How to blog?

I blog everyday, sometimes two or three times a day, I have been writing a blog for three years and in that I have got a devoted following.

I started blogging when I was an escort, but continued after I quit. Now I mostly blog on my adventures as an escort and polyamorous wife.

You can view my blog here:

http://bellaisabella15.wordpress.com/
 
I blog everyday, sometimes two or three times a day, I have been writing a blog for three years and in that I have got a devoted following.

I started blogging when I was an escort, but continued after I quit. Now I mostly blog on my adventures as an escort and polyamorous wife.

You can view my blog here:

http://bellaisabella15.wordpress.com/

That probably makes for much better blogging material than a SAHM, sort of aspiring writer like myself. :)
 
I have a "real life" blog and an adult blog for my writing hobby. I don't write on the adult blog very much anymore since my stories were lifted.

I blog three times a week on Mon, Wed, and Fri. Monday is Reader's Choice where I write on topics suggested by readers. Wednesday is on a topic that's part of a blogging circle where we all write on the same theme. And Friday is
where I talk about things that make me go WTF.

I like having a theme to write to. I used to do it more journal-style where I talked about what was going on, but it was really boring to me, I didn't have a lot of readers, and sometimes I had a lot of trouble thinking of anything to post so I'd go long stretches with nothing. Now that I post regularly I get a lot more regular readers.

Writing on a specific topic by a deadline is good exercise for my brain. Especially when a topic comes up that's less than inspiring to me.
 
My Blog is Strictly for Business

and is a review of any interesting tax cases I may have recently seen. I blog any time I find a case interesting, do a very quick summary and comment on the reasoning and facts with a view to helping the practitioner in the trenches. I don't write scholarly articles; I ain't no scholar.

In response to someone's request, I posted an extract from my blog (technically a blawg, a law blog) on the previous thread to which Penn Lady alluded. Anything less erotic would be difficult to imagine. But I did use the Tax Court hook for a Literotica story--Tax-Deductible Sex. Here's the link:
http://www.literotica.com/s/tax-deductible-sex
 
I like to attack awful books. If a book has an untenable premise, I find the premise, and go for the throat. The fun for me is the responses I get.
 
I blog about writing. I think it really helps to keep "on topic" about something -- start wittering on about your personal life and unless you're a celebrity/person of specific interest, it's going to get dull pretty soon.

I post my thoughts on writing in the erotic/romance/literary genres, my own fiction and other people's. It's part of trying to develop a platform as a writer. I try to post once or twice a week, and I check other people's blogs a few times a week to leave comments.

http://litfriction.blogspot.com/
 
That probably makes for much better blogging material than a SAHM, sort of aspiring writer like myself. :)

I'm in the same boat and I come up with stuff to write about all the time. Next week I'm going to talk about the online friends I've never met and why they're closer to me than some of my IRL friends. On Wednesday the topic is crafts and I'm planning to write about my crafting ADD and expose my Level 5 hoarding tendencies when it comes to craft supplies. And WTF Friday is probably going to be about my love for Charo unless something whatthefuckier comes up before then.

Plus I just finished knitting a couple of nice things and designed and wrote a pattern I'm shilling on Ravelry, so I'll probably push that this weekend as bonus knitting content.

If you have trouble thinking of things to write about, you can google "journal writing prompts" or "blog topic prompts" or something like that. There are whole sites of them out there if you're stuck.

You could put some random words in a hat and just pick one every day to say something about. Some of the topics I've been randomly given to write on were as simple and vague as "fire", "shoes", and "teachers". The challenge, of course, is to take something as dull as "shoes" and make it interesting somehow.

You can check it out here if you like.
 
I'm trying to keep up a blog. What do you blog about? How often? I know this was touched on in a recent thread, but I'm not sure I'm after the same thing. I can't blog every day -- I just don't have that much to say. And forget tweeting. So...how does one blog?

FYI, my blog is: http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3528225.Eve_McFadden/blog

Ask Charlie Sheen, he seems to have never-ending ideas. Okay, kidding. PL, think of a blog as your email updates - same stuff, just different delivery method. You could even "tempt" by giving glimpses of your stories to sell them. Just a thought. Don't think you'll have a problem.
 
Ask Charlie Sheen, he seems to have never-ending ideas. Okay, kidding. PL, think of a blog as your email updates - same stuff, just different delivery method. You could even "tempt" by giving glimpses of your stories to sell them. Just a thought. Don't think you'll have a problem.

I do not have tiger blood...I would not want to try to compete in that arena. ;)

Thanks, though. :) I think, as Firebrain and others said, I should make myself do it 2-3 times per week -- write a blog entry, I mean ;) -- b/c I probably would do better with a deadline. Great, I'll just pull more time out of thin air...most likely out of sleep. ;)

Here's another question -- right now my blog is at Goodreads.com. Anyone think it should be at wordpress or blog spot, or some similar place?
 
I do not have tiger blood...I would not want to try to compete in that arena. ;)

Thanks, though. :) I think, as Firebrain and others said, I should make myself do it 2-3 times per week -- write a blog entry, I mean ;) -- b/c I probably would do better with a deadline. Great, I'll just pull more time out of thin air...most likely out of sleep. ;)

Here's another question -- right now my blog is at Goodreads.com. Anyone think it should be at wordpress or blog spot, or some similar place?

FYI, the domain PennLadyBlog is available for 12$ a year.
 
I just switched from Blogger to Wordpress. I love it. I don't have any experience with Goodreads, though, so I can't compare there.
 
I'm trying to keep up a blog. What do you blog about? How often? I know this was touched on in a recent thread, but I'm not sure I'm after the same thing. I can't blog every day -- I just don't have that much to say. And forget tweeting. So...how does one blog?

FYI, my blog is: http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3528225.Eve_McFadden/blog

I am getting ready to launch my Author's website under a pen name and my wife thinks i should blog on it about upcoming projects and things like where I got the idea for the characters and even toss out a couple of "tidbits" about them that would never make it into print. Thing is first off time. I have a full time job my writing, a wife and 21/18 year old daughters one of whom has a trouble making boyfriend who is occupying way to much of my mind lately. Secondly I have to admit that i have always made fun of blogs. I mean if you have family out of state it's a great way to update them but otherwise for lack of a better word I always found them a bit "pathetic" although no where near as bad as twitter but I am now faced with "everyone else is doing it." Also for me I will be blogging as a female alter ego so it won;t even be all my crap. Think maybe I can make her some kind of slut and post "couldn't choose between guys last night so took them both?" This is something I did not have in mind when I started looking at writing as a second job.
 
Ask Charlie Sheen, he seems to have never-ending ideas. Okay, kidding. PL, think of a blog as your email updates - same stuff, just different delivery method. You could even "tempt" by giving glimpses of your stories to sell them. Just a thought. Don't think you'll have a problem.

You know I never drank "Tigers blood" but let me tell you I have had several periods in my life where if i was cut I would bleed pure Jack Daniels and I never came out with the shit this fucking lunatic spews. Then again I never had anyone following me around looking for quotes either so maybe I would have tried harder.
 
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What makes you think Old Charlie and his guys arent doing some teevee wrestling to keep the Roobs tuned in and talking about...Charlie?
 
Secondly I have to admit that i have always made fun of blogs. I mean if you have family out of state it's a great way to update them but otherwise for lack of a better word I always found them a bit "pathetic" although no where near as bad as twitter but I am now faced with "everyone else is doing it."

So blogging is sad, but writing incest stories are cool and cred-worthy, hmm? :p

Blogging and twittering are about networking and marketing. You'd be silly not to make the most of them as tools if you're planning on self publishing (or just publishing, in fact).
 
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So blogging is sad, but writing incest stories are cool and cred-worthy, hmm? :p

Blogging and twittering are about networking and marketing. You'd be silly not to make the most of them as tools if you're planning on self publishing (or just publishing, in fact).

As I've said somewhere -- forget to whom -- my time is limited, and I resent having to blog and such when I'd rather be writing. And of course there is the usual stuff -- dishes, kids, house, etc., that need to be dealt with. I'm trying to find a medium, but it's hard.

I can't imagine tweeting at the moment. Blogging is more like journaling, so I could handle that, but just random thoughts like people do on Twitter? God save me. For the record, I follow two things on Twitter: my son's school and Roger Ebert, although I did the latter pretty much only for the Oscars.
 
So blogging is sad, but writing incest stories are cool and cred-worthy, hmm? :p

Blogging and twittering are about networking and marketing. You'd be silly not to make the most of them as tools if you're planning on self publishing (or just publishing, in fact).

I never said I was cool, but now that you say that Blogging about incest stories would be the real double whammy. Pathetic and deviant.
Sad fact is that if I were to set up a fake blog and make it be about my daily fantasies about my sister (who I would also have to make up as I'm an only kid), even things like vivid descriptions of watching her undress or fuck her boyfriend I would have thousands reading it.

As for your last point alas it would be a smart business tool so to speak. I guess i could have fun with it as I'll be masquerading as a female. Maybe I can search on the site for a "ghost blogger"!
 
Long winded blog rant...

I'm not sure how you can say that blogs are pathetic without reading them. One of my relatives hasn't read a book since high school, and he tells me fairly frequently that books are boring. I'm not saying you have to necessarily like the blogs you've come across (or that I made a perfect comparison with that); I'm just saying that making a blanket statement is kind of silly, and maybe you should do some investigating.

I admit that I'm biased. I read close to thirty blogs with varying degrees of frequency (from every few hours to monthly), ranging from Andrew Sullivan and Greg Mankiw to Ask a Frenchman (no idea why, it's a recent obsession :eek:) and Puck Daddy (swoon). I don't watch tv for entertainment (well, except March Madness :D); I read blogs.

The best blogs, in my opinion, are those that include insights into a specific, pre-stated topic(s) that a reader would otherwise not have access to. In other words you, the blogger, have a specific knowledge base that you are sharing with the world. You entries should be delivered in an informal manner (no essays, please, unless you are Michael Chabon and are guest blogging... again, swoon), in real-time. Quirkiness is a bonus, as are random obsessions (e.g., Andrew Sullivan's beards or Puck Daddy's Friday Jersey Fouls).

I'm not saying you should tell us about the minutia of your daily life. In fact, please don't, unless you, I don't know, got an invite to the White House or had a random conversation with the creators of South Park or something.

For authors with the goal of promoting your work, I think blogging can include story background, insights into your own process, excerpts, some how-to's (I just looked at firebrain's blog, and she included her "dialogue this" how-to there) etc. So... why did you write a story about that song? Why did you name your Chinese-American character Dmitri; it's kind of weird, no? You wrote a sequel to Story A five years later; was Story B always in your mind? Also, if you cut out a bunch of background to make your story flow better, this might be a good place to put it. A blog, in other words, might be like the nifty dvd commentary you get from directors/writers/actors etc.

Not everyone will be interested in what you write, but if someone makes the effort to go to your blog, they either a) really liked your stories and want to know more, in which case you are making a reader happy and perhaps more likely to read your future work, or b) someone is considering looking at your stories, in which case the more you can do to sell them with your blog, the better.

I think some updates are good, but too many without other information (X is up! check it out!) and your blog reads like a boring twitter feed, and people will stop checking.


Oh, and PS: There is a danger to blogging, of course; start spouting off about politics etc. and you might lose readers, so try and keep that stuff to a minimum.

And PPS: I think it might get dull if you are always blogging about the same, long running story, but that could be just me. Variety: the spice of life and blogs.
 
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I'm not sure how you can say that blogs are pathetic without reading them. One of my relatives hasn't read a book since high school, and he tells me fairly frequently that books are boring. I'm not saying you have to necessarily like the blogs you've come across (or that I made a perfect comparison with that); I'm just saying that making a blanket statement is kind of silly, and maybe you should do some investigating.

I admit that I'm biased. I read close to thirty blogs with varying degrees of frequency (from every few hours to monthly), ranging from Andrew Sullivan and Greg Mankiw to Ask a Frenchman (no idea why, it's a recent obsession :eek:) and Puck Daddy (swoon). I don't watch tv for entertainment (well, except March Madness :D); I read blogs.

The best blogs, in my opinion, are those that include insights into a specific, pre-stated topic(s) that a reader would otherwise not have access to. In other words you, the blogger, have a specific knowledge base that you are sharing with the world. You entries should be delivered in an informal manner (no essays, please, unless you are Michael Chabon and are guest blogging... again, swoon), in real-time. Quirkiness is a bonus, as are random obsessions (e.g., Andrew Sullivan's beards or Puck Daddy's Friday Jersey Fouls).

I'm not saying you should tell us about the minutia of your daily life. In fact, please don't, unless you, I don't know, got an invite to the White House or had a random conversation with the creators of South Park or something.

For authors with the goal of promoting your work, I think blogging can include story background, insights into your own process, excerpts, some how-to's (I just looked at firebrain's blog, and she included her "dialogue this" how-to there) etc. So... why did you write a story about that song? Why did you name your Chinese-American character Dmitri; it's kind of weird, no? You wrote a sequel to Story A five years later; was Story B always in your mind? Also, if you cut out a bunch of background to make your story flow better, this might be a good place to put it. A blog, in other words, might be like the nifty dvd commentary you get from directors/writers/actors etc.

Not everyone will be interested in what you write, but if someone makes the effort to go to your blog, they either a) really liked your stories and want to know more, in which case you are making a reader happy and perhaps more likely to read your future work, or b) someone is considering looking at your stories, in which case the more you can do to sell them with your blog, the better.

I think some updates are good, but too many without other information (X is up! check it out!) and your blog reads like a boring twitter feed, and people will stop checking.


Oh, and PS: There is a danger to blogging, of course; start spouting off about politics etc. and you might lose readers, so try and keep that stuff to a minimum.

And PPS: I think it might get dull if you are always blogging about the same, long running story, but that could be just me. Variety: the spice of life and blogs.

Hey hope I'm not crashing a thread I'm sort of new and just venturing out of the personals. I kind of know where the other guy is coming from. I'm sort of the type to think that blogging or twitter and even facebook is a bit silly. I just don't understand wanting to put that much of yourself out there for people to read. I don't think my life or anyone else is all that interesting to anyone but that person
 
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Very short answer to your rant. I said that admittedly I- as in me- have always found them to be a bit pathetic. I am the only person I speak for and opinions vary. Hell I used to own a comic book store so insert your pathetic or geek joke here everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Lovecraft? Is that you? Are you alting on us?

In all seriousness, you should check some blogs out. Lots of bloggers are nerds; trust me, comic books come up a lot, even on non-comic book blogs (and there are a lot of those).
 
I'm not sure how you can say that blogs are pathetic without reading them. One of my relatives hasn't read a book since high school, and he tells me fairly frequently that books are boring. I'm not saying you have to necessarily like the blogs you've come across (or that I made a perfect comparison with that); I'm just saying that making a blanket statement is kind of silly, and maybe you should do some investigating.

I admit that I'm biased. I read close to thirty blogs with varying degrees of frequency (from every few hours to monthly), ranging from Andrew Sullivan and Greg Mankiw to Ask a Frenchman (no idea why, it's a recent obsession :eek:) and Puck Daddy (swoon). I don't watch tv for entertainment (well, except March Madness :D); I read blogs.

The best blogs, in my opinion, are those that include insights into a specific, pre-stated topic(s) that a reader would otherwise not have access to. In other words you, the blogger, have a specific knowledge base that you are sharing with the world. You entries should be delivered in an informal manner (no essays, please, unless you are Michael Chabon and are guest blogging... again, swoon), in real-time. Quirkiness is a bonus, as are random obsessions (e.g., Andrew Sullivan's beards or Puck Daddy's Friday Jersey Fouls).

I'm not saying you should tell us about the minutia of your daily life. In fact, please don't, unless you, I don't know, got an invite to the White House or had a random conversation with the creators of South Park or something.

For authors with the goal of promoting your work, I think blogging can include story background, insights into your own process, excerpts, some how-to's (I just looked at firebrain's blog, and she included her "dialogue this" how-to there) etc. So... why did you write a story about that song? Why did you name your Chinese-American character Dmitri; it's kind of weird, no? You wrote a sequel to Story A five years later; was Story B always in your mind? Also, if you cut out a bunch of background to make your story flow better, this might be a good place to put it. A blog, in other words, might be like the nifty dvd commentary you get from directors/writers/actors etc.

Not everyone will be interested in what you write, but if someone makes the effort to go to your blog, they either a) really liked your stories and want to know more, in which case you are making a reader happy and perhaps more likely to read your future work, or b) someone is considering looking at your stories, in which case the more you can do to sell them with your blog, the better.

I think some updates are good, but too many without other information (X is up! check it out!) and your blog reads like a boring twitter feed, and people will stop checking.


Oh, and PS: There is a danger to blogging, of course; start spouting off about politics etc. and you might lose readers, so try and keep that stuff to a minimum.

And PPS: I think it might get dull if you are always blogging about the same, long running story, but that could be just me. Variety: the spice of life and blogs.

Short answer to your rant. Notice that I said that I-as in me- think of blogging as a little pathetic. I can and do only speak for myself. Everyone has their own opinion on things. Hell I used to own a comic book store so insert pathetic/geek comment here. No need to take anything personally. As for your comments about it being useful to promote ones work i did say that i will ultimately end up doing it. Put up little behind the scenes things, discuss the characters a bit. I unfortunately really only have the long running series at the moment so maybe it will get dull or pathetic even. There is an author on this site who i will not mention other than that he is also writing an incest series and he created a blog. I went to it and well first off this guy is as arrogant as they come and the entire blog is people stroking his ego and him answering as if he were Jesus giving the sermon on the mount. I also noticed the few people who posted some disappointment in his work he did not answer. I think I kind of started equating blogging in that case with feeling a little to important about yourself. But then again this guy isn't selling anything I guess it's different as a marketing tool.
 
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