How was your first time...

[xlc67]

I don't know about everyone else, but my first time was not all that memorable...I was sixteen, drunk at a party, and an older woman took me upstairs. It was good of course because I got off, but not even close to some of my most memorable sexual experiences.

Where was your first time, and was it really that good?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

my first time was great.. it was with my current boyfriend, here in my dorm room.. we were here and playing with each other (naked of course).. and he kept stopping to apologize for having other thoughts on the lines of what we could have been doing (he meant sex).. and then he just whispered in my ear "i love you" and i responded "take me".. it was great though.. he moved slow with it and all.. and he did his absolute best to make sure i enjoyed it as much as he did... and i did.. so much that i'm just about always asking him for more

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Considering it was two scared teenagers it was okay - I liked it a lot better than just the mutual fondling we had done up to then, enough so that I wanted more every chance I got.

 

[bluntforcemama]

My first time was definitely memorable... it hurt for a bit, then there was blood all over the place. I've had MUCH better sex since.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Ten years ago, she was 6 years older than me.

She said to me afterwards "Are you sure this was your first time?"

I didn't give her the obvious answer "With another person, it is."

It was memorable.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Simply amazing

My first time was simply amazing.

It was early winter ... we could hear the rain drops falling on the roof as we made love. He did every thing right & he was gentle & I simply loved every single minute.

And he is still doing every thing right.

 

[Czarina]

My first time

It was truly a moving experience. A mature man with velvet hands and a slow, patient approach. An awesome experience that can still produce a bit of moisture when I think back on that afternoon.

 

[Starfish]

my first time was great.. it was with my current boyfriend, here in my dorm room.. we were here and playing with each other (naked of course).. and he kept stopping to apologize for having other thoughts on the lines of what we could have been doing (he meant sex).. and then he just whispered in my ear "i love you" and i responded "take me".. it was great though.. he moved slow with it and all.. and he did his absolute best to make sure i enjoyed it as much as he did... and i did.. so much that i'm just about always asking him for more

I am so glad to find out that you had such a loving and healthy experiance. I know that you may have had aprehensions, but it is always worth trying.

That makes me think of that woman who is rather aged and she isn't a nun or anything and has never had sex. She is a ballerina and everything, but just isn't into it. I even think that she never masturbated either. fucked up.



God, I've never told anyone but my best friend this... and now I am going to tell the world... And I am going to elaborate on other irrelivant shit, because it suits me.

It was... not so good.
I broke my own hymen with a colgate pump toothpaste dispenser (I know), but I had sex with a man for the first time at too young an age with a guy my age. We royally sucked at it. I really shouldn't have done it, but I just didn't want to wait any longer, and I didn't even know the dude.
Sad, huh?

I really should have waited, because then I met Jason a year later and he changed everything in my mind about intamacy (he made me cum without touching me) but only after it was too late, and our time was so short lived. What bugs me to this day is that he doesn't even know that I loved him. I saw his devotion, but I fucking blew it off. I was scared. I was so dumb. It is really sad, because I even fucked his friend, right in front of him before I had sex with him for the first time. It was all ironically fucked up like that.

Later, I found out that when he first met me, all he did while he skated the half pipe was name new moves after me. I had never felt so special in all my life, but it was too late then. Something didn't go right, and after me being dumb and him saving my ass, and me not showing my appreiciation for him, and his meeting my good, and worthy/pretty/sweet and good friend, he hooked up with her, and they started dating. I wasn't bothered by that because she was a good girl, but I was just then starting to realize the honesty and love for me, in him.
I guess it was for the best. I found out that I had to move to Ohio about 5 months later.
I ran into a mutal friend when I was back home and he said Jason was doing good, and then said I'd say hello to him for me, because he still talks about me with love.

My past is always coming back to haunt me. I hate it, but unresovled truths are no good. It just when the shitty assholes that won't get a clue keep reappearing, is when it's akward and annoying.

There was only 4 of them. You'd think I could avoid four people.
eesh.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Starfish, that is sad but you are coming through it by talking about it? I feel for you.

I was going to post mine but I will not now. Another time, perhaps? La vie est difficile.

 

[sch00lteacher]

Thank you E.H.

My first time was on a couch with an older woman. She knew it was my first time so she did it right. I will never forget her, or the occasion.

Thank god her husband didn't come home.

 

[Starfish]

Starfish, that is sad but you are coming through it by talking about it? I feel for you.

I was going to post mine but I will not now. Another time, perhaps? La vie est difficile.

I just wish some things were different, but I know I have a good life, and that I am okay. I just hope that Jason's life is as blessed as mine.
Thanks though. I am okay.

You should post yours if you are up to it. I'd like to hear it.

 

[RisiaSkye]

Starfish inspires me to confessional mode...

My first first time was by force, and so I don't count it. Memorable, definitely. But, I try to exclude it from my sexual history, lest I turn against sex entirely. That was when I was fifteen.

I didn't date or get near anyone male for about a year and a half. The first guy I dated after all of this was my best friend. We dated for almost a year before we slept together, when I was 17. I cried during it. We broke up very shortly after, and our friendship fell apart in the aftermath.

He's a semi-working actor now. I last saw him at a mutual friend's wedding about 3 years ago. We can barely exchange words it's so uncomfortable. But, we follow the major developments in each other's lives through mutual friends.

Suffice it to say, my sex life has done nothing but improved in the last 8 and a half years.

 

[GuyJD]

Mine was pretty damn good. But then again, I was only 11 at the time and didn't know that much about sex.
It wasn't enough to post on www.myfirsttime.com though.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

My first time was when i was 16. The woman i ended up having sex with was around 33 i think?

I never had any intention of having sex with her either - that was the wierd thing. I was just drunk and fooling around with this older woman! Next thing i know - i'm being pushed back on the bed having my pants ripped off. I was kinda taken aback. Wasnt like what you tend to fantasize about!!! But a couple of years later at 18 i was fully into it - and enjoying it then!!!

I think 16 would of been ok (for me) if i was with someone closer to my own age... or if i was less pissed and able to make a proper decision as to what (i wanted) to do...

Still it makes for a funny memory now.

 

[Elizabeth Kay]

painful

he had a thick cock and we didn't know about lubrication (we were 15). I think I almost peeled the skin off his cock. Then when he finally squeezed it in he came instantly.

 

[SoftPeaches]

I was 17, and it wasn't nearly as great as I thought it would be. He was the same age, a virgin as well, we were in his basement on an excercise pad, and it hurt like hell. And then afterward, (this is so classic) I showed my Christian Fundamentalist upbringing by informing him that now he had to marry me. Scared the shit outta him!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Elizabeth Kay]

Dancing Indian in Detroit

Wow that's pretty amazing. I'm most amazed you knew how to put a condom on him the 1st time. I think the 1st few times we put it on inside out, and my 1st time I didn't think to make him use protection. But it was sweet and romantic. For two weeks leading up to it he came over every night and watched movies with me until late into the night (my mom adored him, she'd give him rides and pay 4 the blockbuster). He was very cute, and I think I made the 1st move in everything ... It took one week (of visiting me every night) to get to the 1st kiss ... He said "I love your smile, but I bet I could get you to stop smiling if I kissed you" .... I knew he woul be the ONE, even if I had to give him a little push to make it happen.

By the way we continued dating for a year and became sexaholics with eachother, but it took a year for him to give me an orgasm!

I blame the nuns at my catholic elementary school.

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Lancaster]

My first time was absolute rubbish. I thought sex was so over-rated. So for about six months I went back to the real thing

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Sept 8, 2001.

We were lying on my bed and I swear his favorite thing to do is tweak my nipples. His kisses make me melt, I can seriously feel my knees go weak. He'd just discovered that he could make me laugh hard enough to cry by touching my skin a certain way and he was teasing. The flip side of having skin so sensitive? If he didn't make me laugh, he made me very wet. His kisses were so sweet and so deep. I was watching his eyes and he was so intent on making me happy. It was amazing. He didn't even suggest it, I did. He didn't push, I had the condoms, I put one on him, I said yes, and I don't regret it. It was amazing.

this is almost odd... but my first time was the same day.. mine didnt suggest it either, he just kept apologizing for having the thought of it, at least until i told him i wanted it

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

My first time was absolute rubbish. I thought sex was so over-rated. So for about six months I went back to the real thing

LOL

Hey nothing beats masterbation! Especially when your online!

 

[Rambling Rose]

*sigh*

I was dry. He was clumsy. It's been all uphill from there!

 

[estevie]

what was i thinking!?!

I was 13. This is soo funny! It was in a gravel pit...it was place that my guy friends had built a fort, and played commando or whatever boys do *chuckles* One night, 2 of my girlfriends and I were watching them (there was 3 guys, how convienent..hehee) As all of us were sitting around the fire, we began to talk about sex. I don't remember whose idea it was, but we all decided it was time to see what all the hub bub was about. We all layed down, right in a row and did it. Amazingly, or not..hehee, we were all done at the same time. I remember thinking, as we all put ourselves back together and sat down by the fire again, that it must get better after ya do it for awhile, cause what happened then was nothing to get all excited about.

I didn't have sex again until i was 15...still too young!!!!

At 28, I now know what all the hub bub was about!

heyy?? if someone asks, can i say i have had group sex? lol

 

[Calamity Jane]

Re: Starfish inspires me to confessional mode...

My first first time was by force, and so I don't count it. Memorable, definitely. But, I try to exclude it from my sexual history, lest I turn against sex entirely. That was when I was fifteen.

I was 11, and I don't count it either.

My first time by choice left a lot to be desired. We were in his horse trailer, on the couch, hoping no one decided to come looking for us. He was VERY well endowed, there was no foreplay, it hurt like hell, and then it was over.

I knew there had to be SOMETHING to get excited about, so I set about having as much sex as possible... finally found a few guys that made it worth the hassle of getting naked.