I am not a sissy BUT…

Nothing except enjoying being the woman in my sexual relationship. For me I get a thrill and I am turned on by being called the wife or the woman by my lover who refers to herself as the man or the husband. Out of bed it’s obvious we are normal man and woman. As has been commented, it’s gender fuckery that I really enjoy.
What about "being the woman" excites you? Think about that before you answer. Some answers could be:
(a) being "used like a girl" is the ultimate in erotic humiliation or submission (what can be more humiliating for a man than being used like a girl?),
(b) being "used like a girl" takes away all the pressure of being masculine, shifts all the burden to your "man", and lets you lay back and enjoy,
(c) being "used like a girl" lets you tap into the greatest sex pleasure possible, i.e., taking cock in your hole, or
(d) being "used like a girl" is forbidden and taboo, and, you are a pervert that is drawn to forbidden and taboo sex.
 
What about "being the woman" excites you? Think about that before you answer. Some answers could be:
(a) being "used like a girl" is the ultimate in erotic humiliation or submission (what can be more humiliating for a man than being used like a girl?),
(b) being "used like a girl" takes away all the pressure of being masculine, shifts all the burden to your "man", and lets you lay back and enjoy,
(c) being "used like a girl" lets you tap into the greatest sex pleasure possible, i.e., taking cock in your hole, or
(d) being "used like a girl" is forbidden and taboo, and, you are a pervert that is drawn to forbidden and taboo sex.
OMG. All of the above.
A. I don’t feel humiliated but I do feel the joy of submission. Allowing her to do anything she wants to me which leads to…
B. She takes control. She takes charge. She is the fucker. She owns the cock that I worship which means…
C. She puts her cock in my hole and fucks me until I am out of my mind with the pleasure of having her inside me….
D. So that I am the woman taking her man’s organ of life and receiving her semen, her sperm, her seed. So taboo it cannot be spoken of.
 
OMG. All of the above.
A. I don’t feel humiliated but I do feel the joy of submission. Allowing her to do anything she wants to me which leads to…
B. She takes control. She takes charge. She is the fucker. She owns the cock that I worship which means…
C. She puts her cock in my hole and fucks me until I am out of my mind with the pleasure of having her inside me….
D. So that I am the woman taking her man’s organ of life and receiving her semen, her sperm, her seed. So taboo it cannot be spoken of.

This is how I feel with my wife when she takes me with a strap on: submissive, giving her full control, it’s taboo and I love it and I love her when she fucks me. It doesn’t happen all the time and we have a great sex life on all other fronts.

I also often wonder why? When I was a teen, I told my sister I wanted to know what it felt like to have sex as a woman. That must’ve been 40 years ago.now I am sort of able to feel that. I still don’t know why. But I don’t question it either. I just submit to the feelings and my wife’s domination!
 
This is how I feel with my wife when she takes me with a strap on: submissive, giving her full control, it’s taboo and I love it and I love her when she fucks me. It doesn’t happen all the time and we have a great sex life on all other fronts.

I also often wonder why? When I was a teen, I told my sister I wanted to know what it felt like to have sex as a woman. That must’ve been 40 years ago.now I am sort of able to feel that. I still don’t know why. But I don’t question it either. I just submit to the feelings and my wife’s domination!
I always wondered myself what it was like for a woman to be penetrated by a cock. Clearly they liked it but I thought, sex must be so different for them. Which as I have discovered, is definitely true.
 
When you watch porn, most of the time the focus is on the woman. Big cock pounds her pussy and she screams and trembles with pleasure. The more abuse she receives and more she moans and loves it. We (men) get so turned on watching her insatiable appetite for rough sex. She is the center of our attention.

I read somewhere that this fixation on the woman's pleasure can make a guy very curious. The dude in the porn flick grunts a little here and there, but, it is the girl that screams, yells, moans using all the vowels and has orgasmic convulsions. So, without even realizing it, the focus on HER sensations becomes the material of our masturbation. This focus on HER sensations means that the guy jerking off to this porn is actually fantasizing about being HER. But, most dudes cannot handle this reality (i.e., that they fantasize being a woman fucked by a big cock). The male brain is in denial about what happens to their brain during porn.

The test is how a dude talks about a porn clip. Does he describe a scene from the point of view of the guy (i.e., "He must feel great to get in that tight pussy!") or from the point of view of the girl (i.e., "She loves to suck that big fat cock!... She spreads her legs for that big cock!... She's getting it good!... She's loving it! ")
 
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I wonder what it's like to be penetrated pleasurably, too, since I'm getting my vagina removed.
You are getting your vagina removed? So you have been penetrated but not pleasurably? I am a little confused by this. If you don’t want to elaborate, that’s fine. These are nosy questions after all.
 
Yes, it has never felt good once. Just uncomfortable. This is not due to ignorance/idiocy with How To Have Sex, it's my own anatomy's function.

I'm getting a vaginectomy for unrelated reasons! Call it a necessary step of a process. Why keep what I don't use, anyway, if it's just in the way?
Yes. Are you a transgender man? Sexually do you prefer to penetrate or be penetrated?
 
I'm fluid with my gender. And by now I think you can glean my preference... (Receiving anal isn't that attractive to me either. Not because of what it is, but because I couldn't be assed. If I need to orgasm, I'll do it myself. Nobody else can do it for me, LOL.)

Sex isn't just penetrate-or-be-penetrated, to me. That feels pretty two-dimensional. There are a multitude of ways that I have/had sex that were satisfying, and without orgasming. Just my reality.
True enough. Performing oral sex on a woman there is no penetration but certainly plenty of pleasure.
 
I wonder where you read that. If you find it, please send it over. I've done research on early modern European (particularly French) pornographic literature that focused on the female perspective. They described the woman's pleasure in detail, and how she achieves religious levels of sexual ecstasy. Seeing God and cumming the literal Devil out of her. Stuff like that.
It's been a while. I'll see if I can find it. It really makes sense though. The woman is more vocal and appears to be having the most fun, and, it is often easier to identify with the woman than the man. I can't identify with a big tall guy that has a 12-inch rod. That would stretch my imagination too far. But, I can lay on my back spread my legs like a woman and I can take 12-inches (I think). If you are a white dude with average build and average size cock and you love to watch BBC porn with white women getting fucked by huge well-hung black dudes, which of the two are you more likely to identify with? The white woman! But, the great thing about watching porn, is that you can lie to yourself. You can get off without having to analyze things too closely and without having to deal with your sexual 'confusion'. Some dudes can only cum with porn. They can't get it up to fuck a girl, but, they have no trouble masturbating to porn that shows well-endowed men. I think that should be a clue.
 
I do not consider myself a sissy. I am happy to be a man and I have no desire to be a woman or a feminine man. I have never worn women’s clothes nor do I have any desire to do so. I am only attracted to women and I have only engaged in sex with women.

Having said that, my transgender girlfriend is a top and I love being her bottom. We both fantasize about her making me pregnant and I love having her cum inside me. When we are together I suck her off or she fucks me. Our sexual relationship is based on my satisfying her sexual needs and bringing her to orgasm.

Before I met my girlfriend I had a cyber relationship with a transgender woman who liked to refer to my ass as a pussy or a cunt. She regularly referred to herself as the man or the husband in bed and me as her woman or wife. Although she was very feminine she was a top and told me she wanted to fuck me as a man fucks a woman.

I always found her dirty talk very exciting and stimulating. I really got off on the idea of being her wife in bed and satisfying her sexually. My question is why do I find this kind of talk so stimulating? Am I a closet sissy? A sissy in denial?
I love it when tops talk dirty to me while they fuck me, it is such a turn on, and they often say they are going to fuck my man pussy or man cunt
I like it when I am forcibly fucked
 
I love it when tops talk dirty to me while they fuck me, it is such a turn on, and they often say they are going to fuck my man pussy or man cunt
I like it when I am forcibly fucked
I love it too but my girlfriend doesn’t say anything while she fucks. I am sure she is thinking things but she doesn’t like to talk about it. However she is nice and rough tearing my underwear partly off and choking me while she fucks. So I am not complaining.
 
I love it too but my girlfriend doesn’t say anything while she fucks. I am sure she is thinking things but she doesn’t like to talk about it. However she is nice and rough tearing my underwear partly off and choking me while she fucks. So I am not complaining.
I wear a choker and a beret when I cross dress. The beret is to let tops know that they can fuck me, and most tops find the choker a turn on. Chokers are seen as way of telling others that you are a submissive slut
 
I wear a choker and a beret when I cross dress. The beret is to let tops know that they can fuck me, and most tops find the choker a turn on. Chokers are seen as way of telling others that you are a submissive slut
Lol I don’t need to tell my girlfriend that I am a submissive slut for her cock. She knows that she can do anything she wants to me.
 
OMG. All of the above.
A. I don’t feel humiliated but I do feel the joy of submission. Allowing her to do anything she wants to me which leads to…
B. She takes control. She takes charge. She is the fucker. She owns the cock that I worship which means…
C. She puts her cock in my hole and fucks me until I am out of my mind with the pleasure of having her inside me….
D. So that I am the woman taking her man’s organ of life and receiving her semen, her sperm, her seed. So taboo it cannot be spoken of.
I like b, being submissive
 
I like being submissive as a man. A lesser man. In the company of a bull I love to be addressed as "bitch"
My transgender girlfriend is my bull but she would never call me bitch even while she is fucking me brutally. She might be thinking it lol
 
Nothing except enjoying being the woman in my sexual relationship. For me I get a thrill and I am turned on by being called the wife or the woman by my lover who refers to herself as the man or the husband. Out of bed it’s obvious we are normal man and woman. As has been commented, it’s gender fuckery that I really enjoy.
i like being the female, shaving my legs and putting expensive silky pantyhose on, and nce bra with foam fittting molded cup, spaghetti strap bra. Wear a dark oversize t-shirt or swear shirt. People can't see the straps. I've gotten to point, i don't care if someone in a grocery store sees i'm wearing pantyhose , panties, or pull up doapers.
 
I had gone to bed and I was sound asleep when she finally came to bed. I was awakened when she roughly pulled my underwear down enough to expose my asshole. I was facing away from her lying on my side towards the bedroom wall.

As I lay there I could hear her getting the lubricant and furiously jerking her cock to get it hard. Once she succeeded, she put a dab of lubricant into my anus with her fingers. Immediately afterwards, I felt her cockhead pushing into my wet hole. I wanted her inside so badly I tried to position my ass so I could help her mount me. After a little back and forth she was able to thrust her pelvis forward and penetrate me completely.

It felt so good having her cock deep in my ass, I moaned as she started to fuck. I put my hands against the wall so I could push back against the force of her fucking - this allowed her to assault my ass using her big hard cock like a jackhammer. She was fucking me brutally with every ounce of energy she had and I loved being the hole she was using for her attack.

Finally I felt her push into me as deep as she could get her cock in my ass and then stop as she reached her climax. This was the moment we both craved. She panted softly as she spewed her load of sperm filled cum into my ass and completed mating with me. I felt so much like a woman as I was being bred by my horny man. It was my duty as a good wife to give my husband the sexual relief he needed. For a moment we lay together afterwards savoring the fuck with her cock uniting our bodies. Then she pulled out of me and rolled over.

I rolled over to face her and wrapped my arm around her. I asked her, “You fucked me so hard didn’t you?” She dreamily replied, “Yes, I did.” Then I asked her, “You were the man fucking his woman, right?” She answered, “Yes I was, and you were my wife.” I told her I loved her and then we went to sleep.
hey again....any chance that you can send more pictures of your gurl in panties, after a shower, getting dressed or undressed, showing her hard-on. i'd love to see all of her. you can send here only to me if you wish. thanks.
 
Who can be pretty and who can be handsome? It isn't strictly a gender thing.

I was a pretty boy who was often mistaken for a girl and I loved that kind of attention. Not all girls like being pretty or appreciate being told they are - to each their own.

I lived within a mostly lesbian community for several years. Most of my friends were tomboys who came in many different degrees of feminine or masculine. I was in the middle of the spectrum, much more masculine than some and more feminine than some, but when we did things that were "guys vs. girls" I was usually among the girls.

I never related to the term "sissy." Some of the tomboys I knew used it as an insult for each other in a teasing sort of way, much the same as how some guys might call each other "pussies."

I like being a femme male, even though I don't always present that way it's who I am. I work in the construction trades so the way I usually dress is considered masculine but there are many times when I'm hanging with a bunch of men I tend to stand out as different in a similar way as other women in the trades. It's hard to explain exactly what I mean - it's more of a feeling really.

off work, I often wear skirts, have dangly ear rings, wear my hair in braids or pig tails, but I also have facial hair. I never wear makeup unless someone else puts it on me. I often get mistaken for female from behind but no one would mistake me face to face.

In the bedroom I like nearly everything. I like being objectified m/f, I like fucking and being fucked. I like penises, pussies, and puckers.

While there are a lot of femme males I find very attractive, some of whom I would consider sissies, I am not one of them. I relate most to being a tomboy or a tomgurl.
 
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