How to convince a vanilla person to try bdsm

[kingem125]

How do I get my new male fuck buddy to try being kinky.... What if I sugguested he top.... I sugguested it to him and be like fuck no... What if I explained it to him

 

[kingem125]

How do I get my new male fuck buddy to try being kinky.... What if I sugguested he top.... I sugguested it to him and be like fuck no... What if I explained it to him, you know I explained to him topping and bottoming...... my old fuck buddy would whip me and he gave me a zipper omfg it's sooo good

 

[desertslave]

How do I get my new male fuck buddy to try being kinky.... What if I sugguested he top.... I sugguested it to him and be like fuck no... What if I explained it to him, you know I explained to him topping and bottoming...... my old fuck buddy would whip me and he gave me a zipper omfg it's sooo good

Not everyone is wired for top/bottom OR interested in indulging what might be lurking somewhere back in their psyche somewhere. Respect their boundaries.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Look for another fuck buddy for that.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

There is a plethora - nay, a myriad! - of threads on this topic (e.g., "How do I get my wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend/teacher/student/blahblahblah to be dominant/submissive/master/slave/blahblahblah?"). You'll find them in the BDSM Talk Library. Get thee hence and read every topic in the Library that remotely catches any scintilla of your interest. Then you too can be an expert on the BDSM culture and its activities.

 

[Stella_Omega]

You already asked this.

 

[Loverskitten]

The more kingem posts i read, the more I'm convinced it's 15 or just a joke and we're suckers.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Sexual desire doesn't have much to do with literacy skills. Or age, despite the laws.

At least he's enthusiastic.

 

[BiBunny]

The more kingem posts i read, the more I'm convinced it's 15 or just a joke and we're suckers.

I chalked this one up to a troll a long time ago. I figure people are bored, and that's why they're feeding it.

 

[subwannabe]

Your post is kind of chopped up, like trying to listen to someone on a cellphone that is going in and out. I don't know if you are a troll or not but at least you could "speak" in coherent sentences. Maybe you are just 15.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

And could someone please direct him to a decent spell-check program? I don't know any, because I learned how to spell a long (long, long, long) time ago.

 

[Redkate]

I'm a pretty crappy speller, but maybe re-reading the post before you post it would make it easier to understand.