HOW TO LAP DANCE?

[im_mental]

HI GUYS

my girlfriend really wants to give me a lap dance but doen't have a clue where to start. she doesn't really want to watch some free porn site with live feeds. does any1 want to give me some help. either ur advice or a great how 2 to website would b really helpful


thanks
im_mental

 

[Morden]

Well if she is your girlfriend it should be easy for her to please you. There are some basics though you can tell her.

Try to keep eye contact when possible.

Have fun with it.

Use music she really likes. she will have to decide if she is comfortable with a slow sensual one or a up beat shaking it around one.

A big thing is for her to ENJOY doing it. Either through just getting turned on turning you on or with touching her own body, or even just envisioning what is to come after.

These simple things will ensure you both enjoy it. If she is self concious have her dance in front of a mirror for herself before she does it for you. Other then that the options listed on a previous thread are good ones. Watch Strip Tease or True Lies. Two simple non-porn examples of lap dances.

 

[JUDO]

Erotic Dancing Do's

[from a previous thread below this one in "How To" "erotic dancing"]

Here's the link to it:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=31546

Select music that you would like to make love to. Wear clothes that make you feel sensual. Place your lover in a comfortable position (bed, chair, floor, whatever).

Start with a slow, sensual rhythm for yourself. Get comfortable.

Then begin to touch yourself lightly as though you're going to make love to yourself in front of them.

Gradually, move from touching yourself to touching them, but first start with every part of your body excluding your hands, feet and mouth.

At first, touch every part of their body but the sexy parts.

Then, slowly graduate to the sexy parts with your sexy parts, losing clothes as you go.

The slower, the better.

If the music isn't long enough, little breaks are okay. In this situation, you can have fun announcing about taking your dance to the 'next level.'

Most of all, have fun using your dance as a way turn on your lover.

- Judo