I can't cum

[Andreina]

Big problem... mucho big problem. And please don't laugh at me - it is embarrassing enough already

I can't cum since about 1 week... I tried everything, every position,... nothing. Normally self-induced orgasms are something I live by every day but now, despite being horny, wet, etc (I shall spare you all the details ) I just can't cum.


Any ideas?

 

[lilminx]

Try Vicks Vaporub on your clit while you're masturbating. That stuff works wonders.

 

[TWB]

Breathe through your eyelids.

Stroke backwards.

Eat a cherry.

Listen to Sade.

That always works for me.

 

[desert spike]

Its time to go the toy store!

 

[Wiggles]

Try being self-celibate for a bit.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Maybe?

 

[Azwed]

My exgf has this problem once a few months ago. Could not come for the life of her no matter what for almost a week.

I think what she eventually solved it by using the old pillow technique where she straddles a pillow and rides it. This keeps your hands free to rub your nipples finger yourself or do whatever else you want.

 

[Andreina]

Minxie - do you think my clit got a cold?

TWB - I've been listening to the Dave Matthews Band.

spike - i got toys en mas but unfortunately they don't work either.


I just want to cuuuuuuuuuummm 'sob'

 

[lilminx]

The pillow technique is a pretty sure thing, but I need to grasp it to push it against me while I'm rubbing against it- kind of like grinding it. My hands aren't free to do other things, but that's not a problem for me. A minute or two with the pillow, and I cum.

 

[APhil]

Can I take a shot at helping?

 

[CarolineOh]

Big problem... mucho big problem. And please don't laugh at me - it is embarrassing enough already

I can't cum since about 1 week... I tried everything, every position,... nothing. Normally self-induced orgasms are something I live by every day but now, despite being horny, wet, etc (I shall spare you all the details ) I just can't cum.


Any ideas?

Are you under a greater than normal amount of stress, or are you anxious about anything in your life?

 

[Georgia Girl]

Any new medication you are taking hon?

It is amazing the effect that can have.

Dawn

 

[lilminx]

Minxie - do you think my clit got a cold?

Sweety, your clit doesn't need a cold to put that stuff on it. Believe me, I was a little apprehensive myself when Visxenshe recommended it, but it works. She also recommended putting it other places as well, but on my clit works just fine for me.

 

[Andreina]

Sweety, your clit doesn't need a cold to put that stuff on it. Believe me, I was a little apprehensive myself when Visxenshe recommended it, but it works. She also recommended putting it other places as well, but on my clit works just fine for me.

me is off to the pharmacy tomorrow. I haven't been able to cum for 8 or 9 days. I'm going nuts here. Can women actually suffer from the Blue Balls syndrom? I think I'd be a good candidate.

 

[SexyChele]

This happens to me on occasion. Rare, but it does happen. Normally, I can also see patterns of stress - either at work or in my personal life - that don't allow me to fully relax. Everything "works", but the ultimate climax just ain't gonna happen. When this first happened, I started to freak out a little, thereby increasing the stress on top of what I was already going through.

Now, I've just learned to roll with it. Normally, these periods only last a few days to a week. I would recommend trying to figure out if there is something new in your life, or if you have more stress than normal. (remembering that "stress" is not always a bad thing) Give your body a break for the time being. I'll bet before ya know it you'll be just fine.

Sometimes the more you pressure yourself, the more difficult it is for your body to respond.

 

[Azwed]

The pillow technique is a pretty sure thing, but I need to grasp it to push it against me while I'm rubbing against it- kind of like grinding it. My hands aren't free to do other things, but that's not a problem for me. A minute or two with the pillow, and I cum.

I don't think I ever actually watched her to it by herself when we were together so not sure what she did exactly. I usually was behind her inserting something into her while she rubbed herself on the pillow. Sometimes just nothing would get her off and this was the only way she had amazingly powerful orgasams that way.