how to...

[wizbit9]

seduce a lady friend

i have a lady friend coming over later and i really like her, but i am useless at seducing and can never seem to make the first move. i know she wont make the first as she is shy

whats the best way to approach the situation without acting like a hormonally unbalanced spotty teenager alll over again

 

[Private Vasquez]

laughter

 

[wizbit9]

laughter

its not funny i have butterflies in my tummy

 

[perks]

I think she meant make her laugh.

As for you, how 'bout starting with never ever using the term "lady friend" again<grin>


Do something original.

get a bunch of magazines together with some scissors and an envelope.

and then pick a word like "NEW" and both of you cut out words or pics of things that remind either one of you of the word and put them in the envelope so she has something to remember the date by when she leaves.

WHen you hand her the envelope you can pull her to you and give her a slow firm kiss on the lips, and say something like "This is the best "new" thing I've had in a long time"

hot damn, I'm smooooooooth, someone date me!!!

 

[wizbit9]

I think she meant make her laugh.

As for you, how 'bout starting with never ever using the term "lady friend" again<grin>


Do something original.

get a bunch of magazines together with some scissors and an envelope.

and then pick a word like "NEW" and both of you cut out words or pics of things that remind either one of you of the word and put them in the envelope so she has something to remember the date by when she leaves.

WHen you hand her the envelope you can pull her to you and give her a slow firm kiss on the lips, and say something like "This is the best "new" thing I've had in a long time"

hot damn, I'm smooooooooth, someone date me!!!

me me me.

what a fantastic idea.

did that come out of a book or is that your own idea

 

[Private Vasquez]

I wanna do that!! When do I pick you up?

Yes, I did mean make her laugh. Works for me.

 

[perks]

actually,

I did that with the man the other day, we both wrote down a few feeling words and then compared lists. We had one in common, the word was "fun".

we spent the next hour cutting out words and things we thought were fun and then showed them and explained them to each other and instead of making a collage<the baby woke up> We put them in an envelope, which I labeled.

We liked doing that so much, we're going to do one a month.

I just took that idea and skewed it a bit for your needs.

 

[wizbit9]

it makes the whole thing rather fun instead of awkward

i will have to report back tomorrow and let everyone know the outcome

did or did i not make a fool of myself?

 

[perks]

good luck, sugah.

 

[perks]

I wanna do that!! When do I pick you up?

Yes, I did mean make her laugh. Works for me.

PV take me away, I need a break from my life.