Wife always starts by sucking my cock. Must say, she’s gotten better at it over the years, even to the point of edging. I won’t ask how she gained additional skills but it’s certainly enjoyable. We’ve also snowballed. I think a blow job is a necessity component of lovemaking along with the reciprocal, licking pussy. Hand jobs are great too because you can add the element of talking dirty, you never should talk with your mouth full.