How to get your partner to, and answers to other questions

[Baudie]

Q: How do I convince my partner to <sex act he/she doesn't have interest in>?
A: You probably can't.

Q: How do I ask my partner <something>?
A: Try speaking to him/her.

Q: My partner has a higher/lower libido than I, what do you think I should do?
A: Yeah it sucks. And it probably ain't gonna change. Deal with it, or move on.

Q: Is <thought or action> cheating?
A: If you find the need to ask, yes.

Please feel free to add or amend.

 

[Cattypuss]

Wow, so jaded and yet so new to Lit

 

[Baudie]

New to Lit, not new to life.

 

[CWatson]

Can we add this to the Blank Manual?

 

[Baudie]

-- Now typing words to make my post meet the minimum required message length...


What is the difference between a lesbian and a thespian? One is a cunnilingouist, the other a cunning linguist.

Not only was my sister a practicing thespian, but she would often masticate at the dinner table!

 

[roomfor1more]

Q: How do I convince my partner to <sex act he/she doesn't have interest in>?
A: You probably can't.

Q: How do I ask my partner <something>?
A: Try speaking to him/her.

Q: My partner has a higher/lower libido than I, what do you think I should do?
A: Yeah it sucks. And it probably ain't gonna change. Deal with it, or move on.

Q: Is <thought or action> cheating?
A: If you find the need to ask, yes.

Please feel free to add or amend.

Interesting thread, I thought I would add a few questions with answers that I come across on Lilterotica and chose to modify a few of your questions too.

Q: How do I ask my partner <something>?

A: We are not your partner and the best we can do is guess based on the information you provide. Since you are the only on here that knows your partner you are in a better position to answer this question than any of us here and therefore, you should speak to them.

Q: My wife is quite conservative but became really wet when she fantasized about another guy fucking her during foreplay and I want to arrange it for her, do you think it is a good idea?

A: If you cannot differentiate between fantasy and the reality of having threesome / cuckold experience then why ask, since cannot tell the difference between the two. Finally being conservative does not mean an authomatic 'no' to the idea since conservative people may be more likely to work through an issue in order to perserve a relationship then someone with a more liberal perspective.

Q: How do I convince my partner to have a threesome even though they stated they are not interested in the idea?

A: You cannot convince anyone to do anything that they do not want to do.

Q: I have been having a FWB (friends with benefit) relationship and now I am having feelings for them; however they are not reciprocating those feelings, why?

A: FWB is based on an incomplete attraction that is mainly physical rather than emotional. However along the way you began developing an emotional attachment to them but they did not reciprocate. Accept that they are not going to care for you in the same way you care for them and move on with your life instead of trying to figure out how to win them over.

 

[rbone04]

Can we add this to the Blank Manual?

I second this motion.

Bravo newcomer. Bravo.

 

[OzoneRed]

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