Humiliation?

[sweetnpetite]

Oh my!! I love your avatar....

Your not alone. I enjoyed what little experience Ive had with it

 

[sweetnpetite]

I had a gf who would insult and tease and humiliate me during sex. It was a huge turn on.

What wouid she say? Can you give some examples? (For science)

 

[sweetnpetite]

Damn this whole thread is making me so horny...

I love finding a sub who is a table

 

[sweetnpetite]

It us surprisingly difficult to get a man to humiliate me. Dont know why.

Yes... or they are willing but not skilled...

 

[sweetnpetite]

A lot of people being really TERRIBLE at something does not equal to having high standards.. I read the same thing as you... you heard... "She has high standards" I read, "yeah just because we are into humiliation doesn't mean you shouid be unimaginative and have zero game...

She doesn't have HIGH standards. She just has *standards.* Domt get those things confused....

High standards would be if she gave an example of someone really bringing it and her turning up her nose... not what she showed.

Just in this thread alone, the posts quoted above all suggest that you have somewhat high standards for the caliber of humiliation that appeals to you. I'm also pretty sure I've seen similar comments in other threads where the same subject comes up. This is not a bad thing, mind you, just an observation of what seems to be a pattern.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I feel like a big whimpering mess of a sex toy reading this...

Maybe what I really crave isn't so much humiliation as it is self abasement. Purposely placing myself in a vulnerable situation to be "used" by someone else solely for their sexual gratification and release without having the slightest concern for my enjoyment or even comfort. To them, how I feel is irrelevant. I find this extremely arousing!

 

[sweetnpetite]

I like tbe cruel and mean...

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

 

[2small4Mrs]

Raises hand......I actually crave it.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

Hi.
So I love humiliation, within proper context. With the right partner who, despite his consensual abusive behavior, still values me and will care for me after the experience.
That being said, I am willing to explore just how horrible I could feel. I cannot say if what happens to me, would bring me to tears, but I wouldn't mind finding that out.
Reading the posts through this thread, I see many aspects that are appealing for me. From public exposure to using me like a pig whore.
The smaller, less important I am made to feel, the wetter I get.
I think that words would do more (wanted) damage than just physical interactions.
Just my thoughts.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

No , you’re not alone , maybe the herd is really really thinned out with it being their primary desire as a fetish.

But you ain’t alone as far as the desire for it. I’ve tapped a few slits here that can’t get enough of it here , there , everywhere.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

No , you’re not alone , maybe the herd is really really thinned out with it being their primary desire as a fetish.

But you ain’t alone as far as the desire for it. I’ve tapped a few slits here that can’t get enough of it here , there , everywhere.

my highlight.
Some might take offense to that statement.

Some.

 

[whenagain]

I like tbe cruel and mean...

How cruel? How mean? Examples?

 

[Goldenfinger]

I would not want to be in a relationship where there is constant humiliation. I’m not into humiliation in the general public. Under erotic circumstances it can be a powerful turn on.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

I would not want to be in a relationship where there is constant humiliation. I’m not into humiliation in the general public. Under erotic circumstances it can be a powerful turn on.

Hi Goldfinger.
I agree that constant humiliation, for me personally, isn't balanced. I like the yin/yang of this dynamic. Be cruel, but lift me up when it's over.
Hurt me phychologically, but put my mind at ease by letting me know you enjoy being that way, but still love me and admire me.
It's so very specific to each couple's dynamic. And it is a delicate place to be.
But with the right person, circumstances, and situation, it can be wonderful.

 

[flapear]

Hi Goldfinger.
I agree that constant humiliation, for me personally, isn't balanced. I like the yin/yang of this dynamic. Be cruel, but lift me up when it's over.
Hurt me phychologically, but put my mind at ease by letting me know you enjoy being that way, but still love me and admire me.
It's so very specific to each couple's dynamic. And it is a delicate place to be.
But with the right person, circumstances, and situation, it can be wonderful.

It's even more exciting and arousing when it has nothing to do with actual sex. It offers the chance to sexualize a completely unsexual situation like sticking out ears.

This story really happened.

A long time ago when I was 19 years old, I visited Jeff, a school friend. He lived with his parents in a big villa with a large garden and a tennis court.

We sat on a bench in the garden when his older sister came out of the villa and walked towards us.

“Hi, I’m Eva,” she said. She had long thick blond hair falling on her shoulders, a nice figure, well, she was very beautiful.

She sat down next to her brother.

Suddenly she pushed against the back of Jeff’s right ear with her finger. It folded over. “Look at his big flapping ears!” she laughed. "like the sails of a boat flapping in the wind! And his left ear sticks out even more!” She tenderly pulled his ears, stretching them.

Jeff’s face became red, flushed, but the way he smiled made me think that he rather liked what was happening. But my heart started beating fast, too. I was instantly aroused, knowing she would tease me, too

“I use his sticking out ears as reins when I ride on his shoulders,” Eva said. “Look!” She quickly stood on the bench behind Jeff who was still sitting and climbed on this shoulders. She pushed Jeff’s ears forward with her thumbs. She pushed hard, the ears touched his face. “Up!” she ordered and Jeff obeyed.

“Walk with us,” she said, “you’ll see how I steer him.”

She pulled his left or right ear to make turns, and when she pulled the ears even farther from his head he had to stand still. Pushing against the back of both ears meant: go in a straight line.

Five minutes later she steered Jeff back to the bench and dismounted. I saw that Jeff was aroused.

She now turned to me. “Hey, you also have protruding ears!” She laughed this sweet girl’s laugh. “Oh no, I’m wrong! Only your right ear sticks out! How funny! I’m going to ride you, too, I just must try you out!”

She tenderly pulled my sticking out ear. Then she climbed on my shoulders. It was very arousing, this beautiful girl on my shoulders, tenderly pulling my ears till they were red and hot.

She dismounted. “That was great!” she sighed. “And now, I’ll enjoy both my slave-elephants at the same time. Your elephant ears at my disposal! We do the camel position!”

She grabbed Jeff’s left ear. “I always use the ear that sticks out most to pull him where I want him to go,” she grinned. “It’s more humiliating and he likes that!”

I had to stand up with my back turned to Jeff. Eva pulled his ear to make him bow his back. He grabbed my hips. Eva sat on Jeff’s back. She pulled my protruding ear and I obediently made a right turn. From time to time she used Jeff’s ears, and with his hands on my hips, he made me go right or left.

Five minutes later, we were all sitting on the bench again. Suddenly Eva grabbed Jeff's ear. "Do you want to ride him?" she asked me. She didn't ask Jeff's permission. She was the dominant.

A bit shaky with excitement, I climbed on Jeff's strong shoulders and the moment I used his flapping ears as reins, my cock was rock hard against his neck. I had never been so aroused!

Afterwards, I said: “Eva, now it’s your turn! Camel position! But first, put your hair in a strict ponytail so that your ears are easy to pull!”

Eva’s face turned red. She squirmed a bit: “OK, I’ll show you my secret!”
She revealed her sticking out ears. “It’s in the family, I got them from my mother! That’s our gene pool.”

Eva took her position with her back turned to Jeff, who put his hands on her hips and I sat on Jeff’s back. I tenderly manipulated Eva’s ears to steer her, and she liked it a lot she said.

I stayed overnight. I couldn’t resist, I went into Jeff’s room, and before long I was riding him piggyback, both of us naked. Then suddenly Eva came in. “”Oh, no,” she said, “I have my urges, too.” She grabbed my sticky out ear and took me to her room. She rode on my shoulders, her wet pussy in my neck until she couldn’t hold out any longer. She wanted me to take her doggy style while I had to hold on to her ears. Wonderful orgasm! The best of my life!

Later that month the entire family moved to another country, her father being nominated ambassador, and I never saw them again. I wish I could find out how they are doing now, so many years later.

I’ve always enjoyed ear humiliation !

 

[flapear]

I'd love to get private messages about ear humiliation from all of you! Have you enjoyed humiliation when during a play he/she made fun of your ears? You should try it, even with a sub who doesn't have sticking out ears. Pulling the ears but without causing pain, or with tape, attach a string to the ear, and at the other end of the string attach a teaspoon so that the ears stick out !

 

[flapear]

Sticking out ears

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

You're not alone. I'm a man, and I love when a friend makes fun of my ears. My right ear sticks out while my left ear lies flat against my head. I also like to humiliate a sub whose ears stick out.

 

[Jcam1980s]

I enjoy fantasising about it, though would be genuinely happy for the following scenario:


My wife ties me to a chair naked. She begins to strip on the bed until shes naked and masturbating. Im so turned on i have pre cum. Suddenly her ex walks in. He moves me (still tied to the chair) so im absolutely as close as possible to watch as he grabs her ankles in each hand, spreads her legs and enters her, bare. He really begins to screw her hard. They both laugh and how much bigger he is than me. She moans and mentions how full she feels. Inbetween orgasms she tells her ex this has to be regular as im not fulfilling her need of getting knocked up (he's completed that before). Im begging for release at this point. She blindfolds me. She starts to jack me vigorously. I gasp and tell her im close. I tell her this is the best handjob shes ever given me (shes narrating what shes doing). Suddenly, a finger in my ass and i cum fountains. Removal of the blindfold reveals its her ex that made me cum and beg for more. Ultimate humiliation

 

[Fingerfuxs]

my highlight.
Some might take offense to that statement.

Some.

Interesting observation , it’s a reference to a derogatory word choice from the writers of a old show Deadwood. The pimp was talking about whores , their cunts. “ slits “

I don’t know the exact words or sentences used. But the word stuck in my memory as one to us in a mean way. That was the conversation. Demeaning the value of their cunt to him as the cunt merchant. What makes these slits so special , something alone those lines.

 

[mywife4othermen]

I enjoy fantasising about it, though would be genuinely happy for the following scenario:


My wife ties me to a chair naked. She begins to strip on the bed until shes naked and masturbating. Im so turned on i have pre cum. Suddenly her ex walks in. He moves me (still tied to the chair) so im absolutely as close as possible to watch as he grabs her ankles in each hand, spreads her legs and enters her, bare. He really begins to screw her hard. They both laugh and how much bigger he is than me. She moans and mentions how full she feels. Inbetween orgasms she tells her ex this has to be regular as im not fulfilling her need of getting knocked up (he's completed that before). Im begging for release at this point. She blindfolds me. She starts to jack me vigorously. I gasp and tell her im close. I tell her this is the best handjob shes ever given me (shes narrating what shes doing). Suddenly, a finger in my ass and i cum fountains. Removal of the blindfold reveals its her ex that made me cum and beg for more. Ultimate humiliation

Very, very erotic!

 

[SissySalina]

Sissy does not understand “Humiliation” as it pertains to a sissy. As a sissy it is the purpose to service and provide pleasure to others. If this means wearing a collar and leash or something else then that is what a sissy is for and there is no embarrassment for that. A sissy is humble and giving and seeks to satisfy others, that is what gives a sissy inner joy. In order for a sissy to provide joy and pleasure to others a sissy does many things and it does not cause humiliation or embarrassment to sissy.

 

[sterculius]

All of my humiliation fantasies revolve around being "outed" as a "Cocksucker". I trace this back to my teenage years when I first learned to suck cock, giving daily blowjobs to my best high school friend Larry. What had begun as jerk off sessions quickly evolved into me becoming his personal, non reciprocating cocksucker. I would give him blowjobs wherever and whenever he wanted me to, usually at least once a day as soon as we returned home from school, and often once again and sometimes even twice later that same day! He liked to tease me by threatening to tell all our friends that I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow them also. I would beg him not to tell them out of fear of getting the reputation as the neighborhood cocksucker and everyone would tell everyone else and my sister would inevitably find out and tell my parents. I would plead with him not to, but I was convinced he would eventually tell everyone that I was "his" cocksucker, in spite of his promises not to and I used to masturbate to the fantasy, imagining myself, down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, each of them with their cocks out, watching me suck cock after cock, swallowing all their semen, all the time laughing at me and stroking their erect cocks while waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth. This is still one of my favorite fantasies.

 

[cuckoldbill]

All of my humiliation fantasies revolve around being "outed" as a "Cocksucker". I trace this back to my teenage years when I first learned to suck cock, giving daily blowjobs to my best high school friend Larry. What had begun as jerk off sessions quickly evolved into me becoming his personal, non reciprocating cocksucker. I would give him blowjobs wherever and whenever he wanted me to, usually at least once a day as soon as we returned home from school, and often once again and sometimes even twice later that same day! He liked to tease me by threatening to tell all our friends that I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow them also. I would beg him not to tell them out of fear of getting the reputation as the neighborhood cocksucker and everyone would tell everyone else and my sister would inevitably find out and tell my parents. I would plead with him not to, but I was convinced he would eventually tell everyone that I was "his" cocksucker, in spite of his promises not to and I used to masturbate to the fantasy, imagining myself, down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, each of them with their cocks out, watching me suck cock after cock, swallowing all their semen, all the time laughing at me and stroking their erect cocks while waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth. This is still one of my favorite fantasies.

Nice fantasy. Just wondering if Larry ever did out you?

 

[sterculius]

Nice fantasy. Just wondering if Larry ever did out you?

To my knowledge, I don't believe he ever did. A part of me wishes he had. My current primary feeder has taken many photographs of me sucking his cock and the cocks of his friends to whom he routinely "passes me around". He has ordered me to post many of these humiliating pictures online as he does too. These pictures are very explicit, clearly showing my face. I have given blowjobs to anonymous men in the open lounges at local adult bookstores while other patrons have watched me down on my knees sucking cock and have taken photos of me using their cell phones. When I become aware I'm being photographed, I'll turn my face toward them to give them the clearest view. If anyone I know were to see these photos, they would immediately recognize me and know me for the shameless cocksucker I truly am. It excites me to contemplate the possibility of being exposed as a cocksucker.

 

[sterculius]

And where can we see those pictures?

I can only speak for the pictures I myself have posted online at my feeders instruction on my blogs at bdsmlr and at NewTumblr. I have no idea where to find the ones he himself or his friends have posted at various websites. As for the ones taken of me by others using cellphones while giving blowjobs at the ABS, I assume they were intended for their own use or to show to their friends. While I doubt the forum moderators would approve of me posting explicit pictures here on Literotica of myself sucking cock anyone wanting to see them can message me and I'll send a link.