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How popular are blowjobs, actually?

I haven't had a lot of partners over the years, been married now a long time. I've never really enjoyed the BJ's I received. I do enjoy having a pair of soft thighs wrapped around my head and sex is fun. BJ's, not so much. I assumed it was just the women I was with weren't really into it.
 
I enjoy a good blowjob, but never expect it of my wife. If she's in the mood to give one she will, or if I ask she'll usually oblige. Of the handful of women I've received oral from, only one ws able to actually get me off with it.

As much as I like getting oral, I like giving it far more, so more often than not I'll eat my wife out without getting oral in return. Doesn't bother me any.
 
I enjoy them alot and it's definitely one of the things that has caused ne to stray over the years.
I like pussy, enjoy it immensely and love feeling, watching and hearing a woman orgasm.
To not return the favor just isn't right in my mind.
Now with that said some women just flat out are terrible at it because in my eyes they don't desire to do it.
Some are so good you have to pull them off if you don't want to blow so fast.
 
Blowjobs are popular for good reason! I’ve had my cock sucked by every lover I’ve had, including one nighters. My SO stopped wanting to give and receive head a long time ago and I respect it absolutely. I miss it but not as much as I might have imagined. I also have up booze to be with her and that’s great too.

I love fantasies about giving and receiving orally, the control and sensitivity one has with one’s mouth seems unique.
 
My wife loves doing it but finds me to be way too girthy to enjoy it as much as with past boyfriends. I am 6 1/4 inches around, which is simply too thick to make BJ’s comfortable for my partners. … And the teeth scraping is no fun for me. Yeah, a big dick ain't all it's cracked up to be.

It should come as no surprise that many women enjoy doing it… Seems pretty logical given that most men enjoy going down on a woman. I do wonder where this impulse comes from - ie. why evolution made us crave such a thing? Anyway… I’m sure glad it did :)
 
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A big part of the appeal of BJ's is the mere idea of what your partner is doing to you - ie., taking your dick into in her mouth is sooooo intimate and it conveys an extreme amount of desire for you. But if judged simply by how it feels, I'd think a good, heavily-lubed handjob would win out - for me anyway.
 
I would say over 90% were good at sucking dick and I had a lot of woman with my cock in their mouth. Most were moms.

But the worst was the last person I would think sucks at sucking dick: married swinger. I mean she was just bad at it. Her pussy could take a pounding. But blowjobs ugh!
 
Oral sex is pretty much the foundation of my 20 year marriage sex life. I mean we do all the usual sex regularly, but about 80% of our time during sex is one of us giving oral to the other as we both love giving and receiving. Often we'll go back to it again after vaginal sex a few times as well too. She prefers intercourse orgasms and I prefer oral ones, so we mix it up. We both like both! If you put a gun to my head and said I could only put my dick in a mouth or a pussy for the rest of my life I would choose mouth no question (but I'd still miss the other).
 
JudyCD said:
I like the feel and taste. Also it’s a very friendly thing to do to help someone feel intense pleasure followed by relaxation. Also it makes me feel like a sexy woman which is very erotic.
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I have not taken a load yet but I agree on the feminine thought. in my mind I am doing what a woman does Blowjob (yes I know that anyone can suck on a cock or a breast but I am saying what I feel). I dont want to be a woman, I like being a man but have a feminine side.
 
I wish I enjoyed BJ's more, since they're so easy to get. Some of these people aren't bad suckers, either, but all of them have a hard time getting me off with their mouth.
 
WeShallUnclench said:
Those who have suckable dicks - do you enjoy bjs? Are they important for you, in terms of fulfilling your sexual desires? Have your partners actually been any good at it?
Do you like it in fiction/imagination more than in reality?
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I absolutely enjoy blowjobs! There's so much to enjoy. It's a different feeling than vaginal or anal sex, and the girl can do so much to adjust the sensations; e.g. applying more pressure with her tongue, moving/swirling her tongue, adjusting the depth she takes the cock, apply more pressure/suction with her lips, etc. As long as she avoids the teeth, there' just so many methods she can use to make it feel great.

In terms of fulfilling my sexual desires, blowjobs are very important to me in that area. Basically, while she obviously isn't required to do it all the time, I want a girl who is open to (and hopefully excited about) doing it for me anytime - in the morning, at night, before sex, during sex, after sex, in the car, on the couch watching tv, in the park at night (once in a while for added excitement), pretty much any time. It just feels great, so when we're talking about desires, it shouldn't be a surprise that 'often' and 'enthusiastic' are probably the top descriptors when a guy is asked what kind of blowjobs he likes. I have lucked out and been fortunate be involved with a few girls that were really great cocksuckers, i.e. happily did it pretty much whenever I wanted, had great technique, and swallowed every time.
 
I have found with most of the guys I have been with, a blowjob is expected. That being said, I do like to give them. I find it very arousing to have a cock in my mouth and I love to play with it.

I’ll kiss the head. Cup the balls, stroke it with my hand while taking it deeper and deeper into my mouth. Suckling on the head.

I like to get the guy worked up and it does make me aroused, moist and ready for cock
 
Enjoy blowjobs. They feel great.

But I last a long time, and only two women have made me cum from them. A woman in the 90s I was with (she gave great head, and it was from her I learned that I should signal when I’m gonna cum).

My wife gives great head too. It didn’t start that way, but thru good communication she got a lot better. We’ve also watched a few BJ tutorials together.

She doesn’t blow me every single time we have sex… but maybe 1/4 a 1/3 of the times, so maybe 1-2x a month.

She is not crazy abt the taste of cum but she will let me give her a facial every so often.

Sometimes she cleans me off after a long vigorous session if I haven’t cum.

We practice orgasm control so I typically don’t cum during sex. I cum 1-2x a month.
 
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