How to stop female ejaculation

[Guest]

Does anyone know of a way to stop my girlfriend from 'ejaculating' when she orgasms as whilst it can be fun it can also be a practical nightmare, especially as she is also multi-orgasmic and thus cums a lot.

After her first orgasm she will normally ejaculate quite a bit and by the fourth / fifth orgasm things are very wet. So wet in fact that at that stage my penis no longer receives frictional stimulation and I can find it very hard to cum myself.

Also we find the fact that she cums so much to be very impractical. If we make love on the bed then the sheets are wet through afterwards and unusable. Also it makes spontaneous sex tricky as we are always concerned about the wetness problem. Also we are thinking about entering the 'swingers' scene are are concerned about what other couples will think, she has had past lovers who did not like it at all.

Many thanks.

 

[Guest]

I'm sure there are millions of men out there that would love to trade wives with one who is multi-orgasmic and squirts. Why dont you try seeing the glass as half full instead of half empty and just accept her the way she is. Keep a tube of ky handy for when she washes the lub away. I know how messy it can be, but you could be married to someone with no interest at all in sex.

 

[Guest]

Its a real problem.

It's not just me but my girlfriend who would like to cum less.

I don't understand what you mean about having the ky handy as it is less lubrication that we need, not more, and we never need to use lube in the first place! I think you have missed the point, it is a real problem which many don't think about when they have their fantasys.

 

[chatbug]

Other than towels, I have no idea what to suggest. Maybe her doctor could suggest something.

 

[Wizard]

I wouldn't change anything and yes most guys wish there girl could do that..........My wife is the same way ...put an old blanket down first or just deal with the wet spot!!
I think it is wonderful and most guys love that.
Me myself, I think your both wrong for wanting to change it....The wetter the better!!!!

 

[Cheyenne]

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Not too long ago, someone here was working with his wife trying to train her body to be able to do what your wife's does naturally. Buy lots of nice thick towels and enjoy!

 

[BlondGirl]

My dentist suggested that before I go see him, to take a dose of Benedryl. It dries up secretions (makes you not slobber so much--free tip for those of us who freak at the slobber blocking our airway! If you do this, take it when you first walk into the office, not at home first--it causes drowsiness.).

This might be useful also. I have noticed that EVERYTHING is "dryer" when I take it. If that is not helpful, you might try some of the other things for cold symptoms--do not take anything on a regular basis though, unless your doc tells you too.

Also, you might suggest the pill or Depo or some other hormone birth control. When my ex and I first were together, I had the same problem--it really bothered him and I always felt like the condom had to have broken. It was awful and put a major damper on our sex life. I went on Norplant and ZIPPPPP--had to use lube--currently, I use no hormones and must use lube--it is rare that I don't need it for sex with my lover. The change has come with a bit of age.

Good luck.

 

[Never]

It sounds like she's been ejaculating for sometime which means it will be difficult to 'untrain' her. I used to do the same thing and forced myself to stop simply because I'd masturbate and then have to change the bed sheets - little did I know then what I was giving up.

Anyway, she ejaculates because the muscles in the vagina spasm a certain way when she has an orgasm. What you're trying to do is the equivalent of trying to get a golfer to swing a different way after a decade of her swinging one way all the time - and you can't see what you're doing while you're having an orgasm.

Does she ejaculate when she masturbates? If she doesn't you might want to try having sex and stopping when she get 'ready' and letting her finish herself off. Either way she should masturbate and focus on the sensation. There's a subtle difference between an orgasm when you do ejaculate and one when you don't. I'm sorry, it's difficult to describe, but it almost feels a bit looser and further down.

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[Wizard]

And your fucked up too to want to stop it...............

 

[Voyeur]

my wife ejaculates or "spits" as we call it. Sometimes a lot, sometimes almost nothing. It's such a turn-on, I wouldn't change a thing. We use towels. I like watching. She likes showing.

 

[Wizard]

Glad you posted Voyeur....Good input..........

 

[icumbuckets]

What are you complaining about ??

I think that a female who releases fluid at orgasm is
the biggest turnon there is...still can't get the girl
out of my brain who did that in college; man, were we
messy! I cum in large quantities and with her adding to
it, we swallowed so much of each other, we hardly had to
stop for meals.

 

[SexyCanadianGuy]

my girlfriend is like that and I love it!! i find it a huge turn-on. For her, it can happen either during sex or masturbation. *I like to watch her too*.
If you want to try something different, try garbage bags on the bed. Then things really get slippery! Anyone, everyones different. If you don't like it, good luck finding something you do like together. If you do like it, have fun!

 

[Juliet]

All right I'm jealous now! I know this is changing the subject in the other direction but can someone tell me how to achieve this female ejaculation that you are talking about. My best friend does this and the first time my husband and I and she and her husband were playing around together <smile> she squirted and we were both wet! I'd give anything to experience this. I am multi-orgasmic but none seem as powerful as the one I witnessed from her.

 

[Voyeur]

No need to be jealous, Email me and I will help you as much as I can.

 

[Juliet]

No need to be jealous, Email me and I will help you as much as I can.

I'm intrigued....email is on its way. <smile>