I Find Myself Drawn To Mild Bondage

[AsylumSeeker]

In my writing I am finding my "inner self" so to speak. Nipple clamps, handcuffs. Of course not in my personal life, just in my mind, and in my writing.

Maybe I'm just perverted.

BDSM is, like, these things times one hundred.

I wrote a BDSM story once, Gideon's Gate. It's posted here.

I just feel drawn to this lifestyle more and more.

Don't know why.

Maybe I'm just confused.

 

[DVS]

In my writing I am finding my "inner self" so to speak. Nipple clamps, handcuffs. Of course not in my personal life, just in my mind, and in my writing.

Maybe I'm just perverted.

BDSM is, like, these things times one hundred.

I wrote a BDSM story once, Gideon's Gate. It's posted here.

I just feel drawn to this lifestyle more and more.

Don't know why.

Maybe I'm just confused.

You're preaching to the choir, here.

 

[Beck31]

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You're preaching to the choir, here.

Niether of you are perverted. I've done the handcuff thing. Not the nipple clamps though. Some of the shizzle I've done has been through second life or online. Very few things done IRL though for various reasons. Finding your true self can be difficult. I'm a sub mostly. Good luck.

 

[Daxaeha]

Something that I luckily realized the easy way within my interest in BDSM (and other various kinks that may not fall under that category) is that I have a bit of voyeur blood in me.
There are going to be things that get me hot and bothered to watch/think about/write about, that I may not feel the same way about if I were to experience it physically.
Now I just need to sort through it all to find out one way or another for all my interests.

I hope you find what you're looking for, and that you can identify it relatively easily.

 

[DVS]

Niether of you are perverted. I've done the handcuff thing. Not the nipple clamps though. Some of the shizzle I've done has been through second life or online. Very few things done IRL though for various reasons. Finding your true self can be difficult. I'm a sub mostly. Good luck.

Oh, I'm perverted and proud of it!

 

[Beck31]

Lol. Good for you. As someone once said to me. Let your freak flag fly.

 

[NaughtyNatasha]

I know, I started when my BF put some nipplebands on my nipples. It was better then clamps, and he got me into it.

Always liked watching....

 

[ejredlady]

I am in the same boat with you. After years of longing for a spouse to be more "in charge" in our marriage and especially the bedroom - well, he left in January. So I have spent even more time exploring and researching and realize I am a submissive woman. The need to please should have been a big hint! Finding a partner seems to be the challenge for me. I want a man who KNOWS what he is doing and how to be dominant, not one who thinks he knows and needs instructions. Good grief, if I have to give instructions them I am right back in the driver's seat. Good luck in your search. Stay safe and enjoy your sensuality.

 

[bux_fan]

In my writing I am finding my "inner self" so to speak. Nipple clamps, handcuffs. Of course not in my personal life, just in my mind, and in my writing.

Maybe I'm just perverted.

BDSM is, like, these things times one hundred.

I wrote a BDSM story once, Gideon's Gate. It's posted here.

I just feel drawn to this lifestyle more and more.

Don't know why.

Maybe I'm just confused.

BDSM is enjoyable, nothing wrong with being drawn to it. I love it.

 

[Daxaeha]

Lol. Good for you. As someone once said to me. Let your freak flag fly.

Ever seen the season 2 finale of Dark Angel?

...Finding a partner seems to be the challenge for me. I want a man who KNOWS what he is doing and how to be dominant, not one who thinks he knows and needs instructions. Good grief, if I have to give instructions them I am right back in the driver's seat.

If you found someone that you connected with on a personal level, shared common interests with and was eager to learn you, would you have the patience to work with them?
I mean, is it really that much different than dating? Would you go to the bar looking for someone to take you home and know exactly how to touch you, say all the right things and bring you your favourite breakfast food the next morning? As a new sub, do you even know for sure what you like and do not like experiencing?
It's really hard to let go of the hope for Mr. Dom-of-your-dreams to walk in and tie you to the bed without having ever even spoken to you on a personal level before. (I am currently wrestling with it, myself)
I'm not trying to presume that I know anything about you or what you've tried/not but in case this is an issue, it was a rude awakening that helped me realize the reality of this and if anyone has light to shed PLEASE DO!

 

[DVS]

Lol. Good for you. As someone once said to me. Let your freak flag fly.

That's from David Crosby (Crosby Stills & Nash) "Almost Cut My Hair" The guys are old, but they can still rock.

 

[dreamykitten2]

That's from David Crosby (Crosby Stills & Nash) "Almost Cut My Hair" The guys are old, but they can still rock.

And to add more to that. Old doesn't mean dead! Our minds are younger than our old bodies in most cases! At least that's my exp! I'm having way too much fun to be considered old! And if someone sees me that way. Oh well I know I can still keep up with the best of them. Loving it, living it and never been happier!!!!