How would I go about doing this?

[sweetstrwbrry08]

No longer an issue.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I am in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful man. Unfortunately, there is one major issue: Sex.

I am not satisfied sexually, at all.
I would be very interested in being a sub for somebody on a trial basis, but am not sure how to go about doing this.

Any suggestions?

Join fetlife.com -- and start thinking about what you're going to tell your man, if anything.

 

[lilkiki]

I am in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful man. Unfortunately, there is one major issue: Sex.

I am not satisfied sexually, at all.
I would be very interested in being a sub for somebody on a trial basis, but am not sure how to go about doing this.

Any suggestions?

You're hardly alone... Just thought I let you know.

 

[Stella_Omega]

You're hardly alone... Just thought I let you know.

This is true, too, for so very many men and women!

 

[sweetstrwbrry08]

Lalala lala lala

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thank you guys! I have already tried talking to him, over and over again, and it has not changed anything. This is going to be my private thing.

I think with many guys... you have to demonstrate. Talking doesn't really do any good.

In any case, take a look at fetlife. Look for groups in your area-- and the chicago groups, if you ever make it down that way.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Maybe it is time to assess whether you want to remain in the relationship you are in at the moment. For some looking outside the relationship works for all involved, for others it is just adding more drama to an already unhappy life which really could be better if people moved on instead of just adding more people, more problems, more juggling. Of course, there are many who like the safety of knowing if the new relationship doesn't work out, they still have someone at home waiting, either knowingly or completely unaware of what is really going on....the latter I find sad.

Catalina