How to give the most pleasurable handjob

[Bisexguy70]

I think it varies but focusing on the frenulum is always a good thing. But I think what really turns a guy on is your attitude towards stroking his hard cock. Look at it with lust and want. Seeing his hard cock in your hands make your pussy wet and express that to him. You can tell him “ stroking your hard cock has made my pussy so wet!” Rub your pussy against his skin. I prefer a slow tender stroke. Fingertips along the shaft and balls. Maybe tease his taint and ass as your fingers tease and tickle around the tip. Best case is just watch your man masturbate and observe how he pleasures himself. He knows exactly what sends him to the edge so just imitate that. Also experiment, perhaps wear some nylons and brush them against his cock. Dont forget some men like their nipples played with too. For me having my nipples gently licked while being stroked causes a sensation as if the persons tongue is on my cock.

 

[OralAllOver]

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[SPARTAN047]

On my must-do list is a handjob by a German lady called Klixen,often spotted online, milking cocks in a sensational way.Take note.

That's her! Used to watch her and she was amazing. I couldn't find her videos for years later.

She's great if you want to take notes.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Don't treat his cock like your dildo. You can't be rough with it unless he asks.

Be gentle, sensual and sexy, rub his cock and balls all over, ask him what he likes, and talk dirty to him in similar ways to how you want him to talk to you.

 

[AverageJoe44]

I always use the palm roll over the tip of the cock during my varied handjob manipulations, usually towards the end of the session as it tends to bring the guy very close to the point of no return. I found your description very horny. I guess this talented girl is no longer a part of your life which will be a shame. Do you use her technique on your cock when you masturbate?

As I have a fetish for watching guys ejaculate, I do wish I’d witnessed yours when she finished you off!

I do a variation of it usually but there was just something different about the way she did it, Obviously it’s always better having someone else do it as well. She is not part of my life unfortunately- but man to this day about 20 years later I can still vividly remember exactly how it all felt, and just how hard and intense the cum was. I lived in an apartment at the time and I know for a fact the older couple above me heard it all.

 

[tnhardon]

Don't treat his cock like your dildo. You can't be rough with it unless he asks.

Be gentle, sensual and sexy, rub his cock and balls all over, ask him what he likes, and talk dirty to him in similar ways to how you want him to talk to you.

I’d agree that you don’t want to be violently rough with it, but I also think many women don’t realize the amount of grip that is required to provide good sensation either. Handjobs I’ve gotten are normally always with not a firm enough grip.

Honestly, best way to learn what a guy likes is to ask him and let him show you. He’s likely given himself more handjobs than anyone and is going to have mastered the feelings he likes.

Beyond the cock, I love light fingers tickling my balls and undercarriage.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I’d agree that you don’t want to be violently rough with it, but I also think many women don’t realize the amount of grip that is required to provide good sensation either. Handjobs I’ve gotten are normally always with not a firm enough grip.

Honestly, best way to learn what a guy likes is to ask him and let him show you. He’s likely given himself more handjobs than anyone and is going to have mastered the feelings he likes.

Beyond the cock, I love light fingers tickling my balls and undercarriage.

Watching him wank is a great idea.

 

[wankerholic42]

I’d agree that you don’t want to be violently rough with it, but I also think many women don’t realize the amount of grip that is required to provide good sensation either. Handjobs I’ve gotten are normally always with not a firm enough grip.

Honestly, best way to learn what a guy likes is to ask him and let him show you. He’s likely given himself more handjobs than anyone and is going to have mastered the feelings he likes.

Beyond the cock, I love light fingers tickling my balls and undercarriage.

Not sure if you’d accept a handjob from another guy, but I could certainly give you a wank to remember!

 

[Shellz32]

I love mixing it up, mouth, lips, tounge, nose, tits, and of course hand.

 

[Shellz32]

Oh yeah. Teeth. And ice. Lots of stuff really

 

[freakkshow001]

Make love to it with your mouth... lick it not just suck it... like good popsicle.

 

[SusanHoward]

Guys say it just cums easily when I handle things right!

 

[Jeph77]

I always use the palm roll over the tip of the cock during my varied handjob manipulations, usually towards the end of the session as it tends to bring the guy very close to the point of no return. I found your description very horny. I guess this talented girl is no longer a part of your life which will be a shame. Do you use her technique on your cock when you masturbate?

As I have a fetish for watching guys ejaculate, I do wish I’d witnessed yours when she finished you off!

I met a guy online to masturbate together and went to his place. We got naked, and I was surprised that, though he wasn't a physically impressive guy, he had a large thick, circumcised cock hanging between his legs. We went to his sofa and I began to handle him, touching it, squeezing it, shaking that quickly hardening dong. I encircled it at the base and watched it pulse, the thick cockhead got even fatter as he became fully erect. I was enjoying merely playing with him, shaking it, swinging around, cupping his big balls. I enclosed his big knob in my fist and his hips began to work. precum wetting my fingers. Before I had even begin stroking in earnest, he grabbed his dick and shot three fat bolts skyward. He said that I was touching him so good, he had to let it fly. He lay back, splattered with his cum, seemingly exhausted. I jerked off, staring at his belly-up, spent penis, came hard and left. I tried to get in touch with him, later, for another go, but it never worked out. I still have the image of his gorgeous cock in my mind.

 

[JillPaula]

I have some advice that's probably more applicable to the women out there:
1. Enjoy doing it.
2. Act like you enjoy doing it. Your facial expressions & comments count for a lot.
3. Start slowly with a light touch, not a strangle hold, & gradually ramp it up from there.
4. Don't yank on that thing as if you're trying to separate it from his body. It's not a pull cord for a trolly bell.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Excellent points and very well said. The last part is especially pertinent — your tits or ears aren't handles for guys to pull, and his cock isn't a joystick which is unresponsive! Handle it gently and it'll respond better.

 

[Mike130]

Learn from the experts at a rub and tug massage parlor.

With the man on his stomach, lightly massage the back of his thighs and butt. At this point no oil is needed, just light stroking. As the guy relaxes his legs spread, encouraging further exploration. Light stroking of the inner thighs, ass crack, balls. Although these girls have done it a thousand times, it feels like they’re discovering something new all the time with their slow, sensuous strokes.

The man’s cock begins to harden, and he lifts up on his knees a bit. She reaches under, tentatively giving a few strokes to his stiffening member, maybe using the other hand to push a finger on his butthole.

The man is on all fours now, time to flip over. Now is the time for lube. Long strokes. Twisty strokes. Tits exposed for fondling. A few whispered dirty suggestions in his ear. More urgent stroking. Other hand fondling his balls.

He’s under her control now. She can make him cum in an instant, or edge him for hours. She sets the pace, controls the orgasm….

 

[Nellie60]

I have some advice that's probably more applicable to the women out there:
1. Enjoy doing it.
2. Act like you enjoy doing it. Your facial expressions & comments count for a lot.
3. Start slowly with a light touch, not a strangle hold, & gradually ramp it up from there.
4. Don't yank on that thing as if you're trying to separate it from his body. It's not a pull cord for a trolly bell.

Here's my top four from above.

1. 1 and 2
2. 1 and 2
3. 1 and 2
4. 1 and 2

Agree slowly build it up to edging and steadily faster strokes.

The times I enjoy instant faster strokes at beginning happens when we don't have the time, when I pull out and there are times I prefer that way.

 

[UtilityCurve]

AI have some advice that's probably more applicable to the women out there:
1. Enjoy doing it.
2. Act like you enjoy doing it. Your facial expressions & comments count for a lot.
3. Start slowly with a light touch, not a strangle hold, & gradually ramp it up from there.
4. Don't yank on that thing as if you're trying to separate it from his body. It's not a pull cord for a trolly bell.

I know I'm picking nits here, "but act like you enjoy it" just rubs me the wrong way (sorry, couldn't resist).

I'm okay with my female partner maybe indulging me when she's not feeling the urge I'm feeling (the women's magazines appear to uniformly agree, though, that engaging with a male partner aroused by you is itself arousing for girls), but I'm not and never will be okay with anything more than a fantasy/theatrical depiction of a woman doing anything she doesn't enjoy, hence never "acting."

Maybe you mean "showing?" I know letting go of the "good girl" persona is culturally difficult. That is hugely a shame in a committed relationship where both should feel instinctively comfortable to be honest about likes, dislikes, momentary needs, fantasies, etc.

But I'm not sure I want the technically most adept HJ from anyone if she's not eagerly awaiting the fireworks she has stoked and ignited. And if she is, I hope she looks like she is, too.

 

[IMNOTH]

Any suggestions?

My wife knows I like it slow. She has started edging me. Letting me cool down to savor every second. She also uses her toy/vibrator now. Either hands or toy gently massaging my balls with her mouth around the tip. Sooo good. After torturing me for awhile and I need that release I get a hybrid HJ/BJ. With her licking or sucking the tip she runs her toy along the underside of the shaft causing quite the explosion and gets every drop out of my balls.

 

[redy4fun60]

My wife knows I like it slow. She has started edging me. Letting me cool down to savor every second. She also uses her toy/vibrator now. Either hands or toy gently massaging my balls with her mouth around the tip. Sooo good. After torturing me for awhile and I need that release I get a hybrid HJ/BJ. With her licking or sucking the tip she runs her toy along the underside of the shaft causing quite the explosion and gets every drop out of my balls.

sounds amazing. you dont hapen to share her do you?

 

[VamPal1]

Ask him what he wants. Although, he may not even know what he wants.

 

[jassybb]

In my point of view, eye contact and constant verbal communication is the key. Stimulation of mind and body both go hand in hand, so use of words and voice is as important as hands. Also, a degree of control and confidence.

 

[Slickflboy07]

In my point of view, eye contact and constant verbal communication is the key. Stimulation of mind and body both go hand in hand, so use of words and voice is as important as hands. Also, a degree of control and confidence.

Yep that will pretty much do it!

 

[Celticlight]

In my point of view, eye contact and constant verbal communication is the key. Stimulation of mind and body both go hand in hand, so use of words and voice is as important as hands. Also, a degree of control and confidence.

I couldn’t agree more with this. I once had a very fun, unexpected (and slightly tipsy) conversation with a girl in a pub - she on a hen do, me on a stag do - where she asked this exact question. My answer was basically ‘take your time, take on relaxed authority, control and confidence’ - ultimately, the recipient is already very lucky to be being gratified like this, and if you can occupy their headspace, take charge and guide things, then they’re only going to feel more and more special. So whereas she was feeling pressure to ‘do it ok/well enough’, I was basically trying to get her to flip that thinking around - the more confident and in command you are, the more pleasurable they’ll find it, by and large.

Don’t get me wrong, there are physical elements that you want to get right, too But the mental side is so key as well

 

[cadman7777]

In my point of view, eye contact and constant verbal communication is the key. Stimulation of mind and body both go hand in hand, so use of words and voice is as important as hands. Also, a degree of control and confidence.

Perfect