Humiliation?

[eroticspank]

Forced Orgasm

Having an orgasm when you don't want to can be humiliating.

ES

 

[sterculius]

I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving men blowjobs. I've been a Cocksucker all my life ever since I began giving daily blowjobs to my best friend Larry as a teenager. He would threaten to expose me and tell all our friends so that I would have to blow them also. He never did but I would jerk off imagining he had told them. I still do. I would visualize myself down on my knees sucking each of them off, one after another as the rest of them all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth. I wish he had told them. All my life I've been both thrilled and terrified at the thought of being exposed as a Cocksucker. With the exception of my wife, none of my friends or family have any idea of my oral obsession. Not too long ago, during a moment of weakness I confessed to her that as a teenager I'd been my best friend's eager and willing personal cocksucker all through high school. She was surprised, but ultimately attributed my behavior to adolescent sexual experimentation. She has no idea that I still routinely meet with men to suck their cocks.

 

[eroticspank]

In response to an earlier question the reaction is important. Maybe in the case of porn both the husband and wife agree that this is their best option to pay the bills. He goes with her to the shoot...he watches...how does he feel as he watches...does he grit his teeth as he watches or does he try to hide is arousal.

Maybe one nite when everyone else is asleep a father decides he wants to watch some porn. During the process he clicks on a clip, he cant believe his eyes, it looks like his daugher...having sex with a delivery man or licking a guys ass or getting pissed on or having a dick shoved down her throat until she pukes all over herself. How does he react? Shocked, disgusted, or aroused. Is he upset if it arouses him. What will he do the next time he sees her?

Your explanations make it much clearer what you are getting at, thanks!

I can imagine it would be like someone coercing you into anal sex or you had to do it as a part of the Porn scene. You have an amazing orgasm during the scene but you feel disgust that you liked it. Disgust and Humiliation when your husband finds out you like it. He is turned on by it, but doesn't want to admit it to you because he is disgusted by it or feels he should be disgusted by it.

ES

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

No, You are not alone. In regards to sex I go for a partner who gets enjoyment from degrading me and humiliating me where others can appreciate my degradation. I feel that is my purpose in being.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving men blowjobs. I've been a Cocksucker all my life ever since I began giving daily blowjobs to my best friend Larry as a teenager. He would threaten to expose me and tell all our friends so that I would have to blow them also. He never did but I would jerk off imagining he had told them. I still do. I would visualize myself down on my knees sucking each of them off, one after another as the rest of them all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth. I wish he had told them. All my life I've been both thrilled and terrified at the thought of being exposed as a Cocksucker. With the exception of my wife, none of my friends or family have any idea of my oral obsession. Not too long ago, during a moment of weakness I confessed to her that as a teenager I'd been my best friend's eager and willing personal cocksucker all through high school. She was surprised, but ultimately attributed my behavior to adolescent sexual experimentation. She has no idea that I still routinely meet with men to suck their cocks.

Oh My, You would have enjoyed growing up in the little town I grew up in. Just to the North of New Orleans.

 

[Makeday]

I love a domme to humiliate me in front of her friends

 

[humiliatemepiggy]

I need this too

I love being humiliated, once I get a little bit, I crave more and more

 

[humiliatemepiggy]

I have a strong fantasy about being a slut’s sub, I really like the idea of being used by sluts who get humiliated and used, then take that out on me, show me how they would use me. I would think they know what to do, this would take a switch or a special person, I fantasize about cocks and women both, and to have both or a small mixed group would be amazing

 

[base10]

I have a strong fantasy about being a slut’s sub, I really like the idea of being used by sluts who get humiliated and used, then take that out on me, show me how they would use me. I would think they know what to do, this would take a switch or a special person, I fantasize about cocks and women both, and to have both or a small mixed group would be amazing

I love the idea with a tiered chain. I'm dominating a sub, who is in turn dominating another sub. The one at the bottom is not allowed to interact or speak to me. All communication must be administered through the middle link in the chain.

The middle link is the most fascinating to me, she both must submit to me, yet dominate someone beneath her, at the same time. I think it would be a fun mental head game.

 

[AnnieLit]

I love the idea with a tiered chain. I'm dominating a sub, who is in turn dominating another sub. The one at the bottom is not allowed to interact or speak to me. All communication must be administered through the middle link in the chain.

The middle link is the most fascinating to me, she both must submit to me, yet dominate someone beneath her, at the same time. I think it would be a fun mental head game.

It will depend on the middle's type of switching: for some it is time dependent (now I am this and now I am that), for some it is person dependent (with this person I am a Domme, with this I am a sub). The first one probably would not work, but I don't see too many problems with the second one. Except for one: absolutely no chance for her to go into sub-space. But if this is a special gift for her Dom and does not become a regular thing, then why not?

 

[base10]

It will depend on the middle's type of switching: for some it is time dependent (now I am this and now I am that), for some it is person dependent (with this person I am a Domme, with this I am a sub). The first one probably would not work, but I don't see too many problems with the second one. Except for one: absolutely no chance for her to go into sub-space. But if this is a special gift for her Dom and does not become a regular thing, then why not?

I fully get how this wouldn't work due to the inability to get into subspace.It's probably impossible to be in subspace to one person while being dominant to another at the same time. Yes as a one off it would work, but I would never want to lose the magic of subspace.

 

[cuck72]

I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving men blowjobs. I've been a Cocksucker all my life ever since I began giving daily blowjobs to my best friend Larry as a teenager. He would threaten to expose me and tell all our friends so that I would have to blow them also. He never did but I would jerk off imagining he had told them. I still do. I would visualize myself down on my knees sucking each of them off, one after another as the rest of them all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth. I wish he had told them. All my life I've been both thrilled and terrified at the thought of being exposed as a Cocksucker. With the exception of my wife, none of my friends or family have any idea of my oral obsession. Not too long ago, during a moment of weakness I confessed to her that as a teenager I'd been my best friend's eager and willing personal cocksucker all through high school. She was surprised, but ultimately attributed my behavior to adolescent sexual experimentation. She has no idea that I still routinely meet with men to suck their cocks.

I can really see how this can be such a turn on. To be exposed to other guys that you like sucking cock. I know of a few guys that I masturbate over, thinking of being told to get on my knees and start sucking. I've really gotten into the dominant bully types, because I think of a few guys that I worked with, and I had my share of arguments with. So and think of them finding out about my submissive cock sucking fantasies, and imagine them making me suck them and eat their assholes, them laughing and the total humiliation on it is such a turn on.

 

[sterculius]

I can really see how this can be such a turn on. To be exposed to other guys that you like sucking cock. I know of a few guys that I masturbate over, thinking of being told to get on my knees and start sucking. I've really gotten into the dominant bully types, because I think of a few guys that I worked with, and I had my share of arguments with. So and think of them finding out about my submissive cock sucking fantasies, and imagine them making me suck them and eat their assholes, them laughing and the total humiliation on it is such a turn on.

While humiliation is a potent arousal trigger for me, denigration turns me off. It excites me to imagine myself being orally used and objectified by others whose only interest is their sexual gratification while being oblivious to how it might affect me. To them I'm merely a tool to be used and then discarded. They derive no enjoyment from my discomfort, they simply don't care! How I feel is irrelevant. And THAT excites me!!!

 

[slavecaro]

intimate, personal & situational

I am getting more and more into humiliation but it really is only important that it be between me, my Domme and maybe close friends. exposure to others is not really important to me. Here is a short list of ideas that I find erotic

•Being denied putting my penis inside her. Being told no and directed to other activities
o Masturbate
 Forced to masturbate and not enter her
 Forced to cum on her stomach and pussy and lick it off before licking you
o Stroked by her or me and being told that my penis does not pleasure her
o Only allowed to hump your thigh or stomach to cum
o Told no but doing 69 and when I cum I have lick it off
o Being told “no. Get off me. Your penis does not feel good to me. Lick me” I don't have a small penis so I have never been interested in SPH


• forced to masturbate while she is dress and Telling of humiliating past things?
• Wear feminine clothing while dressed as boy. This is strange because I have lived full time as a woman so women's clothing does not humiliate me
• Sucking on a strapon
• Strapon fucking
• Cum eating
• Face sitting
• Wear cum on my face in private and public
• Diapers, forced to use them
• Drinking her pee. In public from a wine glass is even more humiliating
• Masturbating in front of her while she does other things
• having to ask her to masturbate and then having to stand there and do it and beg to cum. Of course most times I am denied and have to keep edging and stopping.


• laying under her while she works or chats on the phone licking her feet or sucking on her toes. I don't really have a foot fetish, but this is humiliating

• doing covert things in public that probably will not be noticed by the public. E.g. diapers, drinking pee from a wine glass, confining casts on arms, etc. I can elaborate a lot on this if anyone is interested

I could probably do 50 more but I was curious to jump in here.

 

[little_quean]

Is there something humiliating about confessing to finding humiliation appealing?

 

[base10]

Is there something humiliating about confessing to finding humiliation appealing?

Yes, which makes it even more fun

 

[ObeseMan067]

Humiliation is very erotic for me. I have many different reasons to be humiliated and I love them all.

 

[eroticspank]

Humiliation is very erotic for me. I have many different reasons to be humiliated and I love them all.

If you don't mind, please describe the reasons and why?

ES

 

[EmpressJosephine]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

 

[eroticspank]

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

Of course! I would certainly say it counts.

I like the non cruel/mean approach. On another thread I described it like a curious woman who has no acknowledgement of taboos or rules. She does things because they are fun and pleasurable. So she does things to me that she thinks are fun and pleasurable....when we get to a rule or taboo...and I find myself blushing, humiliated, and she likes my reaction in a fun way---ooh let's explore some more-- and tries to find more reactions like that.

ES

 

[CherylLee83]

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

Thats Beautful Empress

 

[LizVegas79]

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

It does in my book!

Being forced to be on display is as terrifying as it is empowering!

 

[SissySalina]

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

If the submissive enjoys this, is it humiliation?

 

[eroticspank]

If the submissive enjoys this, is it humiliation?

Yes.

It is about having the reaction of humiliation and actually liking it. Imagine being embarrassed, you have the reaction, your face gets completely red and in that moment you are very uncomfortable. After the reaction goes away and you are back to normal you find that you liked the situation you were put in.

For many people (subs) it is the rush of the situation or their reaction to the situation. So IF a person is put on display and they are not embarrassed or don't react in any way, then there is no turn on and it is not humiliation---the person didn't feel anything. So you do something else that they do react to or maybe humiliation is not their thing.

ES

 

[AnnieLit]

Yes.

It is about having the reaction of humiliation and actually liking it. Imagine being embarrassed, you have the reaction, your face gets completely red and in that moment you are very uncomfortable. After the reaction goes away and you are back to normal you find that you liked the situation you were put in.

For many people (subs) it is the rush of the situation or their reaction to the situation. So IF a person is put on display and they are not embarrassed or don't react in any way, then there is no turn on and it is not humiliation---the person didn't feel anything. So you do something else that they do react to or maybe humiliation is not their thing.

ES

There is a third option, though.
You do something that you THINK should be embarrassing for the sub, because it would be to you, if the roles were reversed. They clearly enjoy the activity, but... they feel neither ebarrassed, nor humiliated. Excited, aroused -- yes, but not humiliated or embarrased.