HT sex with big belly

[Jada59]

My BF and I are the same height and both of us have big bellies. The various positions we tried in the past were fine, except for one that kind of strains my neck and bac. I mean, it works, but...ow.
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I tried to fuck him. Me on top. It didn't work so well. Because of our bellies, i couldn't get close enough to get him fully inside of me. He told me to move forward, but there was no way as his belly was blocking me. So I laid sideways as I know we can do that. But... He took over. That was fine, but... Sometimes I want to take charge. What can I do?

 

[howcumu]

Have you tried reverse cowgirl? Might give more depth and better angle

 

[Jada59]

Have you tried reverse cowgirl? Might give more depth and better angle

No, becausae I don't think that would do much for me. But I'll think about it.

 

[MaybeMae]

No, becausae I don't think that would do much for me. But I'll think about it.

try reverse cowgirl, but with him laying on the edge of the side a bed or couch so you can have on foot on the floor. you should be able to reach your clit, and having a foot on the ground will give you more leverage. if you're clumsy (like me!) it helps to have something in front of you (headboard, back of the couch) for balance.

 

[Rickster59]

I've not found a good way. I am a bigger guy and am trying to lose weight to help with my ED and general health. My wife is a big, curvy beauty and she is beautiful at any size, but she has been dealing with a lot of depression (Covid lockdown related mostly) and has put on a good bit more weight. Depression has also lowered her drive, but she still does want sex. It has become more difficult though. I have a very average size penis, but with our fat and my difficulty getting really, really hard, it has really put a damper on things.

The only thing I can think of is for us to both get in better shape. Neither of us is ever going to be at the weight our GP wants us to be, but we both simply need to lose weight. I would have a full inch more exposed penis if I got down to where I want to be and that alone will help us. I also know it would help my confidence and help my ED. I am hoping as her depression improves, she will be more willing to improve her diet, but I cannot push her too much on this. It is a complicated problem. Best of luck.

 

[Bottomlover]

No, becausae I don't think that would do much for me. But I'll think about it.

It's not something that requires a lot of thought; just try it. A very curvy woman I once worked with said "Once you get to the point where you are both naked, you are past worrying about looks."

I'd add that if you're having sex, trying different positions is not a big deal. If it doesn't work, move on and try something else. I already know what your ass looks like, and am focused on mutual pleasure however it comes.

 

[Jada59]

try reverse cowgirl, but with him laying on the edge of the side a bed or couch so you can have on foot on the floor. you should be able to reach your clit, and having a foot on the ground will give you more leverage. if you're clumsy (like me!) it helps to have something in front of you (headboard, back of the couch) for balance.

I'm disabled o that wouldn't work. But thanks! Also, Inever touch my clit during sex. I don't see the point in doing that.

 

[Jada59]

It's not something that requires a lot of thought; just try it. A very curvy woman I once worked with said "Once you get to the point where you are both naked, you are past worrying about looks."

I'd add that if you're having sex, trying different positions is not a big deal. If it doesn't work, move on and try something else. I already know what your ass looks like, and am focused on mutual pleasure however it comes.

Our sex si good! And we try different positions. I just can't see how that would work because then my butt would be making contact with his belly. Wouldn't it?

 

[Catsandtats]

I don't know what your money situation is, but liberator has a ton of sex furniture products that can really help with angles and things. My partner and I are both big, and buying some furniture for them really gave us a ton more options.

Even if you can't afford that, you can look at the furniture shapes and see what you can replicate at home that could help with your angles.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

snip snip snip. It is a complicated problem. Best of luck.

Hope you both find the way through this together. Your positive attitude and acceptance of her is a big deal - a lot of partners push too hard or fail to support at all. Sending positive vibes your way.

I'm disabled o that wouldn't work. But thanks! Also, Inever touch my clit during sex. I don't see the point in doing that.

You don't see the point in touching your clit during sex!? For most of us, a position that allows for clit action is the best path towards an orgasm.

 

[Jada59]

I don't know what your money situation is, but liberator has a ton of sex furniture products that can really help with angles and things. My partner and I are both big, and buying some furniture for them really gave us a ton more options.

Even if you can't afford that, you can look at the furniture shapes and see what you can replicate at home that could help with your angles.

Ha! I'm not flush enough for that tuff. Plus no place to put it. We have sex just fine. i just like to be on top sometimes.

 

[Jada59]

Hope you both find the way through this together. Your positive attitude and acceptance of her is a big deal - a lot of partners push too hard or fail to support at all. Sending positive vibes your way.



You don't see the point in touching your clit during sex!? For most of us, a position that allows for clit action is the best path towards an orgasm.

Not for me. I like internal stimulation. I know. I'm weird.

 

[redroses3377]

I don't know what your money situation is, but liberator has a ton of sex furniture products that can really help with angles and things. My partner and I are both big, and buying some furniture for them really gave us a ton more options.

Even if you can't afford that, you can look at the furniture shapes and see what you can replicate at home that could help with your angles.

Liberator shapes are great! I have a ramp that he lies on, which makes it easier for me to be on top since I have low back issues. It also moves his belly out of the way. It comes with a cover so I keep it in the closet until we need it. I want a few more shapes.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Not for me. I like internal stimulation. I know. I'm weird.

Lucky girl

(Note: I love internal stimulation, but need clit stimulation to orgasm.)

Liberator shapes are great! I have a ramp that he lies on, which makes it easier for me to be on top since I have low back issues. It also moves his belly out of the way. It comes with a cover so I keep it in the closet until we need it. I want a few more shapes.

I like your posts in this forum. Glad you’re here!

 

[Catsandtats]

Yah, I have a ton of Liberator furniture. I have the plus size ramp and wedge, I have the esse, and I have the wanda. It takes up a bunch of space, but I love to fuck, so it is worth it. Also, the esse is comfortable just to hang out on as well, so it isn't like it just sits there! I love their products.

(I actually recently wrote two stories about my sex life, one features the esse, the other the ramp and wedge! They are pretty strong BDSM though, so be aware going in if you are interested!)

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=5220048&page=submissions

 

[Jada59]

Yah, I have a ton of Liberator furniture. I have the plus size ramp and wedge, I have the esse, and I have the wanda. It takes up a bunch of space, but I love to fuck, so it is worth it. Also, the esse is comfortable just to hang out on as well, so it isn't like it just sits there! I love their products.

(I actually recently wrote two stories about my sex life, one features the esse, the other the ramp and wedge! They are pretty strong BDSM though, so be aware going in if you are interested!)

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=5220048&page=submissions

Yeah. I have been to the website.

 

[redroses3377]

I like your posts in this forum. Glad you’re here!

Thank you! I'm enjoying getting to know this side of lit and the people who chat here.

 

[ChuckandAndrea]

Scissor?

 

[Jada59]

Scissor?

Maybe. Thanks.