i don't know

[scooby_doo_1987]

i recently been looking into bdsm. i have always been kind of interested, but i want my boyfriend to be incontrol. i have tried every way i know to tell him(without coming straight and telling him) but does anyone have any good ideas on how i can tell him.

 

[Ashleigh_C]

Why not just come out and tell him?

Communication in the bedroom is as important (if not moreso) as communication anywhere else in the relationship.

 

[frappy]

Come straight out and tell him your needs. Put a belt in his hand, bend over, turn your head around to look at him, and wink.

But seriously, talk to him. Perhaps print a BDSM story from this site for him to read, if you're a bit shy at first.