I am so lovesick

[Guest]

Registed member posting as Unregistered

I am so lovesick for this lit-member, it's driving me crazy. I'm posting unregistered because I don't want to embarrass her or scare her off.

There are no suitable accolades to describe this woman. She is not only beautiful and sexy but also intelligent and witty.

What shall I do? She has a SO but is not married and flirts a great deal, not so unlike others sure.

What can I do? My heart aches!

 

[Guest]

If you do not know what to do. I would not do anything alt all.

 

[Guest]

Registed member posting as Unregistered

I am so lovesick for this lit-member, it's driving me crazy. I'm posting unregistered because I don't want to embarrass her or scare her off.

There are no suitable accolades to describe this woman. She is not only beautiful and sexy but also intelligent and witty.

What shall I do? She has a SO but is not married and flirts a great deal, not so unlike others sure.

What can I do? My heart aches!

Dahlgren, when are you going stop creating trolls to hype your "intelligence and wit"???????

Pathetic.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Unplug and go meet people you can touch. This is a lot of infatuation and it's gonna make you hurt if you keep it. People with SO's tend to be firmly established in their relationships and they don't want someone mucking it up.

 

[alexandraaah]

miles, I've told you...I'm not involved with anyone, I just don't want a relationship right now.

 

[Cheyenne]

Does she know you exist? That would be a good place to start.

 

[Guest]

Unplug and go meet people you can touch. This is a lot of infatuation and it's gonna make you hurt if you keep it. People with SO's tend to be firmly established in their relationships and they don't want someone mucking it up.

Infatuation?
Is the SO real?
Firmly established = ?

 

[Guest]

Does she know you exist? That would be a good place to start.

Yes, she know's I exist.

 

[Guest]

Infatuation?
Is the SO real?
Firmly established = ?

1. It might be, but it's more than lust. Incredible woman.
2. Not so certain, now that you ask. But I don't know.
3. Who knows? How would I ask?

 

[PrincessSalome]

I say just keep flirting, if she's uncomfortable, she won't flirt back. How much does it really matter if she's attached if it's just a fun on-line thing? If you were thinking about trying to make it more, well, I'd advise against it.

 

[Monazwx]

Lovesick get it together . . .

If this is an internet 'relationship', then how do you know if anything is real. Have you even met this person?

 

[KillerMuffin]

Love, lust, infatuation, hormonal charges, whatever. All the same to me, the un-romantic.


These are the facts:

You love her.
She loves him/her, real or imagined.

Conclusion:

Move on before you get hurt.

Or is that not logical, captain?

An addendum: How many freaking unregistereds are posting on this bad boy? Which one is the obligatory troll?

 

[alexandraaah]

Re: Lovesick get it together . . .

If this is an internet 'relationship', then how do you know if anything is real. Have you even met this person?

If I was as adept as Cheyenne at digging up posts, I'd paste some here for you to see the tumultuous conversations that have been had about this.

hint.

 

[Guest]

1. It might be, but it's more than lust. Incredible woman.
2. Not so certain, now that you ask. But I don't know.
3. Who knows? How would I ask?

Trust no one but yourself. Eventually you will find your answer.

 

[Guest]

Or is that not logical, captain?

You need'nt be so ugly and cold about it.

Go back and hide behind you fake AV.

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Re: Lovesick get it together . . .

If I was as adept as Cheyenne at digging up posts, I'd paste some here for you to see the tumultuous conversations that have been had about this.

hint.

Sorry, no time at the moment. Have to get moving for shopping and dinner. I'm running late, as usual, already.

Later, gators! I'm sure this will be a long, "interesting" thread by the time I get back.

I'd be inclined to be less harsh on Lovesick, by the way. Haven't we all been there at some time?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I'm sure there have been times when we have all wanted to &*%$#@ the pants off someone here.....

If she is the lovely lady you say she is I'm sure if you sent her the URL to this thread she would take it as a compliment that someone out there thinks she is so great

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Is it me ?!?


Just trying to add some humor ...







Hope you feel better lovesick (unregister)person.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Is it me ?!?

Is it me ?!?

*just adding more humour, lol*

 

[Wiggles]

I would take it for what it's worth. At the moment she probably only wants friendship. Would that be enough for you? If not, back off. It's not a healthy relationship for you.

If friendships good enough for you, then be happy with that. Don't let this person stand in your way from having meaningful relationships.

Hate to say it, but the best thing to do in this situation is either stick it out, with no hopes for commitment, or jet.

Depends on how much your willing to sacrifice for your own benefit.

 

[Laurel]

What always works for me is getting the person in a one-on-one chat situation, engaging them in a long discussion on your mutual needs and interests, then very tenderly asking, "Hey babe, wanna fuck?"

 

[Guest]

More unregisters here than myself

 

[MissTaken]

Does she know how you feel?

What is her response?

Do whatever is right for you, but if she is clearly uninterested in an off line relationship, move on.

Good luck and best wishes,

Miss T

 

[Guest]

Does she know how you feel?

What is her response?

Do whatever is right for you, but if she is clearly uninterested in an off line relationship, move on.

Good luck and best wishes,

Miss T

Thank you MissTaken. It's amazing how people's personalities come out, in respects to Unregistered posts. It's obvious now to me who is genuine and who needs a few notches off their egos. You're a true friend and a classy lady.

She sorta knows how I feel, I've tried as best as I can not to fawn all over her. Her response is neutral, but she is responsive.

I'll chose to stay her friend for the meantime, but keep her close to my heart.

To steal Jack's line: 'You make me want to be a better man.'

 

[alexandraaah]

It's amazing how people's personalities come out, in respects to Unregistered posts. It's obvious now to me who is genuine and who needs a few notches off their egos.

I disagree that this is an apt determinant of anyone's genuineness or inflated ego; I think that it can be ambiguous as to someone's intentions when they post unregistered.

I understand why it is done at times and that is to be respected, I also think that people feel jaded by those who go unregistered with ill intent.

I don't really have a perspective on your situation, so I'll just wish you good luck and apologize if I originally misunderstood this to be a mock thread.

Alex