How You Ever Been Temped? And Did The Right Thing?

fgarvb1

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Have you ever been tempted? I was One time years ago before I married this last time.

Did You Do What You Knew Was Right?

I MEAN REAALLY FUCKING TEMPTED? Twin devils setting on each shoulder?

I was one time. I passed the test…I think.

She was nineteen, a little more than half my age. She was crazy in love with me.

She promised me the moon so to speak. Just say yes to marring her some day, no hurry. One little word and it was all mine. Her in home, All the hot sex I could handle, kids if I wanted them, wild kinky sex…what ever I desired, All I had to do was name it.

Young, built, so pretty she would take your breath away. Hard body. Gymnastics, ballet, so goddamn flexible! Eyes to get lost in. Lips…so soft, yet so thrilling. Breast so full so perky so madding.

Legs…those long sexy, shapely tan legs! That ass! OMG! That Tight ass! One could bounce a quarter of it and hit the ceiling.

The sex! Her pussy so tight, milking every inch like a hot wet velvet glove soaked in heavy lube. So vocal the people across the street could here her calling on God!

The orgasms so great I could barely stay conscious.

The hell of it was I did love her a lot.

But for her sake I had to say no and let her go.

Life isn't fair.
:confused:
 
33 views and not even an insult?

Holy crap!

I feel like an outcast.

Was it something I said? :confused: :eek:
 
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I'm confused actually. You loved her a lot you said and she you, so where was the conflict? Age?


Yes, I've been tempted many times and my success rate for 'doing the right thing' is very high I'm glad to say.
 
fgarvb1 said:
33 views and not even an insult?

Holy crap!

I feel like an outcast.

Was it something I said? :confused: :eek:

It's kinda hard to understand why saying "no" was the "right" thing. It's kinda hard believing you said "no" really. But if you did say no and it was the right thing...more power to ya.

I've said "no" to alot of things because it was "the right thing" to do in my eyes...even though things were very tempting at times.

Ok..that's the best I got. :)
 
HM.

Yeah well. There in lies the problem.

I was born over a year before the space age Begin.

She was born about the time I finished High school.

I knew it would be cruel to change the course of her life.

She had college, and a plan for her life all set.

I already went through marring a woman her age, went through the pain of them leaving after their taste in men changed as they reached full adulthood.

I'm was sure then and I'm sure now I could not do that again.

Yeah it would have been easy to take advantage of her innocence for a few months then tell her it just wasn't working out.

But I couldn't do that.

The hell of is a couple of months later, a guy she was dating got her pregnant, they were married and now she has four kids, I hear.

Life. (insert snort) is a strange adventure.
 
I've been tempted many MANY times...always...always did the "right" thing.

Looking back, now I wish I didn't.

:rolleyes:
 
fgarvb1 said:
Have you ever been tempted? I was One time years ago before I married this last time.

Did You Do What You Knew Was Right?

I MEAN REAALLY FUCKING TEMPTED? Twin devils setting on each shoulder?
QUOTE]

8 years ago her suitcase packed waiting for me to say Yes ........ sometimes saying No isn't the answer but when I think of the destiny which took place afterwards, that No saved someone's live and two children from growing up without a Mom .............

Destiny ............ we all have our own little Hells' that we endure, 8 years later a spark still burns but am glad I did the right thing and said No
 
fgarvb1 said:
HM.

Yeah well. There in lies the problem.

I was born over a year before the space age Begin.

She was born about the time I finished High school.

I knew it would be cruel to change the course of her life.

She had college, and a plan for her life all set.

I already went through marring a woman her age, went through the pain of them leaving after their taste in men changed as they reached full adulthood.

I'm was sure then and I'm sure now I could not do that again.

Yeah it would have been easy to take advantage of her innocence for a few months then tell her it just wasn't working out.

But I couldn't do that.

The hell of is a couple of months later, a guy she was dating got her pregnant, they were married and now she has four kids, I hear.

Life. (insert snort) is a strange adventure.

Life IS a strange adventure...that's for sure!

Hey...just curious....where does one get a copy of "prehistory" to read? :D
hee hee!
 
I once had a freshly divorced boss try hitting on me.

I wasn't exactly attracted to her (she was cute but just not my type) and I knew of her recent divorce, but she insisted on grabbing dinner with me. Sure, I knew I could've gotten a free piece but I tactfully said no. Needless to say, the next few months at work were mighty awkward and I eventually left the company but I knew I did the right thing.

I could've been a total slug and took advantage of the situation and maybe even climbed the corporate ladder a bit but I said no.
 
Temptation is part of life. So yes, I will say I have been in the situation of being tempted. As for doing the right thing, I like to think I did the best I could for everyone involved.

Eventually, I removed myself from the situation so that no one (other than me) would be needlessly hurt.

I guess the hardest part is knowing what the right thing is- is it fedelity to another or fedelity to myself? Is it walking away from something great to find something potentialy amazing? Is it taking a chance or being responsible?

In my situation, I (somehow) managed to do the "right thing" in so far as I walked away. But not a day goes by that I don't wonder "what if"

Maggie.
 
Every day I'm tempted!

Of course there are times when the temptation is almost too hot too handle.

But for me I have to struggle with this every time I see a hot babe. And my life brings me into contact with lots of them.

Every time a fine girl gives me even the smallest of smiles, I just sigh and lament that I'm married. I know that with a little effort there's a decent chance that I could be making her squeal in short time.

I am tortured by this knowledge!!

Anyone else have to fight this every day? Or am I the only freak?
 
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fgarvb1 said:
Have you ever been tempted? I was One time years ago before I married this last time.

Did You Do What You Knew Was Right?

I MEAN REAALLY FUCKING TEMPTED? Twin devils setting on each shoulder?

I was one time. I passed the test…I think.

She was nineteen, a little more than half my age. She was crazy in love with me.

She promised me the moon so to speak. Just say yes to marring her some day, no hurry. One little word and it was all mine. Her in home, All the hot sex I could handle, kids if I wanted them, wild kinky sex…what ever I desired, All I had to do was name it.

Young, built, so pretty she would take your breath away. Hard body. Gymnastics, ballet, so goddamn flexible! Eyes to get lost in. Lips…so soft, yet so thrilling. Breast so full so perky so madding.

Legs…those long sexy, shapely tan legs! That ass! OMG! That Tight ass! One could bounce a quarter of it and hit the ceiling.

The sex! Her pussy so tight, milking every inch like a hot wet velvet glove soaked in heavy lube. So vocal the people across the street could here her calling on God!

The orgasms so great I could barely stay conscious.

The hell of it was I did love her a lot.

But for her sake I had to say no and let her go.

Life isn't fair.
:confused:

You did the "right" thing how?

By fucking her and then letting her go?

I'm really confused.

To answer your question, yes, I've been really tempted. I did the right thing for me and my husband which was not to fuck the other guy / girl.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
You did the "right" thing how?

By fucking her and then letting her go?

I'm really confused.

To answer your question, yes, I've been really tempted. I did the right thing for me and my husband which was not to fuck the other guy / girl.

Fury :rose:

The fucking thing well, we put it off for a long, long time. Two single, legal adults, a six pack of cold beer and I don't know... One second we were staring into each others eyes talking and the next second we were naked on the couch and I was kissing my way down her chest and passed her stomach while she was running her fingers through my hair.


We snapped OK?
 
I am REALLY bad with temptation..... I've given in just about every time.

Makes sense, though. I'm also someone that reads the last couple of chapters of a book first. ;)
 
fgarvb1 said:
The fucking thing well, we put it off for a long, long time. Two single, legal adults, a six pack of cold beer and I don't know... One second we were staring into each others eyes talking and the next second we were naked on the couch and I was kissing my way down her chest and passed her stomach while she was running her fingers through my hair.


We snapped OK?

OK? Well, I guess that depends on your definition of doing the "right" thing.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
OK? Well, I guess that depends on your definition of doing the "right" thing.

Fury :rose:

OK, I give up.

Perhaps you can tell me what was wrong about that.
 
fgarvb1 said:
OK, I give up.

Perhaps you can tell me what was wrong about that.

Actually it's not up to me to decide what is wrong with that. If you feel like you did right then fine and dandy.

Your original post was confusing and from it I thought you were asking, have you ever been tempted and instead of cheating on your S.O., you did the right thing.

Now I understand that you meant something else entirely.

Something more like this;, did you ever fall in a vagina by mistake and then realize due to age differences that you would ruin someone's life if you continued the "relationship." Then you did the "right" thing by deciding what was right for her, after fucking her (there were no S.O. issues), and "set her free."

As someone who had a few guys decide they were going to "save" me from my own decisions and feelings, I can say that sort of thing pissed me off powerfully when I was in that position.

It's sounds like she's your "what if" girl. That hardly seems fair to any S.O. you might currently have. It can make you hedge emotionally.

Maybe you did do the right thing. I dunno. I don't know the girl or you. So only the two of you can decide that. I wish you well.

Fury :rose:
 
OK, question here. A few of the guys above mentioned a woman giving them a smile, etc and they do the 'sigh... I'm married' thing, the 'if only I wasn't married' idea.

I mean no disrespect, honestly, but are you telling me I should stop smiling at people (men are included haha)? Do you think 'you could have them squealing in no time'? Is this just one of those 'that's the way men think' thing? Really, I'm serious with the question.
 
Temptation. Ah, yes. Right now I am trying very hard to remember that I am a good girl. Ethics and morals can be such a pain in the ass.
 
FurryFury said:
Actually it's not up to me to decide what is wrong with that. If you feel like you did right then fine and dandy.

Your original post was confusing and from it I thought you were asking, have you ever been tempted and instead of cheating on your S.O., you did the right thing.

Now I understand that you meant something else entirely.

Something more like this;, did you ever fall in a vagina by mistake and then realize due to age differences that you would ruin someone's life if you continued the "relationship." Then you did the "right" thing by deciding what was right for her, after fucking her (there were no S.O. issues), and "set her free."

As someone who had a few guys decide they were going to "save" me from my own decisions and feelings, I can say that sort of thing pissed me off powerfully when I was in that position.

It's sounds like she's your "what if" girl. That hardly seems fair to any S.O. you might currently have. It can make you hedge emotionally.

Maybe you did do the right thing. I dunno. I don't know the girl or you. So only the two of you can decide that. I wish you well.

Fury :rose:

Hmm, you sound a little bitter about something.

I didn't do it.

No. I had a very close friend/relationship with this young lady for some years If there was one thing that could be said for her, she had her eyes wide open all the time and had a very good grasp of life, people, relationships. I can not explain in any more detail because of well promises I made to put it bluntly.

No their was no mistake about what we did and when we did it, It would have been a mistake and I would have been to blame if I had let the relationship get very much deeper.

Just because on can do something doesn't mean that it is a good thing.

I always reserve the right to protect myself and my loved ones from a known fuck up! And I felt it would hurt her more than me.

And us in a deep relationship would have a whopper!
 
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