Humiliation?

Bi-guy here, there are times when i just love to be humiliated, called names, made fun of, laughed at, just really turns me on. 63y0 chubby in Florida, USA
 
What I'd like:
A well dressed mature woman, eye contact, a riding crop on the table to remind me, I'm naked and vulnerable. Embarrassing questions that she doesn't allow me to answer fully, before she answers for me. I don't dare contradict her and must apologize for masturbating without her permission, I have to show her how I did it. No names that I can think of, no cursing or loud voice. She and I are both aware at any time she may decide to make our little talk quite painful for me.
Two or three well dressed women watching would be perfect but not possible to arrange.
Reminds me I was in a BDSM Brothel in NYC around Times sq, back in the day, and I was naked being controlled by a domme, when we had to change rooms. She guided me, naked thru a corridor where three ladies dressed in street clothes were talking, obviously employed there. Although they ignored me, the humiliation was terrific.
Giuliani ruined a great place.



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Hmmm interesting thread.

For me humiliation comes in so many forms from, name calling, public/private, subtle not so subtle. Even things that can be done privately and publicly. Depends on the interests of my partner. Going out in public wearing a buttplug, or tailplug under their clothes. Body writing having words or phrases written on her flesh, as she works away her co-workers none the wiser.

Just to start
 
What kind of humiliation do you like to do and what turns you on about it?
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Sometime I will come into the room and my wife will be sitting in her chair. She will be wearing some sort of light summer dress and there will be a large outline of her cock. After a minute of me just looking at her basking in her beautiful she will tell me to come here. Then she will lean back in her chair and have me get on my knees between her legs. Ill lift up her dress to expose her cock. I already know what she wants so I move towards her cock with mouth open. Then sometimes she will pull back teasing me on how much I want to suck her cock. Then she will ask question, there is pings of humiliation telling her that I want her cock in my mouth. Then sometimes during this song and dance just at the right moment with the head of her cock entering my throat and my lips wrapped around her shaft she takes a picture for her collection. There’s something so humiliating but oh so erotic at the same time.
 
My wife and I got up really early today. Plan was to work out, then go to the farm (1/4 mile away) to water our crops and flowers and then jump in the pool before we started our day jobs.

Work out was great (she slept in today tho), then it was off to the farm. Turned on soaker hoses for the pumpkins, gourds while we picked peppers, zucchini and tomatoes.

Then I brought up the produce and watered the flowers near our farmstand. On the way back to the truck, my wife told me to wait… she had a surprise. She bright me behind our farm building, shackled my hands to a harrow, had me bend over and spanked my ass till it was just barely red. It was wonderfully humiliating! Especially because cars were going by!! Don’t think they could see what was happening unless they we’re really looking, but I love that thrill of being potentially found out.

It was a quick spanking - had to get ready for the day ahead… she took these pics and told me to post them.

Spanking at the farm
Close up of red bum

Then we ran home and jumped in the pool naked to get ready for our day jobs.

Couldn’t sleep for shit last night so this made for a great early start to the day!
 
I enjoy several things about humiliation. I love being called names like cocksucker or cumslut, I've had this done in public a couple times which was really hot. Being used for someone's pleasure and no care about me getting off, knowing I'm just for them to use me. I've had a couple guys call me to get them off then tell me to leave. Wish I had a few women too.

One of my hottest things I've done was agree to let a guy video me so I could get a facial. I didn't want to but I really wanted a facial. He used his phone and sent me a copy, but not sure if he's shown the video to anyone. I've shared it with a couple people, it was a huge facial too!! Well worth it!!
 
First post, so be gentle
many years ago I was in an affair with a (fairly) strong willed woman. We were in a hotel suite having sex, me f***g her from behind. My phone rang and I picked it up and answered it, she went absolutely crazy. Ended up naked and locked out of the bedroom part of the suite over night.
She expressed her unhappiness more calmly and said we were over unless I would do something for her that day.
We drove to Manchester and she guided me to a Mistress she had booked. In the following 2 hours she watched me take a severe otk spanking, my first pegging and some other stuff.
As I was receiving my first golden shower she passed me her phone and told me to tell her best friend (who I knew) where I was and what was happening. We were to meet her best friend that evening which was almost as humiliating as the 2 hours. Our relationship changed, for the better.
 
I'm sure my fascination with humiliation stems from my having served as my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school. He would constantly try to get me to agree to let him to tell all our friends I was his cocksucker and invite them to attend our 'sessions'. I begged him not to tell them as I was afraid it would become common knowledge that I was a 'cocksucker' and it would get back to my parents. I was convinced he would eventually tell them anyway, in spite of my objections and I would masturbate while imagining myself on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, sucking cock after cock and swallowing all their semen as they all stood around, laughing at me and stroking their erect cocks while waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth.
One day, I arrived at Larry's house, prepared to give him his daily blowjob, to find that Steven, a friend of ours, had arrived there before me. I was certain Larry had invited him to get a blowjob from me only to learn that he had come to pick up a homework assignment he had missed. He left soon after, but I was surprised to realize how disappointed I felt that Larry hadn't told him and that I wouldn't get to suck his cock.
A current feeder of mine has taken numerous pictures of me sucking his cock and also the cocks of many of his friends to whom he routinely 'passes me around'. He has posted online these highly recognizable photos of me, clearly showing my face with someone's cock stuffed in my mouth along with a blurb beneath the picture stating "This is Cocksucker Bill, if you recognize him, give him a call and say 'Hey Bill, SUCK MY COCK!!'
 
I am a humiliation pig for my wife, she knows what I like, we play a little about once a month, but I am a greedy pig who needs more here on lit, I’m ready, I also switch to strong type
 
I'm sure my fascination with humiliation stems from my having served as my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school.
You're the first person I think to actually express the roots of the desire. I'm curious how others came to realise that was their thing.

I had a seminal moment when I was 18 but I realised, while in conversation with someone here, that the origins started some time before
 
You're the first person I think to actually express the roots of the desire. I'm curious how others came to realise that was their thing.
I had a seminal moment when I was 18 but I realised, while in conversation with someone here, that the origins started some time before
The very first, most primal human instinct, the first and only survival mechanism we have when we are first born... is to suck. It is nurture, it is comfort, it is warmth, it is security, it is sustenance.
Although we grow and mature and sophisticate, those very basic needs are there in the back of your subconscious. Getting comfort from sucking is a very natural and human thing. If you happen to be sucking a cock, even more so...
 
The very first, most primal human instinct, the first and only survival mechanism we have when we are first born... is to suck. It is nurture, it is comfort, it is warmth, it is security, it is sustenance.
Although we grow and mature and sophisticate, those very basic needs are there in the back of your subconscious. Getting comfort from sucking is a very natural and human thing. If you happen to be sucking a cock, even more so...
It's not about the sucking as such - that was a vehicle. Sterculius wasn't humiliated by sucking men, but by the fear of being exposed.
 
I completely understand what you mean by high Lucy_Lastic. It's a bit bizarre in a sense because you hate it and love it at once and it's such an incredibly powerful feeling. I also still clearly remember my own situation, and even just thinking about it makes me blush.
 
I completely understand what you mean by high Lucy_Lastic. It's a bit bizarre in a sense because you hate it and love it at once and it's such an incredibly powerful feeling. I also still clearly remember my own situation, and even just thinking about it makes me blush.
care to share?
 
As I previously mentioned I love being humiliated. The brain-fuck aspect of it really turns me on. Been thinking lately what it would be like to have to send pics of my wifes breasts to someone...then maybe they humiliated me or make me do things with the thread of posting her pics on a porn site...
Do you have your wife’s consent to send her pics to someone else? You might want to stick to your own pics if she’s not in full agreement with that.
 
i get turned on the most when i am humiliated. I would like that to be when we two are alone in the room as I don't have the guts to go out and do something of the sort (as of now.) But when I took a random test from the internet to see what kind of a person I am (in BDSM category) it was most definitely and to my content "Degradee".

I have not had the chance to fully explore it yet, but the though of someone humiliating and degrading me excites me more than anything else.
 
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