Humiliation?

In a motel room many times, but never in front of the balcony window.
Well if you don't do it in front of the balcony window, having her tell you to describe what is going on and moan louder could be humiliating if there are people next door.:D
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Well if you don't do it in front of the balcony window, having her tell you to describe what is going on and moan louder could be humiliating if there are people next door.:D
ES
Nevermind^ I just read your post in the other thread. I guess you have done that!
 
It’s definitely something I want to try. Probably in a confined space around people I know who are into the lifestyle, but yes, my Domme humiliating me in a sexy and playful way? Umm, yes.
 
Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

Mood rn to be honest.

Degradation and sluttyness is hot, and when you're in the moment, you don't care who knows it.
 
Everyones experiences are different. I’ve wrote about this before. My wife has a group of friend. I’d imagine all of them know about out lifestyle. A few of them ask questions. Only one of them playfully teases me, but only when my wife isn’t around. Some of them are interested in itand other aren’t or think it’s weird.

I will tell you the first time someone said something about it to me it’s was like my heart skipped a beat and shot into my throat.
 
Everyones experiences are different. I’ve wrote about this before. My wife has a group of friend. I’d imagine all of them know about out lifestyle. A few of them ask questions. Only one of them playfully teases me, but only when my wife isn’t around. Some of them are interested in itand other aren’t or think it’s weird.

I will tell you the first time someone said something about it to me it’s was like my heart skipped a beat and shot into my throat.
That sounds like humiliation, thanks for sharing.
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Being made to rim her, lick her spit and pee from the floor, Masturbate and lick it up. Being reminded that although she doesn't say it, I'm to clean her up when she comes home, regardless...no questions allowed. Being slapped in the face in public would be nice, but I doubt that can ever happen.
 
Being made to rim her, lick her spit and pee from the floor, Masturbate and lick it up. Being reminded that although she doesn't say it, I'm to clean her up when she comes home, regardless...no questions allowed. Being slapped in the face in public would be nice, but I doubt that can ever happen.
Slapped. Yeah. In my dreams.
 
When my wife pegs me and has me suck her strapon she has me tell her how much I want to and how it feels while she’s doing it. Sometimes she take video clips for her viewing pleasure. When your playing and in the moment is one thing. Watching yourself later and listening to yourself beg for her to fuck you or to suck her and how it feels and asking her to fuck you harder can be a little humiliating. Then if she shows her friends it kicks it up a notch.

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When my wife pegs me and has me suck her strapon she has me tell her how much I want to and how it feels while she’s doing it. Sometimes she take video clips for her viewing pleasure. When your playing and in the moment is one thing. Watching yourself later and listening to yourself beg for her to fuck you or to suck her and how it feels and asking her to fuck you harder can be a little humiliating. Then if she shows her friends it kicks it up a notch.

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What a good wife
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?
Seems to be the case for me. Also doing "forbidden" sex. Being humiliated in front of others for some weird reason gives me massive orgasms. Being degraded in front of others makes me for submissive and willing to do anything.
 
Seems to be the case for me. Also doing "forbidden" sex. Being humiliated in front of others for some weird reason gives me massive orgasms. Being degraded in front of others makes me for submissive and willing to do anything.
I like the light Femdom touch.
 
For myself most forms of erotic behavior have been pre-planned with limits, safe words, some activities off limits like scat and blood. But degradation can be genuine….past one’s limits and still be safe. It isn’t the danger….the whole point is to go past the limits, new, novel experiences that can not be forgotten.
Bound,vulnerable, exposed like the whores we are…..a large animal is brought in……
 
When my wife pegs me and has me suck her strapon she has me tell her how much I want to and how it feels while she’s doing it. Sometimes she take video clips for her viewing pleasure. When your playing and in the moment is one thing. Watching yourself later and listening to yourself beg for her to fuck you or to suck her and how it feels and asking her to fuck you harder can be a little humiliating. Then if she shows her friends it kicks it up a notch.

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Hahaha!! 👉 I love it!
 
Seems to be the case for me. Also doing "forbidden" sex. Being humiliated in front of others for some weird reason gives me massive orgasms. Being degraded in front of others makes me for submissive and willing to do anything.
Oh God yes, me too! I fought it for many years but the attraction is just too strong! I was on a blind date one time, I liked the guy and so I eased the discussion to the movie "The Ugly Truth", where the girl 'accidentally' wears remote controlled vibrating panties and winds up fighting not to cum (and losing) in a restaurant. I told him that was bs, any girl could keep hold off her orgasm as long as she wanted. We went back and forth for a while and finally wound up at a XXX store where he bought remote controlled vibrating panties.
I had fun losing the bet all night and he got a kick out of making me get off at the restaurant, at the club where we went dancing, and in bed later. It was SO DAMN HUMILIATING and SO DAMN HOT!!!
 
Yeah but what guy EVER has a hair tie and even if he did would he hand it to me?

to Answer the question, yes i would hand my wife a hair tie and she would thing it considerate. I don’t have a hair tie on me but as I sit here I can come up with three within reach that would not interrupt things.
 
to Answer the question, yes i would hand my wife a hair tie and she would thing it considerate. I don’t have a hair tie on me but as I sit here I can come up with three within reach that would not interrupt things.
Considerate? Really? Consider the fact that I want it NOW and will probably lose the hair tie anyway. Geez someone could lose an eye! haha
 
For myself most forms of erotic behavior have been pre-planned with limits, safe words, some activities off limits like scat and blood. But degradation can be genuine….past one’s limits and still be safe. It isn’t the danger….the whole point is to go past the limits, new, novel experiences that can not be forgotten.
Bound,vulnerable, exposed like the whores we are…..a large animal is brought in……
I’m so the same. Agreed upon hard limits and pushing boundaries elsewhere. Name calling, written on, brought out for multiple men.. or animals.. bathroom play. I think in some ways I enjoy that being so caught up in the act helps pause my brain and let’s me enjoy the moment.
 
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