone wanna share the fantasy with me say on yahoo? lol

 

[Netzach]

Mmm, just read this post, and I didn't realize that this is a common fantasy.


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Oh, you have no idea.

 

[Silverlily]

Oh, you have no idea.

*grins*

 

[dolf]

i've dated guys with this fantasy, it's not that uncommon.

*edited to say, nice to see you posting here hon

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

sucks, can't find a girl to abuse me

 

[MissTaken]

Have you tried posting a personal ad at BDSM personals here or at other kink friendly sites?

There are plenty of women who enjoy putting a man in his place, and many more men who enjoy being put there.

However, shadows, the more I read of your posts, the more I am convinced you need some real life, skin to skin, cuckholding in your life.

Even once.

Heh.

 

[Vixandra]

Miss Taken is right- post up an add in the BDSM personals section.

And yes, there are lots of men out there who enjoy being submissive to a woman. Nothing wrong at all with it, same way there's nothing wrong with a woman enjoying being submissive.

 

[LadyNatasha]

He's in the worst place ever for it. I hear Aussie's bemoaning the lack of partners all the time.

Check out CollarMe, you may have some luck there.

 

[catalina_francisco]

He's in the worst place ever for it. I hear Aussie's bemoaning the lack of partners all the time.

Check out CollarMe, you may have some luck there.

LOL, and so this one now is living so far from her home. I think there are opportunities there, just maybe not as many or as easy to locate.

Catalina

 

[LadyNatasha]

LOL, and so this one now is living so far from her home. I think there are opportunities there, just maybe not as many or as easy to locate.

Catalina

Sadly (for shadows) the bulk of what I've seen are lesbian W/women.

Is it the reverse water thing that does it?

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

Yeah I wouldn't want a lesbian mistress neway, she'd have bigger muscles than me. And I think ur right, maybe I need a gf who makes me watch her fuck another guy right in front of me. Maybe just once

mmm... cept I think I'd have to dump her after that

 

[Etoile]

Yeah I wouldn't want a lesbian mistress neway, she'd have bigger muscles than me.

This statement is absurd, uninformed, stereotypical, rude, and downright inappropriate.

Just wanted to make sure I got my opinion stated!

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

Sterotypical but pretty common.

Sorry if I offended ne1.

 

[Etoile]

Sterotypical but pretty common.

Sorry if I offended ne1.

Oh, now you've done it.

Fuck yeah, I take offense at that. And so will Netzach, Never, and a lot of other people around here. I'm a lesbian and the only thing I have that's bigger than yours is my dick - in fact, I have several bigger than yours.

It is not "pretty common" for a lesbian to have muscles bigger than a man's. Where the fuck did you get that statement? Do you realize how uneducated you sound? Back in the 1950s, it's true that the only women easily recognizable as lesbians were often butches who were strong and muscular. But this is the 21st century here. You probably walk by lesbians on the street all the time and don't know it, because you think they all look alike with this bizarre depiction you have in your head as the only thing a lesbian could look like.

Wait a minute, is it hard to walk down the street with your head up your ass? http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/arg.gif

 

[Never]

I was thinking of responding to Chasing Shadow's comment but Etoile appears to be doing a lovely job.

 

[Etoile]

I was thinking of responding to Chasing Shadow's comment but Etoile appears to be doing a lovely job.

Why thank you!
I did get your PM and am drafting a response.

 

[Aeroil]

and me too very disrespectful, I have a few friends who are lesbians, they look quite normal I assure you

 

[arctic-stranger]

Oh, now you've done it.

Fuck yeah, I take offense at that. And so will Netzach, Never, and a lot of other people around here. I'm a lesbian and the only thing I have that's bigger than yours is my dick - in fact, I have several bigger than yours.

snip ..

Wait a minute, is it hard to walk down the street with your head up your ass? http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/arg.gif

Now you are just giving him what he wants!

 

[Netzach]

You know, that's a good point, but even if you have to give out the occasional freebie, it's good to respond to idiocy.

I like this "I just want a girlfriend who'd fuck another guy in front of me, of course then I'd have to break up with her"

The reason you cannot find this is because you refuse to make your brain catch up with your dick. What dominant girl is going to come along and play a head game like that? Come fulfill my fantasy and then I'm going to punish you for it.

Sounds like you need a really clueless submissive.