Hypothetically Speaking

[MorgaineLaFay]

Can you share your fantasy person? There is so much talk about him, her, us, lets all just jump into a great big love bed and shag like bunnies!

For me there no ‘Hypothetical’ situation. I believe in everything being possible. It may take time, but I believe it can happen.

My mind just won’t wrap around hypothetical situations. Sure I fantasies about a certain guy. I even think we might meet someday. Not today and not tomorrow. But in the future when our time is right. I even have a few lewd and alluring thoughts about a certain female. But do I want to share these two together? Hell no.

It’s all about you & me baby at the time. Not you, me & so-so.

I’ll admit it...I am selfish, I am an only child, I don't want to share...Hypothetically speaking or not.


How does one jump into the heat of it and not take your heart with you?

I am rambling ... it must be the cold meds...

Morgy

 

[Wiggles]

<---Confused

As for this question:
How does one jump into the heat of it and not take your heart with you?

I'd say, hormones, maybe alcohol, or just the need for a 'no strings attatched' relationship.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[lobito]

Morgy...

I don't think it's possible to "share" fantasy lovers, whether real or cyberly speaking. It's NEVER a good idea that if you are with more than one person in any situation, to let another know of it, or more specifically names.

What if both people know of, or just plain know each other, and talk anyway. Getting too many involved only leads to problems, MANY problems sometimes.

Lo

 

[freakygirl]

I just want to know who these fantasy people are...




oh yeah.. and your question.. I have the same point of view as you Morgy.. I don't like to share my toys...

 

[estevie]

Ohhh, I'll share!!!! No problems there!

 

[Summery]

Morgy...

I don't think it's possible to "share" fantasy lovers, whether real or cyberly speaking. It's NEVER a good idea that if you are with more than one person in any situation, to let another know of it, or more specifically names.

What if both people know of, or just plain know each other, and talk anyway. Getting too many involved only leads to problems, MANY problems sometimes.

Lo

Well Lo, you have just made some very valid points!
And, speaking from experience.....for me it has in the past led to more problems than it was worth. That's why I will just stick to the men in my RL.....and I'm not sharing either!
Don't get me wrong, I have my fantasies....but I will just keep those as just that, fantasy.



Sorry to hear you are so sick Morgy. Hands you kleenex and sends some get well wishes your way!
Summer

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[perks]

Beautiful,
Even if I get to meet my lover, when we bring in another person, it will always be between he and I.

It will be like sharing a meal, another spirit. Our connection will still be there, just like it is in this realm. We are part of each other.
Bringing another person into the picture *is* about the two of us.

I would love to share that with him in reality. Makes me weak just thinking of it.

Gorgeous

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Thanks for your well wishes Summer , I’m hanging in there, hoping to feel better by Thursday, I have a week long hall-pass starting then.


I appreciate the feedback very much. It is something that has been on my mind a lot recently. For no reason more then the topics I read here.

I have shared once before in the past, I don’t honestly think I could do it again. I’m just the good girl next door --- with a few bad intentions harboring in the depths of my mind. But who knows?

Although Perky does paint a seductive scene. For two people sharing another together, both players knowing that the third person is just an added touch for their pleasure.


Morgy

 

[juicylips]

Can you share your fantasy person? There is so much talk about him, her, us, lets all just jump into a great big love bed and shag like bunnies!

For me there no ‘Hypothetical’ situation. I believe in everything being possible. It may take time, but I believe it can happen.

My mind just won’t wrap around hypothetical situations. Sure I fantasies about a certain guy. I even think we might meet someday. Not today and not tomorrow. But in the future when our time is right. I even have a few lewd and alluring thoughts about a certain female. But do I want to share these two together? Hell no.

It’s all about you & me baby at the time. Not you, me & so-so.

I’ll admit it...I am selfish, I am an only child, I don't want to share...Hypothetically speaking or not.


How does one jump into the heat of it and not take your heart with you?

I am rambling ... it must be the cold meds...

Morgy

Let me sort this out:

You don't want to share your fantasy person that eventually you think you might meet and be with, right?

Also, you want to fuck that person, but not lose your heart in the process??


Cassidy

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Clarify...Yes I want to shag with my fantasy person like bunnies.

No I don’t to share...<only child...never learned to share in the sandbox>

And I’ll risk my heart if it happens to make an appearance.


If it doesn't appear, my heart that is, then more the merrier


Morgy

 

[tulip2lipservice]

Morgy until you meet that....

fantasy man that is all it is. As you know I have met a few from online. Yes, several are the same in real life as they are on line. However there are plenty that aren't what appear to be from this realm. Our expectations within our mind at times make it almost impossible for them to live up to in real life. The day in and day out every day life things.

If you feel you have met "him" online than meet as soon as both of you can. If he refuses to meet than his words are simply that and he probably does not care for you as much as he says he does. For if he did nothing would hold him back from doing so. It has been a long road for me to accept that. At times I still struggle with it, but so many have risked to meet me in real life have shown me this. It is not all about sex meeting somebody here. It is about having real life connections when you meet. I have met several good friends from Lit over the year that I have been here. Yes, there are a few I have my doubts that I meet. However, they were experiences and time being with another human being in person besides online. A chance and a risk to see the person behind the words.

I too yearn to find that man that possess all the elements I am looking for. Hitting my head against my desk. I do admit that I feel that some day I will meet that person you and I have discussed in the past. The one that had created tension between you and I at one point. Again if all he has told me about himself is true I am sure we will meet. My ears are pierced at the moment thinking about what Perky would say to me. OK Duckie I am working through letting go but it is a something I hold on to at times. Again a dream or perhaps a fantasy.

Never said I was not determined or stubborn.

I am not an only child but that sharing thing I agree with you. If that person is truly right than why would you have to share. I hope you find your own way Morgy.

Peace,
Tulip

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Grrrrr

This was never about me 'thinking' I met Mr. Perfect or that he wants to be with me and someone else, or that he doesn't want to meet.

Purely curious Sweets.

I may be a romantic at heart, But I am not faint hearted. I am a pretty smart cookie.

I am not lost. I know where I am...I don’t live by delusions in my head.

 

[tulip2lipservice]

OK ....

backing out the door for simply trying to share my thoughts. Sorry you misconstrued. No harm was meant.

Peace,
Tulip

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Ahh meant no harm Tulip, must be my cold, frustrating me all to hell.

I just simply wanted to clarify that I wasn’t walking around with Rose Colored glasses on ... I know you’re only looking out for me when I appear to.

Morgy

 

[PuraVida503]

I think when you meet your Mr. Right, you will know it... and if you're his Miss Right, he'll know it.

When I met mine, there was an audible "CLICK" or more like a perfect note being plucked on a stand up base... granted, it took my better half a few weeks to hear the same chord... but we've been married for 5 years now with not an ounce of dishormony (and lots of great sex)...

which brings me to the idea of sharing your true love with another... over this past year we've tried that in a few different ways... some better outcomes than others... and, to get to the point, it has only strengthened our commitment, love and security for each other. The key to this is simple ==> communication.

ahhh... but the beauty behind a fantasy person is that you can do anything you like with them... even change the rules... try sharing two fanatsy people (that's how we got started meeting and including others in real life) see what happens... with a fantasy person, there is nothing to loose. BTW... our search to meet our fantasy woman continues...

If I may be so intrusive to ask the question... what sparked your post?

 

[juicylips]

Clarify...Yes I want to shag with my fantasy person like bunnies.

No I don’t to share...<only child...never learned to share in the sandbox>

And I’ll risk my heart if it happens to make an appearance.


If it doesn't appear, my heart that is, then more the merrier


Morgy

Thanks Morgy for clearing this up for me.

I agree with your points. Except the point about risking my heart. My heart is my own.

I hope you find that special person, M

Cassidy

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

What sparked my post?

Basic curiosity

Fantasizing about others. Mass riots in my head!

The idea of being with a woman again and possibly sharing that with someone I care about.


Morgy

 

[NoRegrets]

Can I share my fantasy person?

Absolutely not!

My fantasy is not a person but a composite of attributes that are mutually exclusive. What is the most offensive trait about my fantasy person? Answer, there are no traits that are offensive. My fantasy person has a tough take charge demeanor when I don’t want that role but is passive and quite docile when that suits my mood. No demand of my fantasy is unreasonable and none requires consideration of any kind.

No person is as good as a fantasy. Yet the best fantasy is nothing more than imagination without the messiness of dealing with an autonomous person that has their own fantasies.

If I live life waiting for my fantasy, I will be lonely unless I am alone.

 

[PuraVida503]

Curiosity is a good thing... I think it's what leads us through our lives... to see what happens next.

Was left with a question... you said the reason for the post was sparked by the idea of being with a woman again and possibly sharing that with someone you care about....

Hypothetically speaking... if there was no current 'special someone' in your life... I was wondering how you might feel to be the woman shared between a loving couple?

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

*chuckling*

There is a not so special someone in my life...Ouch! Damn that was rude of me...But true.

And there is someone special. But that is out of reach.

I don't know if I could be "that" person for you two.


Morgy

 

[Kandi]

gawd!

i'd love to jump into this chat
but i have to run, so
i'll try to catch up later

 

[krista_kisses]

I'm a female takign the male side.

Some men, there is only so much you can gain from knowing them. Sometimes it;s just sex. they may not be on your level, but ONE HELL OF A STALLION!
they may be smart, but there is no attraction, so you remain great friends and NEVER shag.

but in that HELL OF A STALLION situation, i'm the one that sneaks out in the morning.

I once tried to slip out of bed early one morning, and he tried to leave while i was in the potty and we ran into each other leaving each other!!! hopped back in bed and fucked like bunnies!

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Well then...


Morgy