I feel distanced from everyone lately

Fly_On_Wall

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Like all my freinds have pushed me aside.
and every time I try to get closer they get farther away.


Yet I've noticed myself, not haven't time when they try to make a connection.

wtf is wrong with me?
 
im sorry fly that you feel this way ... i think its kinda normal to feel that way every so often though it usually means you need a change and do something different for a bit i think


i have noticed that i haven't seen you around on here as much lately though
 
Fly_On_Wall said:
Like all my freinds have pushed me aside.
and every time I try to get closer they get farther away.


Yet I've noticed myself, not haven't time when they try to make a connection.

wtf is wrong with me?

Nothing is wrong with you. Sometimes we need to reach out to people and tell them how we are feeling but we don't. I guess we hope they will see what we aren't telling them. We don't want to seem needy or a pain in the butt so we say nothing directly to them.

If you are feeling distanced from your friends could it be you that are emotionally moving away and not telling them what is going on in your life?

They can only be there and help if they know you need them to be there, otherwise they think you are ok.

(hugging fly) :)
 
I call that feeling invisible and it usually happens to me every November. I hate November and count the days every year until it is over.

Maybe you're a season effected person, too?
 
you can hit my forehead if you'd like.

feel better Fly.....we all love you here! :heart::rose:
 
sexy-girl said:

i have noticed that i haven't seen you around on here as much lately though

lol that's cause I actualy am busy :)

Like I said ......

everytime one of my friends trys to reach out or spend time with me........ I can't cause I'm doing somthing or just feel soo tired that I can't.

but then when I am ready, it's like they are gone so I feel alone.

odd 'eh?
 
Hanns, you're like a scavenger digging up old posts so you can hurt people.
 
Hanns_Schmidt said:
Yes, true.

I'm actually cultivating the information I need to make a certain person pay for an unprovoked attack against me

Shyeah, right.
 
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