jason_shift
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Hi everyone!
Something happened to me the other day, I'd like to share and get some opinions.
It all started Friday night, My son was staying with realitives, and my wife and I were getting ready to head out for the night.
Just as we were getting ready to walk out of the house, the phone rings. My wife answers, and Immediatly, she walks out the front door, telling me to "hang on". So, I figured, great time for a smoke, so I walk out onto the porch, and light my smoke, she starts walking away, as if to avoid me. So, now I'm thinking "this is weird, she's acting like she dosen't want me to hear the convo."
So I follow, she keeps walking farther away. motioning to me with her hands as if to stop. I said WTF? Then went back inside, I knew she was hiding something from me at this point, And I was angry.
A few min later she enters the house, I say: "what was all that about?." she says: "Some girl who used to work where i do, somone told her I was making up rumors about her boyfriend cheating on her at work, I didn't want you to hear me having it out with her on the phone." At this point, I decided to trust my wife. "Ok, lets' go out."
On sunday afternoon, she comes to me, and drops th bomb.
"Honey, I lied to you about that phonecall the other night." I say: "Oh really?" She goes on:"She was really calling to bitch me out, becasue I've been kissing her husband at work."
*I was in shock now*
"But it wasn't anything more than kissing, and His wife made him quit his job because of this, So I won't be working with him anymore. I didn't sleep with him, It was just kissing."
Me:"So how long did this last?"
Her:"About 3 weeks. Started a month ago, and we ended it last week, when we both decided it was wrong, and we needed to tell our SO's, But It's over now, and I'm really sorry and I Love you and want to work this out."
Me:"Why did you do it?"
Her:"He gave me attention that I wasn't getting here, offered to take me to dinner, etc. etc. I'll understand if you want me to leave.
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So yea. It was an interesting sunday to say the least.
My problem here is, I really don't know what to do. I've been betrayed by the one who I put all my trust in. Not only did she cheat, for almost a month, coming home and kissing me afterwords, she was lying, straight to me face. That really gets to me.
We both work diffenent shifts, so it's hard to get in good time with each other, we've been married about a year, were dating 3 yrs before that. we have a wonderful son together as well. I don't want to throw it al away, but damnit, I don't know if anything she says is true now!
She just called about an hour ago to check in (she works night shift) And I asked her if he was there, an GUESS WHAT! he is. she said, well, "I thought he quit" . ......Come on!
I don't know. I'm confused, and I can't really think straight. any ideas, comments?
Something happened to me the other day, I'd like to share and get some opinions.
It all started Friday night, My son was staying with realitives, and my wife and I were getting ready to head out for the night.
Just as we were getting ready to walk out of the house, the phone rings. My wife answers, and Immediatly, she walks out the front door, telling me to "hang on". So, I figured, great time for a smoke, so I walk out onto the porch, and light my smoke, she starts walking away, as if to avoid me. So, now I'm thinking "this is weird, she's acting like she dosen't want me to hear the convo."
So I follow, she keeps walking farther away. motioning to me with her hands as if to stop. I said WTF? Then went back inside, I knew she was hiding something from me at this point, And I was angry.
A few min later she enters the house, I say: "what was all that about?." she says: "Some girl who used to work where i do, somone told her I was making up rumors about her boyfriend cheating on her at work, I didn't want you to hear me having it out with her on the phone." At this point, I decided to trust my wife. "Ok, lets' go out."
On sunday afternoon, she comes to me, and drops th bomb.
"Honey, I lied to you about that phonecall the other night." I say: "Oh really?" She goes on:"She was really calling to bitch me out, becasue I've been kissing her husband at work."
*I was in shock now*
"But it wasn't anything more than kissing, and His wife made him quit his job because of this, So I won't be working with him anymore. I didn't sleep with him, It was just kissing."
Me:"So how long did this last?"
Her:"About 3 weeks. Started a month ago, and we ended it last week, when we both decided it was wrong, and we needed to tell our SO's, But It's over now, and I'm really sorry and I Love you and want to work this out."
Me:"Why did you do it?"
Her:"He gave me attention that I wasn't getting here, offered to take me to dinner, etc. etc. I'll understand if you want me to leave.
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So yea. It was an interesting sunday to say the least.
My problem here is, I really don't know what to do. I've been betrayed by the one who I put all my trust in. Not only did she cheat, for almost a month, coming home and kissing me afterwords, she was lying, straight to me face. That really gets to me.
We both work diffenent shifts, so it's hard to get in good time with each other, we've been married about a year, were dating 3 yrs before that. we have a wonderful son together as well. I don't want to throw it al away, but damnit, I don't know if anything she says is true now!
She just called about an hour ago to check in (she works night shift) And I asked her if he was there, an GUESS WHAT! he is. she said, well, "I thought he quit" . ......Come on!
I don't know. I'm confused, and I can't really think straight. any ideas, comments?