How Would You Want to Be Proposed To?

BgMma

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In light of the exciting news from Austin, I just had this thought.

With so many folks getting married, there are so many ways of proposing. Some are creative and some are traditional, but I feel that it's what is in the heart of the asker that counts.

So, though it's a wonderful idea......ladies, what would the ideal setting be for a proposal. That usually means that it is unexpected.....LOL

And don't be ashamed to blurt out traditional ones. I am a fan of that, too. So, please, let me know.

How would you like to be proposed to? And I am not going first, and you can't make me.
 
I'd like to meet the woman who would have the gumption to propose to me. She might just get a "yes" on cojones alone.
 
I don't need any bells & whistles.

No fancy settings.

No fake words of ever after.

Or even a ring for that matter, I bought my last one myself.

I just want a man who knows what he wants.

Fuck the wishy-washy stuff.
 
Straightforward, planned, and including something meaningful between the two of us. As excited as I was to hear about the Austin proposal, I would want to be proposed to in private. I mean, what if I wanted to say no? :eek:
 
i want it to be romantic
guess i'm just typical
maybe he would like do it in a public place at dinner or something, lolz
 
I would prefer a private proposal. It's so much less humiliating to say, "You know I think you're special, but I'm already married and it'll be much less humiliating for the lot of us, not to mention cheaper, if I go down to Alabama and ask for a divorce and then realize that I'm still in love with the guy before we get engaged so I don't stand you up at the alter and your mother, Candace, doesn't have a cow in front of Gawd and Alabama. So. You got any Skynnrd?" in private than it would be to say it in front of all of the Tiffany's employees.
 
Eumenides said:
Straightforward, planned, and including something meaningful between the two of us. As excited as I was to hear about the Austin proposal, I would want to be proposed to in private. I mean, what if I wanted to say no? :eek:


Oohhh, good point, Eu.....I didn't think of that!

I must agree with straightforward and meaningful. It is such an intimate event.....


mbb308.....Wanna get hitched? I love to cook and I do windows.
 
Privately but then I know that I'll not be likely to remember anything he's said because my mind would be screaming "OMG OMG HE'S ASKING ME TO MARRY HIM!" so it would be handy if someone else was there so they could tell me what all was said later. :)


Definately on one knee in front of me, my hand in his.. looking up into my eyes and smiling.

The location doesn't matter... just the fact that he loved me and it showed through his eyes, that I was the only one he wanted, then and forever.

I have moments of sappiness. :)
 
Easy...........

On a personal check for $100,000 dollars!

Of course, my last ex-wife proposed to me while deepthroating, what was I suppose to say? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhokay!
 
I have no real idea of how I would want to be proposed to, but I did think the one in the movie, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, was very sweet. Simple, heartfelt, and sincere.
 
Re: Easy...........

Lost Cause said:
On a personal check for $100,000 dollars!

Of course, my last ex-wife proposed to me while deepthroating, what was I suppose to say? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhokay!

ROFLMMFAO :D
 
BgMma99 said:
mbb308.....Wanna get hitched? I love to cook and I do windows.

Thanks for the thought. We don't know each other THAT well, but that may not be a disadvantage, you know?

I may be getting an old house in woeful need of much renovation. How do you feel about sawdust and plaster grit?

I can do windows, too - build, rebuild, install, reglaze, trim out, paint, clean - did I leave anything out? I can do floors, too.
 
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhokay!

True story! No shit! I'll take a polygraph! I'll let you talk to the ex!
 
I just wish some woman would
Hell I just wish some woman would ask me out
I am tired of being the one to risk the rejection all the time
 
mbb308 said:
Thanks for the thought. We don't know each other THAT well, but that may not be a disadvantage, you know?

I may be getting an old house in woeful need of much renovation. How do you feel about sawdust and plaster grit?

I can do windows, too - build, rebuild, install, reglaze, trim out, paint, clean - did I leave anything out? I can do floors, too.
LOL


It was worth a shot, honey!

BTW, I love gettin dirty. Give me a hammer and a whatever else you got and I am happy!

You didn't leave anything out other than what you like in bed, but hey, let's leave that to the nasty minded on the porn boards!
 
Re: Easy...........

Lost Cause said:
On a personal check for $100,000 dollars!

Of course, my last ex-wife proposed to me while deepthroating, what was I suppose to say? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhokay!

Quoting Meatloaf
"let me sleep on it......."
 
BgMma99 said:
LOL


It was worth a shot, honey!

BTW, I love gettin dirty. Give me a hammer and a whatever else you got and I am happy!

You didn't leave anything out other than what you like in bed, but hey, let's leave that to the nasty minded on the porn boards!

Tear down a hundred-year old chimney sometime - it redefines filthy and brings it to a whole new level.

What I like in bed? That's what PM's are for.
 
Luscious Lioness said:
I don't think I will go through the humilation of proposing again. It just wasn't worth it. A nice companion would do nicely. I'm not too picky.

I've considered that myself, and me either.

I am idiosyncratic, however.
 
mbb308 said:
Tear down a hundred-year old chimney sometime - it redefines filthy and brings it to a whole new level.

What I like in bed? That's what PM's are for.
I do believe the best part of getting dirty is getting clean.......:)


Ah, PM's, how could I forget? :devil:
 
Something sweet and romantic, Perhaps on the beach in Aruba, handing me a shell turning it over to see the ring. All alone with him/her, the sand, the waves, my love.


Very different than how I actually was proposed to.

We were high on....um...something and it was holloween at SIU, streets closed off etc.. near 4am.

Standing in a parking lot, someone passed by and said,
"Why don't you two just get married or get a room." And my now-husband said, "Sounds like a good idea." I responded with a heartfelt "YES!" The next day I asked if he'd meant a room or getting married. We've been married over 10 years now.
 
At my age...I mean...heh...since I am already married...any proposal would probably shock and stun me. I don't know what I would say.

I did like Muffies response though...I like Skynnrd.
 
BgMma99 said:
I do believe the best part of getting dirty is getting clean.......:)


Ah, PM's, how could I forget? :devil:

Sex can be over-rated compared to a great shower after a productive day of taxing physical labor.
 
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