I’m cumming!

[Trionyx]

Does anyone actually say this during climax or is it a figment of writers’ imaginations?

 

[MrPixel]

Hell yes. More polite than "Fuck fuck fuck. Oh gawd. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck."

 

[Britva415]

Sometimes.

I think women say it more than men because men can't always tell.

In a story, I think there are better ways to show that someone is coming than to just have them say it.

 

[lovecraft68]

I remember reading an x-rated paperback back in 80's and in every sex scene the girl would yell "I'm cummmmminnnngggggg"

I don't think its a thing anymore, but was a staple of bad porn.

 

[ElectricBlue]

I'm more, "I'm going to come;" the event itself being less communicative, more incoherent.

 

[TadOverdon]

No, but people do say "ohgodohgodohgodohgod..." Also, perplexing curse words.

 

[SimonDoom]

Anytime you ask "Does anyone . . . ?" at an erotic story site, the correct answer is going to be "Yes, somebody does, sometimes." It might be unusual, but that doesn't mean it never happens.

 

[MikeHockisgon]

Sometimes.

I think women say it more than men because men can't always tell.

In a story, I think there are better ways to show that someone is coming than to just have them say it.

idk i can tell when im about to

 

[ElectricBlue]

No, but people do say "ohgodohgodohgodohgod..." Also, perplexing curse worlds.

Fucking Jupiter, scumbag Saturn? The problem you have when a god is a planet, and your post spell check didn't quite work .

 

[Rob_Royale]

In sex, I say it to give my wife a heads-up when she's sucking my cock. She swallows maybe one time in four, so it's just politeness on my part. And it's usually part of a long string of sounds or words to explain how good I'm feeling.
In my writing, admittedly I use it a lot.
“Oh yes baby, I’m gonna cum all over your face.”
Because I fucking love dirty talk. I wish my wife did it more often.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Usually, if she tells you she is coming, she is not.

 

[jsmiam]

I think many men, myself included, say “I’m gonna cum” as a: polite statement of fact; a warning/forewarning; giving them a chance to pull away but hoping they won’t; asking for permission; hoping for permission; hinting that they sure would like permission; or feedback on what to do about the how and where of said cum, perhaps hoping for an offer to switch destinations. (For me, (h), all of the above.)

That wasn’t the question though. Regarding “I’m cumming” specifically, I suspect when a guy says it it’s more of an “I came” than “I’m cumming.” Aka oops.

 

[Twistedkink]

Hell yes. More polite than "Fuck fuck fuck. Oh gawd. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck."

Definitely agree! It’s not hot fucking decoy your not being vocal.

 

[BiscuitHammer]

I gave the matter some thought as pertains to my own writing, and the people who say "I'm cumming!" are the people who shouldn't be at that moment, generally.

So in my stories, a brother is a lot more likely to announce he's about to nut in his sister than a husband is in a wife. I surmise it's because of the thrill of the taboo happening, and the verbal cue is an added tingle between them. A hushed, excited whisper of them breaking the rules, if you will.

That's just a guess, based on some scans of my stories. I wouldn't have noticed if this hadn't been posted. Nifty quirk to find out about myself.

 

[BobbyBrandt]

I prefer more non-verbal signs of a climax, but I also like motivational dirty talk. Things like each partner urging the other to cum while they are in the throws of their own climax. It really depends on the characters and their relationship at the time that the sex act is happening.

 

[Djmac1031]

In general (and I'm sure I could go back through my own stories and disprove myself somewhere) I try to avoid the direct announcement and do more of a lead up; "I'm close, it's right there, almost there," etc.

From there go into more of the physical reactions/ feelings.

 

[Ophelia_Coque]

It helps if your partner tells you when he is going to come when you are giving him a blowjob. There is nothing worse than a sudden ejaculation that goes down your windpipe.
I don't come every time with vaginal sex, so it is a thrill for him to be told that he has pushed all the right buttons.
IMHO

 

[Filipinawife]

It helps if your partner tells you when he is going to come when you are giving him a blowjob. There is nothing worse than a sudden ejaculation that goes down your windpipe.
I don't come every time with vaginal sex, so it is a thrill for him to be told that he has pushed all the right buttons.
IMHO

I agree it’s best if he tells you he’s cumming.

 

[MillieDynamite]

Holy shit, oh, my holy shit. Oh, God, oh fucking shit, oh shit, shit, shit. My God, right there, shit, motherfucking, shit! (or words that effect)

 

[nice90sguy]

I just drop my nail-file.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Holy shit, oh, my holy shit. Oh, God, oh fucking shit, oh shit, shit, shit. My God, right there, shit, motherfucking, shit! (or words that effect)

I think I can help there, Milly. Several years ago I was blessed with the most bizarre follower: you know, someone favourites a story, you go read their fave stories list because, if they've liked your story, they might have others you might like, common themes and all that.

Anyway, I discovered (and didn't really want to, believe me) that there is an entire sub-genre on Lit of lesbian scat stories, the most extreme of which had two chicks getting it off in a barrel of shit. I kid you not.

Then I remembered one of my first stories described a short term fascination with vids of Russian girls shitting in the woods, so I only had myself to blame.

But those coprophilia writers? Dozens of them, if that person's story list was anything to go by. The oddest thing I've found on Lit, I reckon.

 

[BiscuitHammer]

I think I can help there, Milly. Several years ago I was blessed with the most bizarre follower: you know, someone favourites a story, you go read their fave stories list because, if they've liked your story, they might have others you might like, common themes and all that.

Anyway, I discovered (and didn't really want to, believe me) that there is an entire sub-genre on Lit of lesbian scat stories, the most extreme of which had two chicks getting it off in a barrel of shit. I kid you not.

Then I remembered one of my first stories described a short term fascination with vids of Russian girls shitting in the woods, so I only had myself to blame.

But those coprophilia writers? Dozens of them, if that person's story list was anything to go by. The oddest thing I've found on Lit, I reckon.

Right up there with the irrumation kink people seem to have. I try not to judge, but the scatmongers, irrumators, and furries make it difficult... :/

 

[MillieDynamite]

I think I can help there, Milly. Several years ago I was blessed with the most bizarre follower: you know, someone favourites a story, you go read their fave stories list because, if they've liked your story, they might have others you might like, common themes and all that.

Anyway, I discovered (and didn't really want to, believe me) that there is an entire sub-genre on Lit of lesbian scat stories, the most extreme of which had two chicks getting it off in a barrel of shit. I kid you not.

Then I remembered one of my first stories described a short term fascination with vids of Russian girls shitting in the woods, so I only had myself to blame.

But those coprophilia writers? Dozens of them, if that person's story list was anything to go by. The oddest thing I've found on Lit, I reckon.

I only use the word, don't play in it. EEWWW I mean, like, OMG!

 

[ElectricBlue]

I only use the word, don't play in it. EEWWW I mean, like, OMG!

So you don't want the list then?

 

[SimonDoom]

I only use the word, don't play in it. EEWWW I mean, like, OMG!

I take it you are not a "Two Girls, One Cup" fan.